Honest discussion about black women's issues/contempt with black men

GrindtooFilthy

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Look i see y'all points yea, but the problem is people come in and try saying one side is completely innocent and the other side is completely wrong, until we take responsibility for our actions instead of either keeping score or pointing fingers, this shyt will continue and it's only getting worse imo
Don't waste your time. Real nikkas like you and me and also the shorties bout it bout it gonna come around do what's necessarily to build, everyone else still wanna be on some little kid shyt

At this point I don't even bother what is known doesn't have to be said it will get done instead.
 

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I've been to/lived in so many :mjpls: areas that I don't care what black women do regarding their perceptions of black men or their dating lives. As long as the black woman I'm with has a :mjpls: free ho-fax... :manny:
 
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You say a lot, but like I always say black male leadership is lacking.

Even in places where black people are majority. My biggest issue with some black men in authority is their unwarranted arrogance and the fact they want to be praised for the absolute minimum.

You look at the black experience anywhere besides US and there is a consistent theme. Any race can screw black people over with the complicity of many black male leadership.

Interracial racial is only a minute issue for me. In the grand scheme because it is byproduct not the root of the problem that I have of black men globally.

At least this self admitted Kenyan bedwench is talking about her own ethnicity for once.

Last time she got blasted for copy & pasting her taking points against AA men she had no interaction with.

I wonder why thecoli draws so many mentally ill bird brains.

:stopitslime:
 

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At least this self admitted Kenyan bedwench is talking about her own ethnicity for once.

Last time she got blasted for copy & pasting her taking points against AA men she had no interaction with.

I wonder why thecoli draws so many mentally ill bird brains.

:stopitslime:
They don't a real connection/conversation with black man in real life so they come in here to understand some of our mindset and to belittle us like they wish they could attempt offline but clearly don't
 

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giggle in response to someone disrespecting your brothers brehs

Being real, I don't understand how some of you bother with bitter and toxic black women. They can ruin a man whole perception of women and turn men into a male version of what they are. Bitter, angry, and constantly looking for reasons to be mad at the opposite sex. My advice is to stay away from them or limit contact with them as much as possible.
 

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So wait, you basically gave this random, anonymous black woman a full list of black men you knew who were either dating out or (stereotypically) dating nothing but light and/or racially ambiguous women, then propped yourself up as the lone brother to date his own in your circle? Am I getting thi right? Tf are you confused about?
 

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Anyway, some dudes are convinced that they are winning because they have pawgs/mixed women in their arms.

Every women that I know personally that have been with black men all ended up divorced and raising kids on their own. This is why I am not impressed by conversations of dating non black women.

I don’t see these black men treating these non black women any better in relationships than they do black women long term. Perhaps in the immediate they get treated better but that’s it.

Anyway, I wouldn’t have approached the way she did. In fact, I wouldn’t phrase it that way because the real issue isn’t the interracial relationships.

It’s everything else...lack of vision outside of immediate satisfaction. I see this same behaviour from men raised in two parent households overall.


So I don’t know what @GrindtooFilthy is alluding last I checked Nigeria is a patriarchal country. Many men are raised in two parent households but everything I say about black men and leadership still applies.

If Nigeria was so great you would be living there and not abroad.

Again black men collectively lack consistent leadership. Everyday we have stories pop up on how screwed black male leaders are in making their populations vulnerable.

Selfishness/nearsightedness of black men leaders is a problem that dates from a long time.

Coli loves blaming single mothers in the US loook at black populations globally, there isn’t much difference in these black male led households outside of America in producing leaders collectively.
 
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Anyway, some dudes are convinced that they are winning because they have pawgs/mixed women in their arms.

Every women that I know personally that have been with black men all ended up divorced and raising kids on their own. This is why I am not impressed by conversations of dating non black women.

I don’t see these black men treating these non black women any better in relationships than they do black women long term. Perhaps in the immediate they get treated better but that’s it.

Anyway, I wouldn’t have approached the way she did. In fact, I wouldn’t phrase it that way because the real issue isn’t the interracial relationships.

It’s everything else...lack of vision outside of immediate satisfaction. I see this same behaviour from men raised in two parent households overall.


So I don’t know what @GrindtooFilthy is alluding last I checked Nigeria is a patriarchal country. Many men are raised in two parent households but everything I say about black men and leadership still applies.

If Nigeria was so great you would be living there and not abroad.

Again black men collectively lack consistent leadership. Everyday we have stories pop up on how screwed black male leaders are in making their populations vulnerable.

Selfishness/nearsightedness of black men leaders is a problem that dates from a long time.

Coli loves blaming single mothers in the US loook at black populations globally, there isn’t much difference in these black male led households outside of America in producing leaders collectively.
Before this goes in further detail the leadership you talking about.
 

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Before this goes in further detail the leadership you talking about.

How well versed are you in global politics? Cause what I am about to say has to be viewed from a global context and not solely from the perspective of the US or Western countries.
 

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How well versed are you in global politics? Cause what I am about to say has to be viewed from a global context and not solely from the perspective of the US or Western countries.
Eh.... Moderately
 

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Blame ya mama. Black women were all on that miss independent shyt in 90s and 00s.
Nikkas was just strolling on by like
"You go girl":wow:

Now y'all wanna turn around like "Where y'all at?":damn:

A lot of dudes checked out physically or mentally. A generation of leaders was not raised. So why would you expect them to be that now?
This is true to an extent but these c00ns will use this to pawg when white women are the biggest feminists:deadmanny:
 
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