If she's not submissive, don't date her. Simple

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Uh oh, I touched a nerve :jawalrus:

No, explain why a women should do all that stuff your ex did for you to be left?

You wouldn't think a chick was a bytch if a dude was paying her bills, taking care of her, and supporting her (Being the ideal husband / man) but she just up and dumped him?

So why should a chick do wife duties for a man who isn't doing "husband duties" like supporting her?
 
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@bdizzle is right but you nikkas are too emotional to admit it. Get out your feelings young nikka let's get it :myman:

Women will naturally fall in line with a man that's bout somethin and ain't taking no bullshyt. When you carry yourself a certain way, and a woman really recognizes it, you got a real ride or die companion on your hands. I've had women stand by me when a lot of so called 'bout that life' nikkas folded. You can't get that from her unless she knows you're built a certain way, knows you're strong, and knows you're gonna do whatever it takes to make YOUR LIVES better.

A lot of you nikkas is built like a box of Peeps easter candy and wondering why your woman so unhappy :mjlol:
 

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We got some very dominant men trying to date some very dominant women and that never meshes out
Yall gotta play roles in the relationship in every type of animal relationship there is a dominant mate and a submissive mate
In humans men are supposed to be dominant and women are supposed to be submissive
And you can see this by the different hormone I.E. Testosterone makes me more aggressive and stronger while estrogen makes women more effeminate and soft
However due to the way society has evolved and eliminated our closeness to nature the relationship roles often become skewed
Since women no longer need men to protect them or get along in life they can choose to adopt a more dominant disposition
Therefore since most men are dominant and if they go after dominant women like this "bad bytch" movement promotes relationships usually end up not working
That's why these women settle down with simps because they can dominate and control them to an extent
Women are naturally wired to seek dominant men from an evolutionary stand point but the more these types of relationships don't work out they begin to seek more submissive men who can still provide due to behavioral conditioning
In order for relationships to prosper in today's modern society you as a person need to look at yourself and figure out which role you fit into and find a person with a temperament that matches yours
If your dominant( no nonsense, like to make decisions, provide and call the shots, want to be the one making the most money) then find a submissive girl
If your submissive ( avoids conflict, doesn't mind doing what your told, super compassionate, and love making your partner happy) then find a dominant girl

The only thing about being a submissive man is that you usually have to wait until women have gone through enough relationships to realize that their dominant style doesn't work with dominant men and some may never realize this (this usually happens around age 30) and a young dominant girl will begin to resent a submissive man in the relationship due the fact she still thinks she needs a dominant and this leads to a lot cheating or ended relationships.

But what may be worse than two dominant people trying to build a relationship is two submissive people :mjlol: these relationships will never work. No one is calling the shot each person is worried about pleasing the other person and nothing ever gets done or goes anywhere and someone ends up having to lead and become dominant

All men who are submissive have the potential to be dominant, just like all women who are dominant have the potential to be submissive. I challenge the men who are indeed submissive to start trying to be more dominant and calling your girl out on shyt you don't like (not to the point of being mean on purpose, you will have no girls :francis:), telling her what you wanna do and making her do it and reward her for doing it, and only reward her when she does things for you or if you know she would do the same for you.
Why buy a chick a new car if you knew if she had the same money as you she wouldn't even buy you some nice sneakers? That's Simpin 101 not pimpin 101
Pimps are masters of this psychological game, they get a ho to sell the p*ssy and give the money to them and then they reward the hos. This is operant conditioning brehs this is nature
 

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OP has a point but he is many decades late. That shyt is gone in the US now. He just lucked out. But why is she is his ex gf now though? :patrice:So many cacs and black men let women run the show. Treating them like big ass kids. Belize is calling me. I just need that retirement money :mjcry:
 

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if a chick cant cook or clean....i dont even want to look at her
 

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This is why women should not have premarital sex. Get used emotionally, ran through, and reduced to "a freak in the sheets" for two years, then :yeshrug: it just didn't work out. Treat him like a husband and still get the bushes.

Now you are left with emotional scars, DNA that never leaves your system, and a soul tie. Do better.

Kids Can Develop Features From Their Mother’s Previous Sex Partners… In Flies At Least

this is how u end up a cat lady....keep listening to that nikka steve harvey
 

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This is why women should not have premarital sex. Get used emotionally, ran through, and reduced to "a freak in the sheets" for two years, then :yeshrug: it just didn't work out. Treat him like a husband and still get the bushes.

Now you are left with emotional scars, DNA that never leaves your system, and a soul tie. Do better.

Kids Can Develop Features From Their Mother’s Previous Sex Partners… In Flies At Least
You might as well just give up on life now if you think that way, what do you think dating is? It's the screening process to find the partner that you will mate with for life smh
 

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You might as well just give up on life now if you think that way, what do you think dating is? It's the screening process to find the partner that you will mate with for life smh

Dating is very recent in mankind history.

For centuries, people were getting married young without the dating process.

The rise of dating coincides with the fall of marriage. I am not saying there is causation but there is a correlation, at least.
 

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I can't fathom how a woman (or anyone) with equal to higher FICO score, education, assets et. al should concede to an individual because of genitalia. Relationships are partnerships and each person compliments the other in areas of strengths and weakness with leading roles alternating for the benefit of the team (family). At least thats how my parents taught me. If a dude is shyt with money, like many are, should a business savvy woman allow him to lead finances because he is the man? If a chick boils waffles and burns microwave popcorn, like many modern women, should a Emeril Lagasse like breh give her the responsibility of nourishing the family? That doesn't compute. Gender roles are dead. And what about same sex marriages?
 
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Mexican chicks are better than both white and black women. Only problem is that they fall off the hardest when they age unless you get a J Lo, but prime Mexican p*ssy is the best p*ssy.
 
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