Honest discussion about black women's issues/contempt with black men

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I think the reason there is contempt (on both sides), is because we are using white standards to hold each other up to. A good number of us weren't raised in two parent households, so we have "learn" to be wives and husbands, yet we want a ready made spouse. It's less likely that black men will be able to be the sole provider and that's ok. It's less likely a black woman will be submissive and that's ok. We could really get along well if we customized our relationships to work based on the individuals capabilities and not societal expectations.
 

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giggle in response to someone disrespecting your brothers brehs

Being real, I don't understand how some of you bother with bitter and toxic black women. They can ruin a man whole perception of women and turn men into a male version of what they are. Bitter, angry, and constantly looking for reasons to be mad at the opposite sex. My advice is to stay away from them or limit contact with them as much as possible.
 

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You looking for women to change pre conceived notions, and it’s not going to happen, a lot of women believe that there are no good men, or because she has a degree or two she’s some how better than you. You can try to fight this narrative and the many other false ones, but it’s a losing battle, you have to do you, and let things fall where they may, a lot of women will get mad at a dude for dating outside of race, but will have 3-4 nikkas who are dying to date her and she’s curving the shyt out of them, because it’s not the one she wants, i have a home boy who dated this girl, we both knew, who basically was like he’s too good of a guy, go figure, (and i won’t get into the repeated argument about simps, because every man on the coli is a og pimp dime fukker, but for regular nikkas, they actually like a girl and actually show it) but i remember a conversation about a good 6 months before where she was like where the good men at I’m ready to date white boys.
 

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Op should be negged until he learns to troll properly.:martin:
Op begging for negs like:feedme:
 
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I think people on both sides of the argument are taking conversations that are being had on the internet by a very small but vocal audience and applying it to real life. Statistics still show that Black men/women still marry & date amongst each other at a higher rate then interracially. Also, what @Poitier has stated, it should always be considered that we still live in a system that disproportionately targets black(s) men & women so of course you'll statistically have less educated Black men in the dating pool.

At the end of the day, date/marry who you want to marry and stop looking for reasons to make other people happy. If you choose to date out, make sure you do it without throwing your brothers & sisters under the bus to make your partner's race feel comfortable i.e. don't be a c00n.
 

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love is a lie the way it's most commonly presented

women love what they believe a man can do for them

whoever simps harder & tricks more will catch many of these strays

only .1% of females are capable of true love & reciprocation

a relationship is just a means to an end

a come up

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Sounds machiavellian :ohhh:
 

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Thread finna backfire right into the Bushes...

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Some black women gave up on fighting white supremacy and decided to c00n.

Her views ignore the effects of racist white mens actions and just paint black men as the real bad guy.

Just classify her as a c00n and keep it moving. Dwelling on her and begging her to stop c00ning won’t do much. You gotta shut them down at large.

What we need is to gain more power so we can punish c00ns. That’s the solution.
 
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