Has Anyone Else Just Given Up And Lost Hope On Dating/Love?

[DatLBCGuy562]

Yet another female got thrown into the bushes tonight. At this point I can almost predict the outcome with these women.

They all start off nice, sweet, and promising that they're "different" than the other women out there.

Then, like clockwork, their true selves emerge. When they get comfortable, upset, or tired of faking nice, they start showing how petty, argumentative, flaky, etc. they can truly be.

I'm 38 and getting. I'm becoming jaded and cynical when it comes to females. I'm sure there are good women out there, somewhere. But what are my chances of meeting them??

I think I'm gonna focus on my health and raising my daughter. This may be it for me brehs. I've had a good run

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Dam 38 u never been married got no kids

 

[Critical Distance]

You had a good run.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Dam 38 u never been married got no kids

I'm in the same place. It's not so bad. No ex-wives no kids looks good on a dating resume. Throw in some money and a "different" vibe and you can eat to your heart's content.

I would like one nice one tho.

OP, my advice.... start dating women that aren't physically attractive.

I know I know, but on the real... I started dating a legit ugly chick last month and tbh I'm happier with her than I have been in a long time.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Dam 38 u never been married got no kids

I have one daughter. Been engaged a few times, but always got cold feet when I talked to men at my job who were in miserable marriages or who lost half their shyt and were now living in squalor due to choosing the wrong mate. shyt absolutely terrified me....

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

You had a good run.

Where does the time go?

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

I have one daughter. Been engaged a few times, but always got cold feet when I talked to men at my job who were in miserable marriages or who lost half their shyt and were now living in squalor due to choosing the wrong mate. shyt absolutely terrified me....

U did ur thing fam u ultimately want to get married have more kids

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

I'm in the same place. It's not so bad. No ex-wives no kids looks good on a dating resume. Throw in some money and a "different" vibe and you can eat to your heart's content.

I would like one nice one tho.

OP, my advice.... start dating women that aren't physically attractive.

I know I know, but on the real... I started dating a legit ugly chick last month and tbh I'm happier with her than I have been in a long time.

You may be on to something breh. My uncle always told me ugly women treat you well. Pretty women are too much high maintenance/headache. Can't see myself with a super ugly woman , but she doesn't have to be prime Beyonce fine. Just don't look like the damn crypt keeper. Smh. At this point, that superficial shyt is mostly secondary. I just want a chill, thoughtful, non argumentative, easy going woman to spend my time with. Doesn't make much to make me happy...

 

[BaldingSoHard]

You may be on to something breh. My uncle always told me ugly women treat you well. Pretty women are too much high maintenance/headache. Can't see myself with a super ugly woman , but she doesn't have to prime Beyonce fine. At this point, that superficial shyt is mostly secondary. I just want a chill, thoughtful, non argumentative, easy going woman to spend my time with. Doesn't make much to make me happy...

Man I swear to god.... I've always put looks first and look at me... 38 and never even been engaged, breh.

Yea, I've had dimes. But I've also had MANY sleepless nights on account of those dimes.

This chick... I mean... her face is beat. it is what it is. But she stays in shape and she treats me like... breh I don't even know. For the first time in a long time there's reciprocity. There's genuine "giving a fukk about what you want" coming from the female side of the relationship. I'm not worried about where she is or what she's doing because she's a quality woman. The main difference is that she wants both of us to be happy instead of her. It's wild...it's wonderful... and I want to take the next step with her.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

The online side of things, kinda.

I'll let the swole good looking nikkas have that


The real life random meet up/chop up sessions still going strong tho...somehow

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Man I swear to god.... I've always put looks first and look at me... 38 and never even been engaged, breh.

Yea, I've had dimes. But I've also had MANY sleepless nights on account of those dimes.

This chick... I mean... her face is beat. it is what it is. But she stays in shape and she treats me like... breh I don't even know. For the first time in a long time there's reciprocity. There's genuine "giving a fukk about what you want" coming from the female side of the relationship. I'm not worried about where she is or what she's doing because she's a quality woman. The main difference is that she wants both of us to be happy instead of her. It's wild...it's wonderful... and I want to take the next step with her.

It seems like you found a good one. Nothing in this world like when you meet a woman and you guys are in sync and everything just flows and feels right. There are good women out there. But they are rare and far and few in between. Hold on to her breh. Salute

 

[BaldingSoHard]

It seems like you found a good one. Nothing in this world like when you meet a woman and you guys are in sync and everything just flows and feels right. There are good women out there. But they are rare and far and few in between. Hold on to her breh. Salute

Yea breh.

That face tho .

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

 

[ba'al]

I feel the same way og. And I'm young. I just want something physical. Most Girls in my age range ain't got nothing to offer. A bunch of chicken heads. Women are only as good and loyal as their options allow them to be tbh. It's still a few gems out their but they're hard to find.