HONEST QUESTION: Are You Comfortable With Getting Old & Dying Alone?

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I agree with this, and hold the same viewpoint, but I also am realizing there are very few women who will love me for just me, AKA my personality, mindset alone. Without other couplings (finances, build, etc.), being a base level most will jump ship, and I'm not comfortable with committing to that at all. Meeting a girl and taking her serious after I'm making 70K+, debt-free, in even better shape, is going to be a hard ask it not impossible but mad improbable. She'd have to toss a no hitter so to speak.

Plenty of men in shape who make money have good women. Don’t you care about a woman’s appearance? Would you date an unattractive fat woman with a great personality? There is no such thing as dating just for personality if you are building a life together. Mortgages, insurance, food, utilities don’t care about your personality.

 

[Lord_nikon]

you will not be alone, " morphine "

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

I feel this and as corny as it sounds if there are things I have to withhold from my girl whhhhhhhaaaaaats the point? If I can't be me that I am alone in my room with a woman, then I don't need nor want one. Just fwb and rosters till I reach the horizon

I say this all the time and women collectively begin to lose their shyt, I’m sorry but I’m not stopping or putting my life on hold because I know at the end of it all it will kill me inside to have to try and realize the things that I truly aspired for

 

[CouldBeWorse]

If you can't be happy by yourself, life will just be harder than it has to be.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

i would prefer to die at an old age with my children, my grandchildren and my great grandchildren around me because I would want to be surrounded by those I love and those who love me.


unfortunately that’s not always the way it works in this life so it’s not a matter of dying alone for me but when i die i want to make sure that my life ends with me satisfied at where it ended.

Whether I’m alone or surrounded by a legacy I helped create, I want to make sure I’m happy with its ending.


That’s the way I see it. I want to die with no regrets. You can have regrets with family or without one.

 

[shopthatwrecks]

i wanna die like mrs ciely daddy

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

Plenty of men in shape who make money have good women. Don’t you care about a woman’s appearance? Would you date an unattractive fat woman with a great personality? There is no such thing as dating just for personality if you are building a life together. Mortgages, insurance, food, utilities don’t care about your personality.

1. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
2. This is why people need to be equally yolked

 

[Devilinurear]

I'm curious, it's probably been asked before and I realized midway through high school, I'm fine without a SO or children and if I can't get it on my terms it's simply not happening. Given the discourse on dating/relationships on this site, I wanna see where people stand as well as their reasoning. Imma tag a few of the stronger/well articulated opinions on the site that I can think of off the top of my head, and invite y'all to do the same. THIS AIN'T A DEBATE, WRONG/RIGHT, just gaining perspective on each other
@Hennessypapi
@Youseenmywork
@ThrobbingHood
@neotheflyingone
@Cacdestroyer
@tuckdog
@Booksnrain
@Nicole0416
@Chelsea Bridge
@Lady.Libra.
@Elle Driver
@Elle Seven

Discuss fam

I am not comfortable with death but if iam alone or with someone it does not make a difference to me.

 

[Diondon]

All I know is depending on relatives other than your kids to take care of you is
Your kids can ghost on you too
but yeah

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

1. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
2. This is why people need to be equally yolked

Ok, the better description is attracted to. I think people need to be honest about their situation, and if they want better, they need to do better. As men, we can’t wear makeup, but staying in shape, having clear skin, and straight white teeth can go a long way.

 

[Youngblood Priest]

I always said I came in the world by myself, so......

 

[Sex Luthor]

I think I'd be more worried about dying and not so much about who is around me

 

[Soundbwoy]

Tbh I recently broke up with my girlfriend because I couldn’t see myself with her in the future I would’ve probably died from an early death I’d rather die alone than die because of a miserable relationship

 

[SnowflakesByTheOZ]

Yea I'm okay with it. I don't want a wife (I don't even want a gf, just p*ssy occasionally) or kids. Never had any desire to, maybe because I was an only child, who knows but yea I'm perfectly fine with dying "alone"

 

[Elim Garak]

Yes what difference does it make if you still die? My only concern is passing away when im still young or living until such an advance age where life is not enjoyable.