"I want to date Black Men. Why is it so hard?". Why do these women think it's their blackness?

[feelosofer]

Ok lets be reality.

It's not her looks believe it or not. I've seen overweight women of average looks find men left and right.

The problem is her personality. She seems Black men as man-children that should be honored to graced by her presence. Look at the demeaning way she speaks about Black men which in turn is really a projection because deep down inside she is unhappy with her own Blackness (she probably looks in the mirror and says if only I were just a little lighter, a little thinner). Whether she realizes it or not that attitude seeps out of her pores and in turn turns off whoever she is trying to date. On top of that I bet you dimes to dollars she doesn't want to date an overweight man and is looking for someone above her level looks wise, financially etc. and unfortunately those dudes are not checking for her.

She needs to either better herself physically or be realistic about her dating prospects.

 

[BigMan]

She has no success dating because she’s 1) unattractive 2) clearly despised black men

 

[DaRealness]

I've briefly checked her IG page and apparently from what I already mentioned, she's just fukking annoying. It's like she's going out her way to be as unappealing as possible. She's probably the type that thinks it's funny to fart and belch in front of you constantly and think it's cute.

To be honest a lot of women are just using the whole dark skin thing as a crutch because they're simply horrible in every other way and need a cop out just to feel better about themselves, let's just be real. Bria Myles, Lupita N'yongo and that Raven Tracy chick on IG are all dark skinned and aren't gonna be turned down by most brothas so I'm not about to cry over their little pity parties. The other women who don't tell these broads to fix up themselves are just as bad.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

All I have to say is -
Men need to say it with their dikks not just their thoughts/words. CONSISTENTLY.

Athletes, celebrities, ultra attractive men will give her the ride of her life but will not give her the time of day otherwise (True stories)
Unfortunately this does not translate to women with her mentality - Give sex to get love (men feign love to get sex). She thinks because she is giving a disclosure that she is overweight and despite it men are still pursuing (even if only for ass) she is filled with false hope for her efforts. If you don't do big & burly then don't even entertain or hit.

Don't act appalled -
Men will screw the Crack of Dawn if they could.
The saying 'A man will f-ck anything' was not born out of thin air. It most definitely has some validity.
Fit, fine, etc women get cheated on with women like that woman in the OP ( True stories).

 

[Cadillac]

its not even about being fat, There are Fat BW everyday with and married to BM.

this chick just got issues

 

[Action Mike]

Mark henry asking the wrong questions

 

[ill_will82]

Also, it's not her skin color that's holding her back, far from it actually. And like another poster said: it's her teeth, weight, and considering this article and the tone of it: herself. Which all of that can be fixed if taken the time to do so.

No one wants to be around someone with a chip on their fukking shoulder and project negativity.

Hit the nail on the head.

I read about a paragraph & a half of that article and I must say that this chick is very dilusional. Comes off with an entitled attitude and she's going to have the same results until addresses her issues head on.

I've seen beautiful plus sized women as I've also seen ugly ass average sized women as well. So looks are subjective to each person's preference.

 

[number21]

It's because she's a fat feminist. So, she can't get the dudes she want.

 

[null]

does she have an IG

 

[Strapped]

She can start by slimming down

 

[MikelArteta]

Any woman regardless of how fat or ugly they are can get a guy to date them. However chicks like these think their ish doesn’t stink and they deserve this and that. That even the fat and ugly black dude isn’t interested

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

All I have to say is -
Men need to say it with their dikks not just their thoughts/words. CONSISTENTLY.

Athletes, celebrities, ultra attractive men will give her the ride of her life but will not give her the time of day otherwise (True stories)
Unfortunately this does not translate to women with her mentality - Give sex to get love (men feign love to get sex). She thinks because she is giving a disclosure that she is overweight and despite it men are still pursuing (even if only for ass) she is filled with false hope for her efforts. If you don't do big & burly then don't even entertain or hit.

Don't act appalled -
Men will screw the Crack of Dawn if they could.
The saying 'A man will f-ck anything' was not born out of thin air. It most definitely has some validity.
Fit, fine, etc women get cheated on with women like that woman in the OP ( True stories).

Lady libra athletes get dimes they not gonna entertain her stop

 

[Cat piss martini]

@Cat piss martini What's the verdict fam? :CudiInTheCut:

it's somebody out here for everybody.
i'm sure it's a five foot 6/115 pound thrill seeker
dying to drown in the extra chunky lovin
of that manbearpig.
we can't all be that adventurous.

 

[MikelArteta]

They are plenty black men that will cuff her, but they look like her so she's not interested.

And again date men of other races and leave us alone. You don't owe us anything and I guarantee you we won't care. Everybody would be happy, but that would be too simple now

Yup it’s like only having your high school diploma and getting mad that your local hospital won’t hire you to be a doctor


I’ve never seen a slim black woman struggle to find a black man to date

 

[TEH]

Fat check

Greasy check

Entitled check

So she’s saying that we should settle for anyone???

 

[Will Ross]

The reality is she has more dating options than the avg coli dude does