How do you get a mouthpiece?

[Tflasha]

Never been with a girl in my life-sexually or romantically- and only been on a couple dates so far. Will be 23 in January if that helps.

I'm not interested in incel babble or PUA babble btw

gone head and pull out that pocket book playa but on the real tho, you don't need a mouthpiece, just patience. focus on yourself, build your bank account and your image

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Read more books.....Dictionary cover to cover....Dabble in some Psycho Therapy......Take a drama class to help cultivate your improvisational skills & delivery.

It's all entertainment.Lastly, hit the gym.I know that really has nothing to do with mouthpiece, but it amplifies the effect of your words.You can be missing a lil

"smoothness" if your physique speaks for itself.Average game with a mean physique will still get you places.Like inside her pants..

 

[Cloud]

I think you just gotta keep trying until you improve. Take some L’s and just shoot your shots. Lot of these folks don’t even have a mouthpiece, they just have you beat on numbers.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Never been with a girl in my life-sexually or romantically- and only been on a couple dates so far. Will be 23 in January if that helps.

I'm not interested in incel babble or PUA babble btw

Experience. It's the only way. You have to practice talking to women like you'd have to practice any other skill you'd like to master. There is no shortcut or magic pill. You just have to do it enough times that you get good at it. You're going to fail at first. A lot. And that's where most men give up and just take the women that they can get. But if you don't let yourself get discouraged, then in 10 or 15 years you can have any girl you want instead of just some low-hanging fruit ass chicks. And yes, 10-15 years sounds like a very long arduous timeline, but the time is going to pass either way and when you look up at age 33, you'll be glad you put in the time.

That's it and that's all.

 

[Hater Eraser]

Listen hear young breh ..




" You see I made up my mind when I was seventeen,
I ain't with no marriage and a weddin' ring,
I be a player fo' life so where's my wife,
Probably at the rehab stuck on the pipe,
'cause she must be smokin' and I'm not jokin'
Too Short baby comin' straight from Oakland,
Got way mo' bytches than I ever need,
I put that on a big fat bag of weed,
'cause I can give you a bytch but wouldn't give you joint,
bytches ain' shyt and now I made my point,
So you can light that weed,
While I spit this rap,
And tell you 'bout a player from way back,
I was only fourteen when I first got my dikk sucked,
Now I'm grown up and I really like to bust nuts,
Gittin' freaky in the right situations,
You want to rap well that's a nice occupation,
To git p*ssy when you want 'n how you want it foo'
'cause I was fukkin' ugly hoes back in high schoo'
I used to fukk young-ass hoes,
Used to be broke and didn't have no clothes,
Now I fukk top notch bytches,
Tellin' stories 'bout rags to riches,
'bout a pimp named Shorty from the Oakland set,
Been mackin' for years 'n ain't fell of yet,
So if you ever see me rollin' in my drop top caddy,
Throw a peace sign and say hey pimp daddy!
'cause I never would fron' on my folks,
I slow down and let the gold diggers count my spokes,
bytches come a dime a dozen,
So don't get mad when I fukk your cousin,
Your two sisters, I even fukk your ex-bytch,
Short Dog in the house with some player shyt "

 

[Lord Beasley]

what breh said: be yourself
+ if you can make her laugh w/o trying too hard, you can smash

 

[Diondon]

Tell her you wanna rub her butt.

 

[Champ_KW]

Just tell the truth. Most times people struggle with talking to chicks because they try to find the right thing to say all the time. Answer the questions you know the answer to or feel comfortable answering, ask only the questions you really want to know the answers to, don't be afraid to disagree, and shut up when you don't have anything to say. In mid conversation, tell her she has something in the corner of her mouth or the corner of her eye. Don't make a big deal out of it. Once she wipe at it to get it "off", just tell her ok she got it, and proceed with the conversation.

 

[Lamar Givens]

To be honest bruh just have confidence when you speak.

Let your words have conviction but not cockiness and also demonstrate that your willing to change your conviction if your confronted with new evidence that contradicts your previously held beliefs.

Women like smart and confident men but there is a balance. In your knowledge and conviction you can’t make a woman feel intimidated because if she feels that she can’t bring anything to the table it may scare them off.

Women like to have this feeling that they are “needed” by their man. That’s why a lot of them try to “fix” things in a relationship. For some odd reason it gives them a sense of self worth, validation.

Just find out what her interest and hobbies are and pretend you would like to know more about them because this will cause her to talk about it non stop and keep you from having to talk much except for asking open ended questions to keep her yapping but make sure you’re listening in case she asks you a question about what she was yapping about.

 

[Afro]

Trust me some girls will be cool with you asking right away (small minority though). But try to be as direct as possible.

Start the conversations in the evening, they are more likely to be home bored watching Netflix or shyt like that.

You're starting very well with the witty puns and passions in common, just avoid the social justice/political talk or at least keep it very light, in due time you'll figure out where they fall politically.

With each message you send you have to advance towards your goal. Here's my "script":

1. Starter (witty or something in her profile)

2. Ask what she's up to lately

3. Ask how she spends most of her week ( you want to know if she's a student/professional or none of these things)

4. Ask how's the rest of her week looking like? ( If her reply is just "I'll be very busy this week" and nothing else, she's not interested, if she says something like "I'll be going out with friends this weekend but have nothing planned for next week..." She's expecting you to ask her out)

5 Ask for the number, no Instagram/Snapchat or any of that bullshyt.

You can get a girl's number in 2-3 days on average if not immediately in some cases.

Took way too long to see some actual advice in this thread

You can't "negotiate" attraction OP, and some of the worse advice is "Just be yourself". Being yourself is why you're asking these questions now, MFers parroting what they have heard before.

You work on yourself until your are confident in your own skin. That is when you want a woman in your space, because then no matter she does, you are still solid as an individual.

As far as online dating, it is purely a numbers game. That means that you keep your emotions in check when dealing with each woman.

Until you meet her, she is just a picture on a page and is NOT in your life yet. So don't take digital rejection as anything but a part of the "game". She is simply removing herself from your list of prospects

You also never emotionally invest way more than she does, but I digress. Somethings you learn more in time, can't info dump this kind of subject.

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

Just ask questions chief

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

“Talk less Smile More”

work on yourself. Get your body in shape and your money in order and you really won’t have to say anything to get women.

Nice smile
Good haircut
Good clothing style
OWN CRIB! Even if it’s a studio apt!
If you don’t have your own spot at least have only 1 roommate or money for hotels if you live with parents.
If you have a car make it clean inside and out.
Always be working on yourself, when a woman wants to spend time with you make it known your time is precious. You don’t have free time to just give away cause you have classes or are running a business or just going to the gym.


OP you may need to go visit a stripclub or brothel and just get the sexual tension out the way. Don’t wait too long to just fukk a bytch and get the mystery over with.

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

Warning: Cold Callous Truth ahead

If you are 23 years old and have zero sexual success there is clearly an issue. There is a disconnect. It might be mentally. It might be socially. But there is a serious issue to be addressed. "Game" is not all about mouthpiece. There are a myriad of things that go into attracting the opposite sex. You have to be presentable. You have to stand out in a crowd. You have to exude confidence. If you can't sway a woman at 23, you will most likely will never be the life of the party or have a premiere "mouthpiece" but that also doesn't mean you have to settle for the fat single mother with her baby daddy's name tattooed on her ankle. You need to know your demographic and act accordingly. What are your hobbies? What are your interests? Look for social circles/meet ups that cater to that.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

When Pandemic is over invest in Toastmasters.Attend a meeting to help you get over jitters and social anxiety.

 

[Tres Leches]

start with straight shots then pop bottles (to loosen up)



Start with the hoodrats then pop models