If she's not submissive, don't date her. Simple

[Straw Hat Luffy]

I feel like the crazy non submissive bytchy females p*ssy and head game out of this world.
I mean it has to be the only reason why females get like that. Sex game so fukking amazing that when she gets out of control nobody does anything so she just gets used to that mentality.

 

[Kano]

I agree to an extent. I would only want a submissive woman if knew I could lead her to a successful, meaningful relationship. But I would prefer to lead her in some things and she leads me in others.

 

[Londilon]

I dont care what the OP said and IDGAF if you dusty nikkas call me a simp for saying the below:

Submission is for married couples.

Women if you are being totally submissive to your boyfriend you are stupid. Especially when your boyfriend doesn't live on his own, doesn't have his own car, and no job to support himself, in fact, he has to ask you for money. Why would you submit to someone who can't even support you? He can't pay for your food on a date but he is your boyfriend and you cook AND clean for this nikka? If you are supporting a man who only's gift to you is dikk you aren't in a loving relationship you are being used. Sex is good, but for you to do the most of just sex will cause you to be alone and single in the end. Get a dildo.

I do think its good to show you can be submissive but to submit without even being engaged is showing desperation and no one wants to date OR MARRY someone desperate.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

So, a woman like he described (cooks, listens, doesn't argue) does not act like an equal? How does an equal act then?




So a woman is not strong if she likes to cook, listen, and not argue?




Does what he described really sound like a servant to you? How?

How does a woman who is not a servant behave in your opinion?



@Prynce @BaldingSoHard

That girl doesn't sound like she's weak or a servant to me. She sounds traditional, mature, and not petty/argumentative.

When I think of a weak or servant woman, I think of a woman like @Thomas wife ( I think it was him). His wife stayed with him even though he cheated and got the girl pregnant and then allowed the girl to move into their home. She is now cooking and cleaning up behind herself, her kid, her husband, her husband's ex/mistress/baby's mother, and their child. I don't think she would leave him yet because she just had his baby and is a stay at home wife/mom and doesn't have any of her own money. That is what I think of when I think about a weak/servant woman.

A woman can cook, clean, take care of the children while the man works and still be equal to him. She can listen to him and he can listen to her. They can talk without arguing. Rarely getting and attitude doesn't mean that someone is weak or servant like. That's basically the type of woman he described. I don't understand what you guys are talking about. Do you all like to argue and fight frequently in your relationships? You all like that drama and think it's fun? How old are you?

You're overcomplicating this.

All that shyt.. cooking cleaning, etc... those aren't traits those are duties. They have nothing to do with submissiveness, any more than a man who makes x amount of money is immediately qualified to be a leader.
When I say I want a strong woman, I just mean that I want a woman who doesn't need me, but wants me anyway.
I want a wife who, if I die, isn't gonna be the one talking about, "I don't know how our finances are setup, my husband took care of all that... someone please help me... " and then hops on the nearest available dikk because she lacks the ability to support herself and our children. fukk that.
She's gonna be as smart as me, as capable as me, as assertive as me, but follow me because she trusts my judgement (which is why a woman should ultimately accept a man's proposal anyway).
All that "checking in before making decision" shyt... .
I want an ally, not a vassal.

 

[DreadBrown]

Here's how I describe it. It's really no more complicated than this for me

Ok i guess its the whole 'does what she's told' part I have a problem with.

Just doesn't sound like a healthy relationship to me. I mean, was your mother submissive? Would you teach your daughter to submit?

 

[BaldingSoHard]

What's so hard to believe? My mother was a strong woman, I see the value and potential in what a true equal can bring to the relationship and that's what I want out of a marriage.

 

[YeLovesBoston]

I dont care what the OP said and IDGAF if you dusty nikkas call me a simp for saying the below:

Submission is for married couples.

Women if you are being totally submissive to your boyfriend you are stupid. Especially when your boyfriend doesn't live on his own, doesn't have his own car, and no job to support himself, in fact, he has to ask you for money. Why would you submit to someone who can't even support you? He can't pay for your food on a date but he is your boyfriend and you cook AND clean for this nikka? If you are supporting a man who only's gift to you is dikk you aren't in a loving relationship you are being used. Sex is good, but for you to do the most of just sex will cause you to be alone and single in the end. Get a dildo.

I do think its good to show you can be submissive but to submit without even being engaged is showing desperation and no one wants to date OR MARRY someone desperate.

simp

 

[wickedsm]

Ok i guess its the whole 'does what she's told' part I have a problem with.

Just doesn't sound like a healthy relationship to me. I mean, was your mother submissive? Would you teach your daughter to submit?

I can't find the original post but "doing what you're told"
Is obedient. Not submissive.

So many folks in here just inventing new meanings to words smh

 

[CHL]

Nah breh if I'm gonna put a ring on it she needs to be my equal.

This


OP sounds like a fakkit

 

[Action Mike]

If he was too young to marry then he was too young to be in a relationship. He should have stayed single and dated casual.

If your very young the relationship is casual by default, you still figuring things out

He said he learnt from it and now appreciates that type of woman, i can relate because i did the same

Now stop beating beating this dead horse of 'WHY DIDNT YOU MARRY YOUR EX THEN'

Drop it.

Peace.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Ok i guess its the whole 'does what she's told' part I have a problem with.

Just doesn't sound like a healthy relationship to me. I mean, was your mother submissive? Would you teach your daughter to submit?

To me, a woman who does what she's told means that she's willing to cooperate. I don't give orders, but I will ask and expect certain things to be done for me. I also will do things in return and be considerate so it's an equal exchange.

My mothers not submissive and that's one of the reasons why I like submissive girls a lot because I'm not going through the issues that men in my family go through. I get along a lot better with females who consider themselves submissive so they are the type of women who are for me. I wouldn't teach my daughter to submit, but I would teach compassion and consideration. Everybody isn't meant to be submissive or dominant so it's up to the individual to decide where they fit in and who they're compatible with.

 

[CHL]

stuff like this makes me realize how wierd gender roles are when it comes to attraction

men are physically strong, right brained thinking creatures that are supposed to be tough but want to be nurtured and babied and a soft companion in general

women are physically weaker, left brained thinking creatures who are supposed to be nurturing and soft, but want to be roughed up in bed and a rugged companion in general

it looks so backwards to me lol

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[Action Mike]

Brehs date a lot when your young and figure out what you want, only through experience can you filter accordingly.

The brehettes calling for OP to have married his Ex shows that men and women peak at very different times.

 

[Londilon]

If your very young the relationship is casual by default, you still figuring things out

He said he learnt from it and now appreciates that type of woman, i can relate because i did the same

Now stop beating beating this dead horse of 'WHY DIDNT YOU MARRY YOUR EX THEN'

Drop it.

Peace.

The fact that he didn't marry his ex makes his whole argument null and void.

 

[Prodyson]

The fact that he didn't marry his ex makes his whole argument null and void.

That's stupid. Wanting submission and getting submission does not necessarily mean a relationship is gonna work. He may have been immature, got all of those things and still messed up and cheated on her (or plenty of other things). He just simply may not have been ready to lead. Just because someone submits doesn't mean they've submitted to someone who can handle it. Submission does not mean perfection by any means. You could be submissive/be submitted to and be a crap mother/father and that ends the relationship. Relationship is not a prefect science, and the idea of submission is just one piece of the pie.