How do you know if you're ugly? How do you know if you're handsome? How do you know if you're avg?

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How many times are y'all going to make this thread? The term ugly is all in the state of mind. What one person finds unattractive another might find you attractive. I've seen it all the time and its been proven. If you feel unattractive, fat, stupid, lonely, undesirable, just change it. Meaning, workout more, read more books and research if you want to expand on your knowledge, go outside and talk to people so you can build up your confidence and social circle, etc. It not that hard.

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If you're new and work with a lot of females, and they stare or act funny/awkward around you... vs the other new guy who they hardly notice...then you have your answer.
 

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If looks are subjective to each person then is there no universal standard for ugliness except for deformities?
What someone may think is ugly may be attractive to the next person right?

You're just now figuring this out? :ohhh: when it comes to opinions, humans are not a monolithic. That's why I hate it when you have people trying to shove their opinions especially when it comes to what they find and don't find attractive down other people's throats. The media and these modeling companies are notorious for that especially when it comes to pushing eurocentric standards of beauty where they are trying to make it seem that only white people are attractive.

Case in point, this racist bullshyt.



Like seriously... then you have folks basically being brainwashed, conditioned or whatever into believing that shyt because these fukkers really go out to make people try to share the same views they do. They also try to shame folks that don't feel the same way they do. "You like him? He's ugly. What's wrong with you?" Like for real, that's why I don't even take folks inputs seriously. If you let them, they will have you suicidal and destroying yourself simply trying to be down with them when they're nobodies.

I personally think it's real disgusting how they make people ashamed of their bodies. The last 10 years, they've been waging a war on men where theyre trying to make us all insecure and have us in the gym with muscles and 6 percent body fat, trying to sexually object ourselves to be liked. It's sickening what theyve done to women too although the pressure on women doesn't seem as bad these days especially when they know that guys will be giving women chances regardless of how they look. Women still have it bad though where theyre more than likely to suffer self esteem issues because they feel that their looks don't match up to the bullshyt they push out here with the unrealistic, skinny girl that's big in the right places. Got then even sexually objectifying themselves too and all the bullshyt society pushes onto women with the stupid gender roles trash. However, I've yet to see a woman's appearance stop her from finding a man or keep men from wanting to be with her.
 
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breh.. good looks are not subjective.. people may have a taste in the opposite sex but good looks are universal.. good looks is about symmetry or some shyt.. just look in the mirror you should know

This.

There might be some rare outliers or rape victims who fukk up the flow, but for the most part women are gonna look at a dude like Boris Kodjoe and wanna give him the ass.
 

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If you're at the club/a party and you roll up on a chick from behind to grind on her, :takedat:
and she does the usual 'turn-around' to see who you are :gurl:.. and,
instead of turning back around and going to work on you, she walks off like:camby:...that is a good indicator that she, at least, thinks you're ugly.. doesn't mean that you are ugly.. but she certainly thinks so.
 

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he didnt do anything, just an example of someone with status thats not sexually appealing to me
How thug and gucci are attractive to you? I mean you can like and etc who you want but how is someone with a balanced out body type so to speak cant do it for you. Is it cause they have facial hair? I dont mean to be a chatty patty but this is interesting
 

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If you're at the club/a party and you roll up on a chick from behind to grind on her, :takedat:
and she does the usual 'turn-around' to see who you are :gurl:.. and,
instead of turning back around and going to work on you, she walks off like:camby:...that is a good indicator that she, at least, thinks you're ugly.. doesn't mean that you are ugly.. but she certainly thinks so.
Nahhh bad indicator. Some hoes just lookin for the top 10% and love having nikkas "fail" at gettin at em.


Trust me I'm always out. You can be a good looking dude and still get the turn around and bounce. Only person I personally know who never gets it is like a 6'5 swole model looking type. Can't even hate on it.
 
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