How Patient Are You With A Woman In The Beginning Stages...

JOHN.KOOL

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The older you get, the more flags you encounter. The good women with less yellow flags are taken so we must always be discerning. Any bytch that has "gay" Male best friends is a yellow flag. A straight male best friends is an automatic red flag and termination.

I agree with all of that except one thing. A gay male best friend is a red flag on my chart.
 

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Not trying to "play you". :beli:

If you want to express to her that she's the first thing on your mind in the morning -- after just meeting her -- feel free.

Most guys know that that will backfire (just like it did with you).

Women do such things to express their interest. It works for women, because it flatters a dude.

I can't imagine how that would work for a guy. That's why I presumed most guys would just know better.

It's "simpy", over-eager and frankly (no insult intended) just a little bit feminine. A few women might even see it as creepy.

...But it sounds like you learned your lesson. (... Or did you? :jbhmm:)

How would YOU know what other men send? I'm a woman and YALL def are the ones sending out GM texts, its not really a simp thing or a man/woman thing....if you want a person to know that that u are thinking of them in the morning, you send one..aint that deep breh
 

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As a woman, I can safely say that I am no longer the young naive girl I once was when it came to dating.Right now, I am not putting up with men and their stupid head games.Dating is hard for a woman. especially for a black woman. But I found solace in knowing that even though I am 30 I will not rush to get married or have any kids no where time soon,
 

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I'm a young been but can you explain why ladies over 26 are a headache. Maybe it's because I haven't had much experiences but to me it's been the opposite. Older ladies are easier to talk to and get play tbh, maybe cause they don't expect nothing serious from young dudes
As a young do they are. They know that you’re young so they know they have no chance with you for something serious. But the will use you for their egos. If there’s anything they can’t get enough is attention. They need it. A man attention is gold. Especially if they find you sexually attractive. They’ll take from anyone but attractive Man is straight up cash money.

Young women like older men because most of the time that older man is more assertive and have solid base of self confidence. I’m not talking about that old nikka that looks out of place s at the club or bar. I’m talking that older nikka that might look like he could be someone’s slightly older brother and not that uncle. And in general big homey wisdom will keep you from making stupid decisions and not falling for the okey doke. It’s best you learn early. Just listen to women. Don’t interrupt them. Let them talk. And most of all don’t judge them. You know everything you need to know. When they say something outrageous just keep a straight face and nod your head. Don’t look shocked. Act like you’ve heard worse. And you probably have. Keep that shyt to yourself. If it’s one thing I can’t(and women)stand is a nikka that tells everything. Lol
 

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Ok, after reading some the replies I realize I do a few things some of y'all complain about.LOL! I am horrible at texting, and I let it be known that early on. My ex use complain about my late replies all the time.
 

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Too many out here giving it up to be too patient

There's plenty out here but not a great deal quality wise. Depending on your age, I learned more women want me in my 30s then in my 20s. I could have a roster if I choose but honestly I'm late 30s and the women aren't quality in terms of long term growth. Some women already have kids, some have bullshyt ass jobs, some are mentally fukked up, some have fukked up expectations cuz they are around the same age as me but carry the mentality of a 20 something, some know they will never own a home without a man in they life so they want a yard for their b*stard children to play in.

Personally I don't have the energy for a roster and dealing with the personalities of various women,
 
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