I Had To Uninvite My Father to my Wedding
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I read the OP and thought you were a woman
He would have had to go
Feel no guilt... my pops and I have been at it for the last 15 years. My daughter is born, he seems to turn a new leaf... then this year he gets back on his bullshyt. I had to cut him out... family or not you can't let people rob you and the people who love you of your time and energy
We had wedding drama too
Agree 100% with your post- if you want kids for any other reason than to serve them 10000000%, don't fukking have them, Google Earfh is already overpopulated with people who didn't get enough love as children
I don’t for the life of me understand this type of family dynamic where people let family members overstep their boundaries.
Like my family is super close but I was 12 when I let it be known to everyone that they tread lightly with me. I have never had any problems with parents or relatives crossing the line with me because they know I mean business.
You have to establish that you are an authority otherwise you will be viewed as weak. And the strong preys on the weak.
Like my family is super close but I was 12 when I let it be known to everyone that they tread lightly with me. I have never had any problems with parents or relatives crossing the line with me because they know I mean business.
You have to establish that you are an authority otherwise you will be viewed as weak. And the strong preys on the weak.
ABlackMan
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When it come to marriage I been rethinking my relationship because of the parents smh imagine yo girl immediate fam just always in some bullshyt can’t have children with grandparents like that, at least not what I think
The God Poster
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no doubt it's wrong. Its just a little sketchy why he sounding so vague.
stop it if you gone jump on an anonymous message board to say your pops laid hands your wife you should say the reason. Cant take that it's personal cop out now .
He's one of the few posters who's shared a lot on here and people ALWAYS use it against him. Plus he put his face up before I believe.
I don't care what you guys want it's not in his best interest to say too much. People here retain information and use it for ammunition when they are mad at a poster.
Family Man
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So his dad fukked his bytch and he mad and conflicted about his dad?
I'm on page two. Did this hoe ass nikka admit to what his pops did? All the nikka doing is wasting time talking in circles and dropping subliminals. Just get to the fukking point and say it with your chest. OP p*ssyfooting and shyt. No wonder pops doesn't respect you.
EDIT: I finally got to it. I would have had to kill that nikka if he did that shyt to my fiance.
I'm on page two. Did this hoe ass nikka admit to what his pops did? All the nikka doing is wasting time talking in circles and dropping subliminals. Just get to the fukking point and say it with your chest. OP p*ssyfooting and shyt. No wonder pops doesn't respect you.
EDIT: I finally got to it. I would have had to kill that nikka if he did that shyt to my fiance.
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Wait, OP is the dude who didn't drop them flaws? 
I take back everything I said.
I take back everything I said.
“So she went to Carnival?! I will discipline her.”
Nigerian parents are habitual line steppers. I done had to let a few nigerians mothers and fathers who tried to get into my business thinking they disciplining me or teaching me a life lesson when it wasnt warranted. Not even on some tryna give advice but talking down to me as if I'm their child.
While this nikka could be dead ass wrong on multiple fronts. I still gotta agree on one thing. No woman should be having a whole nikka, ENGAGED and going to Brazil by herself or "with the girls" on some Nicole Murphy shyt. Some destinations are just a no no for the fam. I went to the Dominican early early into my relationship and my future wife, just started dating was on Skype with me night and day. Why? Because some destinations are highly mistake prone. Just facts.
I never could kick it with that. I would have prefered Vegas or LA and even then, hell no unless it's for work! But places like DR, Brazil, etc. Those are fukkstinations. Even if you don't, the perception is that you did.
While homie got no proof of nothing he said above and your dad crossed the line to the 100th degree. He might be on to something. Your physical appearance, strength and brain isn't matching your level of respect you command with those close to you.
That big nikka shyt may work v. Brehs who scary and ain't tryna get that ass whooped but women see though that shyt. It's mental with them. It's also mental with parents.
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Posts like this always sound like
Breh, you what you know about African parents and who have you been around that's African. Sounds like you watched some Nollywood movies and envisioned how you would handle more than anything else
nikka i lived in a building full of em. How you gonna tell me what ive seen. It takes a village type of mentality, compared to other folks they were not scared to tell you about your self if they felt you was out of line. Problem is you not stepping to folks who aint your family. Sorry not everybody is coo with taking unwarranted scolding from people .Posts like this always sound like
Breh, you what you know about African parents and who have you been around that's African. Sounds like you watched some Nollywood movies and envisioned how you would handle more than anything else