I Had To Uninvite My Father to my Wedding

[Jean Jacket]

I think you have it backwards. Im protecting her by keeping him away

.I understand, but you can't keep them apart forever.

.I really don't know shyt. So, unless this dude is trying to murder your wife, who cares? Get evidence, and have this nikka detained.

.Man up and check your Dad. Do what you have to do. Respect yourself.

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

Patch it up wit pops.
U only get one and damnit if this life ain’t short as shyt.

You gotta make it right and tell him how u feel so y’all can move on and make the bond tighter

 

[Ugo Ogugwa]

There is a level... there is a line... there is a boundary.

If you let your parents cross these with 0 repercussions, they will never respect those boundaries.

I hate it csme to this, but God knows I gave that man every opportunity to stop.... but he just couldn't help himself.




Coli parents out there, don't be your kids number 1 adversary.... do better thsn my father did


Rant over

Woah breh. 9ja dad? He don't approve of your wife or something?

 

[Gold]

@Gold, are you the oldest my g or the first one getting married?

4th oldest, 2nd to marry. My brother acquiesced, and let my father destroy his fiance. She demanded they move after the wedding.

Well im not him, god forbid

 

[xCivicx]

There is a level... there is a line... there is a boundary.

If you let your parents cross these with 0 repercussions, they will never respect those boundaries.

I hate it csme to this, but God knows I gave that man every opportunity to stop.... but he just couldn't help himself.




Coli parents out there, don't be your kids number 1 adversary.... do better thsn my father did


Rant over

Every man has to put his foot down at some point

Run with me or get run over

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

There is a level... there is a line... there is a boundary.

If you let your parents cross these with 0 repercussions, they will never respect those boundaries.

I hate it csme to this, but God knows I gave that man every opportunity to stop.... but he just couldn't help himself.




Coli parents out there, don't be your kids number 1 adversary.... do better thsn my father did


Rant over

Sorry to hear this breh. My good friend is getting married in December. I talked to him a few days ago and he had a huge falling out with his best friend. Basically, his friend had an engagement that he broke off because he decided he didn't want to be married I guess but went ham when he found out his ex-fiancee was still hanging with my friend's fiancee via a picture on IG.

Idk what he said exactly but apparently the angery bff basically got himself uninvited to the wedding.

Sometimes people are in their feelings because they feel people they've had near are moving beyond them. You did the right thing. Hopefully it smooths itself over.

 

[#1 pick]

Woah breh. 9ja dad? He don't approve of your wife or something?

Even worse, he said his dad would do this no matter the woman. This is crazy ooo

 

[Turbulent]

If it's over a prenup you're fukking up breh

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

I get you @Gold I'm Bout to be like that with my dad real soon. It's looking grim right now

 

[Omar Little]

The Fluck he Do?

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

I dont know how to. Im tired breh... im so fukkin tired. I dont have anymore fight to give

God puts on us no more than we can bear. You can and will handle the situation; we get tired but we bend and not break.

Maybe try a mediatory person to talk it out? At least give him the option to apologize or uninvite himself.

My dad was a pedophile and I had to forgive him in my heart to fully move on from the disgust. I didn’t want him to die with me angry at him bc when he died that anger would never be able to go away. I forgave him. Never forgot, but I lived by the Only God can judge philosophy.

Just my two cents breh, wish you the best and praying for y’all.

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

If yall kmew what he did... yall woulda probably beat your father's ass for doing the same.

Trust me i wanted to, my brother stopped me

People don't know what it's like to have a toxic parent or they wouldn't be telling you to surrender to his ego. A wedding is one day and am event that his presence isn't needed at since he's not in full support.

There will be plenty more events, holidays, birthdays, family reunions etc that he can be involved in, it's not like you're telling him he can't see his grandchildren.

Me personally. I've sacrificed enough of my peace of mind for family and friends in this lifetime. If it's bothering you that much do what's best for you.

 

[#1 pick]

4th oldest, 2nd to marry. My brother acquiesced, and let my father destroy his fiance. She demanded they move after the wedding.

Well im not him, god forbid

Your father got a history of this shyt too. Damn breh

 

[Blankthawtz]

OP got no respect for the man that gave him life.....

 

[Keepya onya toes]

What's the point in HALF A STORY. You have always been a lil dramatic poster and I ain't saying you're wrong in this instance, because I don't know with HALF A STORY.

Fess up or shut up. Know one can give advice with HALF A STORY.

Yeah I keep saying HALF A STORY... Because like my post HALF A STORY is annoying as fxck.

Get my drift tell the WHOLE STORY or NO STORY but never ever ever HALF A STORY.