"I want to date Black Men. Why is it so hard?". Why do these women think it's their blackness?

[Billy Ocean]

The neg really hurt huh cac?

So that's a yes. Yes you are still pretending to be Black on internet messageboards.

Just live your truth, cac fakkit. There's plenty of openly white posters on here.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

So we are gonna gloss over the troll factor involved in offering her personal training services?

 

[Koba St]

So we are gonna gloss over the troll factor involved in offering her personal training services?

On some

So that's a yes. Yes you are still pretending to be Black on internet messageboards.

Just live your truth, cac fakkit. There's plenty of openly white posters on here.

you still here cac?

 

[concise]

I always share a full body picture from go but I know this can lead to fat shaming from men I reject after a few inboxes, unsolicited gym and personal training offers, and being both hypersexualized and desexualized at the same damn time.

Is being desexualized going to be the new thing these female internet weirdos complain about now?

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

This cac fakkit pretending he wasn’t mad just a few seconds ago

U literally think of me weekly to neg


Got u so furious cause I shyt on u swine merchant ass devil honkys that u set reminders about me

 

[Koba St]

U literally think of me weekly to neg


Got u so furious cause I shyt on u swine merchant ass devil honkys that u set reminders about me

 

[filial_piety]

BM are apart of the problem in all of this imo.

I'm on instagram, facebook, etc etc and I see women like this get 100s and 1000s of likes on comments when they show their legs, ass, and chest in their pics with 50k followers...and with that degree of validation you get the same degree of entitlement in real life. In their minds, if they think that if they can get virtual SIMPS then they can obviously get REAL ones, but that aint reality.

 

[Software]

They can't get the black men that they want or feel like they're entitled to, so they make it a black Male issue as a whole.

She looks like Peter Griffin with dreads, so her dating pool is going to be limited to bums and chubby chasers that fetishize her. I bet if a dude approached her that was decent but looked like her, she would reject him.

 

[DUCKED_OFF]

These type of hoes are cancer

They can get into the heads or regular black women who get a lot of men and change their whole mindset

She used all the lgbt/feminist key words and hoes like end up being pay masters, gay because they can't get a man or super weird to the point that nikkas and hoes don't want them.

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

Aint that P.M Dawn?

They standing close to each other too

 

[Artenche]

Writes an article bashing black men, goes over how she has all this and that...

"I knew the odds stacked against me from go. I’m indisputably Black, so I have to contend with both anti-blackness and fetishism from men with a chocolate fantasy. I’m fat bodied and yes, I always share a full body picture from go but I know this can lead to fat shaming from men I reject after a few inboxes, unsolicited gym and personal training offers, and being both hypersexualized and desexualized at the same damn time. I’m also a Womanist who is generally courteous but uncomfortably forthright. I’m not afraid to initiate conversation and will respond to sexual innuendo as aggressively as it’s delivered."

I Want to Date Black Men. Why Is It So Hard?

It's not your blackness, it's your fukking weight that's the damn issue.

Only way, I am dating women that size is if I am assed out and broke as hell. Her friends should be ashame for not being real with her.

Her friends are doing what women always do. They appease each other's bullshyt and nonsense. Being direct and forward will make you enemies with women a lot of the time. With brehs you will buttheads but friendships get built better that way.

Look at what happens when men and women both come out of break ups. Brehs aren't gonna lie to a guy and have him crying on their shoulder. They tell them straight up what the issues were. At least, a good friend would. You are never going to hear another girl telling a girl she's got to better herself and lose weight or something to that extent. She gonna say some dumb shyt like, "you're perfect the way you are boo" or "you're too much for him."
Needless to say, if she shoots within her range she always find something for her. She'd probably find a good man too, but she probably thinks she deserves a fukking Odell Jr or Michael B

 

[WesCrook]

Her friends are doing what women always do. They appease each other's bullshyt and nonsense. Being direct and forward will make you enemies with women a lot of the time. With brehs you will buttheads but friendships get built better that way.

Look at what happens when men and women both come out of break ups. Brehs aren't gonna lie to a guy and have him crying on their shoulder. They tell them straight up what the issues were. At least, a good friend would. You are never going to hear another girl telling a girl she's got to better herself and lose weight or something to that extent. She gonna say some dumb shyt like, "you're perfect the way you are boo" or "you're too much for him."
Needless to say, if she shoots within her range she always find something for her. She'd probably find a good man too, but she probably thinks she deserves a fukking Odell Jr or Michael B

Yep.....until they have a fallout

Then her "friend" pulls a 180 and is like "That's why that fat bytch can't get no man....because she talk too much and keep a nasty ass house"

 

[KingJay]

If I were to end up in relationships where I'm constantly being disrespected and cheated on... I would have to check my character because nobody is getting disrespected repeatedly without allowing it. People with high value don't get with people of low morals. Blaming it on me being black and dark would be the last thing on my mind. My two cents

The one who is in bad relationships isn't the one complaining about being dark, she's light skinned. The dark skinned one doesn't get much attention from brehs period in comparison to her light skinned friends or the white girls around instead.

What you're saying is easy to say from the outside and especially from our male perspective. You also shouldn't have to worry about "allowing it" in a relationship, your man shouldn't be disrespectful to you in the first place. Our woman shouldn't have to check us. I think the high volume of cats quoting and combating what I'm saying all without trying to accept or acknowledge at all that some of us have some shyt to deal with and instead are immediately pointing the finger at our women who none of yall know but are making assumptions about speaks for itself.

 

[krisdave]

Welp she's not wrong

and there's more where that came from. The black man fat white woman trope is popular for a reason

 

[KingJay]

I believe water finds it’s own level so I doubt there’s “little to nothing wrong” with her if she consistently attracts abusers/cheaters etc. she probably has issues stemming from that and/or is attracted to abusive men

Don’t feel like engaging on the second chick

Why don't you feel like engaging on the second chick? Anyway, imma say what I said to the other breh because it applies here too:
I think the high volume of cats quoting and combating what I'm saying all without trying to accept or acknowledge at all that some of us have some shyt to deal with and could step our game up and instead are immediately pointing the finger at our women who none of yall know but are making assumptions about speaks for itself.

Why are there all these abusers, cheaters, etc. in our community? We're better than that, and she's not attracted to abusive men, she doesn't know they're abusive until she's in the relationship and has to get out of there. She's finally been with a good dude and she's happy as can be.