I Had To Uninvite My Father to my Wedding

[African Peasant]

I understand family dynamics not fear. I'm African...

I know grown men scared to tell their folks they don't wanna marry their pre-selected mate.

Already seen a divorce because of this and dude lost money... he never even consummated.

You can' let them dictate everything. They will...

Fear/respect are part of the dynamic. My father treats me like a grown-ass man, but there is still a hierarchy between us. He's not my friend. Generally, and I'm talking for my people, your parents don't guide every aspect of your life, especially for boyz. However, we give more weight to our parent's wishes than the average westerners. Your family is more involved in your life.

 

[Maude]

If ya parents aint respecting you then do what you gotta do. You dont owe them shyt

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Im going to come back to this thread and rep every single post. You guys have no idea what ive been going through mentally and how much your words have helped me

Stay strong breh
Dont let the trolls like @BlackPearl The Empress get to you

 

[Gold]

You might as well tell what he said now with all of your innuendos.

He became physically violent with her while in a rage about me

 

[Ugo Ogugwa]

U always negative fam be happy sometimes

Cac tactic. I call out bigoted generalizing weirdos like you and your response is that I'm angry. fukk you hoe ass nikka.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Stay strong breh
Dont let the trolls like @BlackPearl The Empress get to you

I wish his dad would have body slammed you

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

He became physically violent with her while in a rage about me

Ohh u mean he just raised his voice

 

[#1 pick]

He became physically violent with her while in a rage about me

 

[1 other person]

He became physically violent with her while in a rage about me

Do you just sit there and let you pops manhandle your fiance? No offense if you did..........

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I wish his dad would have body slammed you

Atleast I wont let my own dad steal my future wife

 

[#1 pick]

Sorry bro.

 

[Ugo Ogugwa]

He became physically violent with her while in a rage about me

Yea that's all the way out of there. Is he an alcoholic? That's not even uninvited to the wedding shyt, that is jail/ass whooping/both shyt.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

My fam comes first

I'd have a talk with pops..and give him a pass

Life too short

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

He became physically violent with her while in a rage about me

Hmmmm so he is violent your brother's wife too? Like how violent?

 

[Gold]

Do you just sit there and let you pops manhandle your fiance? No offense if you did..........

No. It took 4 of my brothers and my mother to stop me. I wanted to kill him. I would like to think i would have more self control but maybd im more like hin than i realize