How do you get a mouthpiece?

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

OP quit tryna go above your pay grade talking to women thats clearly out your league.

I mean... that's why you can't talk, right? Has to be. Cause I'm sure when you run into an ugly woman at work or on the street or at the store or in the mall, you aint got no issues talking to them.

So why you got an issue talking to a woman that you like?

Cause you obviously feel you don't deserve her and you aint on her level.

I didn't say it. You did in a round about way.


So the way I sees it. You got 2 options

Either level up

Or talk to women that you feel are actually on your level or below you

Problem solved

 

[Mike Nasty]

Don't be yourself. Learn how to structure a conversation, learn how to be interesting. You shouldn't have poo poo'd pua if you're 23 and never had a gf.

 

[BossmanChad]

Like on average an hour a day. I talk about my passion for movies and music and how I love to paint. I usually start off with a witty pun.

If the topic veers into serious stuff, then I talk about social justice.

I used to ask if I can hang out with girls within the first week at a cafe but I found out that it maybe creepy to them because I usually get excuses and then get straight up ghosted shortly after

Trust me some girls will be cool with you asking right away (small minority though). But try to be as direct as possible.

Start the conversations in the evening, they are more likely to be home bored watching Netflix or shyt like that.

You're starting very well with the witty puns and passions in common, just avoid the social justice/political talk or at least keep it very light, in due time you'll figure out where they fall politically.

With each message you send you have to advance towards your goal. Here's my "script":

1. Starter (witty or something in her profile)

2. Ask what she's up to lately

3. Ask how she spends most of her week ( you want to know if she's a student/professional or none of these things)

4. Ask how's the rest of her week looking like? ( If her reply is just "I'll be very busy this week" and nothing else, she's not interested, if she says something like "I'll be going out with friends this weekend but have nothing planned for next week..." She's expecting you to ask her out)

5 Ask for the number, no Instagram/Snapchat or any of that bullshyt.

You can get a girl's number in 2-3 days on average if not immediately in some cases.

 

[Juliano Soprano]

One of the first dating myths you’ll debunk when you get out there is thinking you need some prolific game to get at girls, i remember i used to work on slick pickup lines in HS that never really worked Women like all types of men, whether you’re an introvert or extrovert, it’s just all about being confident and comfortable in your skin. You can say very little and just focus on listening and bring some random thing up she said in the past and she’ll love you for it.

Nas said it best.
It’s mandatory/ see that p*ssy they hand it to me/ ain’t got no game it’s just some bytches understand my story ~ NaS

 

[number21]

Just talk to a female and have fun with it.

You be the main one talking how me and others are incels but you can't talk to a female. Damn goofy.

 

[R=G]

I am myself. Idk I just suck at holding conversations tbh.

Go Asian

 

[number21]

Like on average an hour a day. I talk about my passion for movies and music and how I love to paint. I usually start off with a witty pun.

If the topic veers into serious stuff, then I talk about social justice.

I used to ask if I can hang out with girls within the first week at a cafe but I found out that it maybe creepy to them because I usually get excuses and then get straight up ghosted shortly after

You get ghosted because you're taking it too serious with these females off rip.

Talking social justice topics and heavy topics in that range within hours of connecting? That ain't fun in their eyes.

These chicks are looking for fun breh. No matter what they say.

So always keep thing light and fun until she invest into you breh.

 

[hostsamurai]

What's between that and being thirsty?

I'm a delivery driver so I think that's an ok job right?

A man that puts out good work and talks to women, does so because the goal is talking and learning about the things you do well at and the things you suck at. You can then put the reps in for the things you suck at during conversations. I sucked at telling stories and having a loud voice. So I learned to sing a bit, read a book or two on storytelling and applied that in conversations.



As far as being thirsty goes, just because you start a conversation doesn't mean you want that girls number or facebook. Your goal isn't get a number or convert it into getting coffee or jamba juice or something. You just open a conversation, extend it beyond what you feel comfortable at and end it on your terms.

The number one thing you should take from this is that you have to have expectations of yourself or you'll get nowhere fast.

 

[Kinguno]

You got to feed into their ego to feed yours make them think they cook for fukking with you

 

[hostsamurai]

You get ghosted because you're taking it too serious with these females off rip.

Talking social justice topics and heavy topics in that range within hours of connecting? That ain't fun in their eyes.

These chicks are looking for fun breh. No matter what they say.

So always keep thing light and fun until she invest into you breh.

It's never a good idea to bring up something potentially negative. Always pivot to something lighter.

 

[ScoopNScore]

i think they sell em at dikk's sporting goods

What sporting goods ?

Spoiler

 

[jeh]

timing and location is key, knowing what to say, how you say it, being quick on your feet with a response that's witty and or mind blowing (it's a word for it where women are interested in men that can spit game thru the mental) like in movies or social media posts/memes and here too... depending on what you are attracted to and go for their either do it or don't closed mouths don't get fed...the gift of gab, conversation rule the nation, mouthpiece, selling dreams is just a personality charisma thing Breh some born with it some "develop" it just but be careful cause a chick will clout trip and flip your words around if you happen to be shooting your shot at a bitter ungrateful chick straight up

 

[SATAN]

That "mouthpiece" nonsense is causing dudes to talk themselves out of the puzzy


Talk LESS. Let her talk about herself

There's no such thing as "mouthpiece". A woman has already decided that she either likes you or doesn't like you before you open your mouth. It doesn't matter what you say, as long as you don't say something stupid and turn her off.

Them "mouthpiece" nikkas be the worst!


They be the ones talking a chick's ear off at the club for over an hour and don't get shyt for it.

They be the ones who follow a chick to the break room at work and talk to her about pointless bullshyt for the whole break.

Ole "how's your day going so far?" -azz nikkas


They be the same ones making generic small talk with a chick at the club for 45 minutes straight and then don't close.


Following a chick to the break room at work to sit right next to her and ask her how was her weekend, then spend the whole break telling her his life story


They be the same ones at the gym talking to a chick for a whole hour and don't even work out. Ole cakin' azz chatty patty azz nikkas.

Let the convo flow naturally. Either y'all vibe or y'all don't.

 

[ÆTHER]

Just talk to girls. Not even girls you like just regular girls about anything. Befriend women in your spaces at 22/23 you're probably still either at school or the job you have isn't that serious so you should have people around within your age group. Just be yourself and don't put pressure on yourself just talk about whatever.

Female friends open up the dating market, fukk what any weirdo says who tells you otherwise.

• You get more comfortable with talking to women and knowing what they like and what they're about.
• It opens you up to different opinions and perspectives so you're not a cave dweller and you can relate better.
• It gives you an in with their friends/acquaintances too and if the girl is really the homie she'll pull up her friends' hoefax for you and tell you what's what and who to avoid.
• The girl(s) could also tell you little things she thinks you're getting wrong in terms of your appearance/mannerisms that could get you a lot further with other women.
• It disarms other women. When they see you engaging with (not just hovering around) other women and they see that you're not a weirdo it makes them feel more comfortable and secure.

Beyond that women just come in clutch in certain work/school situations so you should definitely be keeping some around in the early 20s. Don't use friendship to try to simp for the girls you like just make friends with regular people.

Once you get that there's nothing special about women and their shyts stink just like any guy then you can move on to trying to pick up chicks but just start by talking to girls and making friends.

 

[MischievousMonkey]

Never been with a girl in my life-sexually or romantically- and only been on a couple dates so far. Will be 23 in January if that helps.

I'm not interested in incel babble or PUA babble btw

You work on it by talking to a lot of people, girls especially