How Patient Are You With A Woman In The Beginning Stages...

[stave]

I haven't met anyone I find seriously interesting in a long time. So my patience is extremely short when I meet someone who comes off one way and acts another. Usually this happens pretty early and I'm past the point of fake caring just to smash. Can do that with other people easily. fukk I look like working for p*ssy?

One thing I realized is chicks wanna smash just as bad as we do so it's no point in disguising it. If I'm not feeling her, I'm really just gonna try to smash under no pretence of anything but physical attraction. No more dates, no daytime phone calls, text, nothing. If it works it works but I'm not small-talking someone I generally don't care about. They usually end up respecting it too

 

[Brock Landers]

I've got one hand reaching for the flag at ALL times like an NFL umpire Ready to throw that bytch out at ANY moment

 

[kaldurahm]

Women be 60 and 70 playing games.

Of course but I thought they dial it down once they 30+. Was talking to a 30 year old last year she was hella straightforward compared to girls 22, 23. It's a headache unless you cut it out

 

[karim]

nobody is blaming anybody (well maybe the guys in the thread are but i wasn't), we just having a conversation calm down lol

Deny shifting blame with a reply shifting blame brehettes

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

Well I'ma couple of years younger but I don't mind being patient especially if it's a woman I really like (not talking about pump & dump status, some real shyt...grown man shyt ).

Me having patience is how I've met my woman 3yrs ago and we've been committed since, lol but being that your an old head you're probably more ticked off at the fact that some women ain't giving up the kitty cat within two dates and alot of Coli bruhs seem to be mad about that also.

 

[getmoney310cpt]

Bushing her was a good move.

...But she's supposed to be sending you the "good morning" text, not the other way around.

That's something females do.

(Otoh, you can "test" a chick by being a little too nice to her and seeing how she reacts to it. If you're looking for an actual gf, that's a way to discover a little about where her head is at with a swiftness.)

But nah -- "good morning" texts are for ladies to send, not receive.

I like how you try to play me lowkey listen kid there’s no right or wrong way to game a female you don’t send good morning text cool lotta nikkas do that’s not no female shyt that’s just a convo starter..what we never supposed to hit the bytch up first lol you cacs try to hard

 

[African Peasant]

Bushing her was a good move.

...But she's supposed to be sending you the "good morning" text, not the other way around.

That's something females do.

(Otoh, you can "test" a chick by being a little too nice to her and seeing how she reacts to it. If you're looking for an actual gf, that's a way to discover a little about where her head is at with a swiftness.)

But nah -- "good morning" texts are for ladies to send, not receive.

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[Pimpdaddy]

all because she blew up on me one morning for sending a good morning text she called it Boring and a waste of time..

and if you say to her about the plan and she asks whats the plan, bang the phone on her.
you could call her back and tell her i've got 800 plans. whats your plan ?

cause listen, at the end of the day...i'm tired of this..you been looking out for me, i been looking out for you.
when we going to make something ? whats the plan ?......her reply better be "Profit!"

I have a system, Yellow flags and red flags. Red are major and yellow are minor. If a girl tallys up 4 yellow flags, or one red along with any other flag then she is cut off.

For example something like Snapchat filter photos I count as a yellow flag

I've got one hand reaching for the flag at ALL times like an NFL umpire Ready to throw that bytch out at ANY moment

man this thread is lowkey hilarious :Mjgrin::Mjgrin::Mjgrin:

 

[futureDevelopment]

I like how you try to play me lowkey listen kid there’s no right or wrong way to game a female you don’t send good morning text cool lotta nikkas do that’s not no female shyt that’s just a convo starter..what we never supposed to hit the bytch up first lol you cacs try to hard

Not trying to "play you".

If you want to express to her that she's the first thing on your mind in the morning -- after just meeting her -- feel free.

Most guys know that that will backfire (just like it did with you).

Women do such things to express their interest. It works for women, because it flatters a dude.

I can't imagine how that would work for a guy. That's why I presumed most guys would just know better.

It's "simpy", over-eager and frankly (no insult intended) just a little bit feminine. A few women might even see it as creepy.

...But it sounds like you learned your lesson. (... Or did you? )

 

[Sunalmighty]

...of a relationship? I'll be 40 in 3 months

And I've noticed. Over the past 5 years, I don't put up with NONE of women's shyt test, not even playing it off like I used to do just to get the p*ssy. Now. One flake? Gone. Cop an attitude over something small? Number blocked and deleted. I feel hot and cold energy or inconsistent behavior? Instant bushes.

It's like the older I get, the less tolerable of bullshyt and women's games I become. How about you brehs? Ladies. Chime in as well. How much rope do you give a new prospective mate? Do you allow a little rope or iron fist from the get go?

Women will never change man. If you find one she will have problems. If you can tolerate it, hang around. If not K.I.M. life is simple like that

 

[getmoney310cpt]

Not trying to "play you".

If you want to express to her that she's the first thing on your mind in the morning -- after just meeting her -- feel free.

Most guys know that that will backfire (just like it did with you).

Women do such things to express their interest. It works for women, because it flatters a dude.

I can't imagine how that would work for a guy. That's why I presumed most guys would just know better.

It's "simpy", over-eager and frankly (no insult intended) just a little bit feminine. A few women might even see it as creepy.

...But it sounds like you learned your lesson. (... Or did you? )

Post a pic of your dime since you know everything about women you must have the baddest bytch I want to see if your real life matches your bravado Coli post..

 

[King Poetic]

As a older guy like yourself and I have never been married or have kids , I’m just like u..

I have no time for bullshyt, because there’s plenty of black women looking for a black man, so if u complain about little shyt, I’m out.... u tell me what I should do with my money, I’m out... u tell me how I should have my haircut or dressed a certain way or do this and that, I’m out.....

I tell MAJORITY OF SISTERS(NOT ALL FOR THE READING IMPAIRED), especially the women with kids or been in abusive relationships , that if u never told them nikkas who knocked u up or beat your ass what they needed to do, don’t tell a nikka like me what to do when I handle my responsibilities and offer respect

 

[futureDevelopment]

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If you're looking for a gf, you want to make sure she's not a bytch that you have to front "hard" with...

You don't want her as a gf if you can't even be nice to her without her looking at you as "weak".

... So you can easily test it & see if her attitude changes. See if she appreciates, or if she takes you for granted.

Don't simp, of course, but you can test to see if she appreciates some little thing you do, even if it's little.

That way, if she's a bytch, you save yourself from ever doing anything big for her.

 

[futureDevelopment]

Post a pic of your dime since you know everything about women you must have the baddest bytch I want to see if your real life matches your bravado Coli post..

Seek help, my friend.

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[King Poetic]

It's not just women but people in general I have less tolerance for.

1. I don't drive during rush hour traffic
2. I don't go to malls or stores during peak times with slow ass people blocking all the aisles and using self checkout for the first time
3. I don't deal with terrible customer service and will leave a store if I sense it immediately
4. I take "street harassment" the same way women do and if anyone, man or woman, approaches me and I don't feel like talking to them I ignore them and keep it moving. Women really don't know what to do when you completely ignore what they say lol.

A few things like above save me a lot of time and headaches.

With women yeah, I've dated so much and met so many women now at my age I size them up quickly and filter through the BS. Any woman who is playing games I cut off and ignore their shyt. I avoid a lot of women my age if I sense they are in a rush to settle down and have a baby as soon as they find a suitable mate (you'll be surprised how many women are cool with a "oops baby" with a nikka she just met 4 months ago).

I'm on the casual sex/dating wave right now and will probably continue to do it until I get my business up and running for a couple of years. Most women are cool with that if you don't budge and let them trick you into a relationship. My mini situations usually last 4-6 months until the next one. I'm having a great time without the stress and time commitment of a serious relationship.

I think we’re cousins

You would be surprised or not, how many older sisters rather have kids or not after talking to them after 2 days they already on marriage, living together, give them a baby, etc....

I had a couple who I didn’t even get their last name and they discussing marriage