"If you make $80,000 you have no business marrying a woman that makes $35,000"

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WHEN YOU GET MARRIED
AND HAVE KIDS YOURE
GONNA REALIZE YOU WANT
YOUR YOUNG CHILDREN IN
YOU OR YOUR WIFES PRESENCE AT ALL TIMES.


I CAN TELL A LOT OF YOU
CATS HAVENT LIVED LIFE YET.

ALL THAT WORK shyt IS COOL
WHEN NO KIDS ARE INVOLVED.

ITS BEEN SET UP LIKE
THIS FOR CENTURIES FOR A REASON.

MARRIED WOMEN WORKING
IS SOME NEW shyt.
:devil:
:evil:


My mom had 2 jobs and went to college while raising me and my sister and she was always around to take care of us.
 

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It's the weirdest fake alpha male shyt ever, completely detached from reality. "I'm the dominant head of the family, what you make is irrelevant" is such a laughable position to take and tells me you aren't in the dating game AT ALL. No disrespect but the views being presented are a crystal clear example of why and how black people are so far behind when it comes to financial literacy. Take away the racism, structural problems and white fukkery...and you've still got black men and women saying marriage doesn't matter, or "the money a woman makes is irrelevant." While your white coworker is literally building perfect credit off dual income with their husband/wife. What is wrong with you guys...

We're so stuck on this imaginary Kevin Samuels conversation on men making over 300k that we're overlooking the fact that this country's upper middle class is driven by people making....70k, 80k, 90k, 100-150k or more (depending on your location, of course). Those are the salary ranges of accountants, engineers, doctors, attorneys, financial planners, IT security, etc. The most lucrative professions. And if they're white (or Asian, or Indian, or black etc)...they're marrying each other on average. And when your combined income jumps to 200k+ suddenly you are in position to build perfect credit, prepare for your children's college educations, buy a home, get an Audi SUV, and all the other big boy shyt couples are doing while you...seek out your unemployed queen because she knows her place at the bottom while you're the head of the family. Madness.
:mjlol:
I don't even know why you had to even explain this in this much detail. It really shows where alot of folks heads are at. But it takes an attorney to speak on this when it should be common fukking sense.
 

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these goofies don’t see that tho:heh:

How does 115k/year=12k/month? :gucci:

She was saying a man who makes 75k/year is blue collar :dwillhuh:

Breh was making sense tho

If divorce is that real of an option, me and this lady have no business getting married. It's not a rental

I’m pretty sure every single dude who ever got married didn’t think his wife would ever divorce him :francis:
 

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Some single mothers just hit differently.

my mom wasn’t single she was married to my dad. That’s why I don’t buy into “mom stay home with the kids” stuff. A lot of people who grew up with single moms actually believe a mom has to be home all day to watch kids
 

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Didn’t listen, but if you go into marriage preparing for divorce, you lost already...

edit: for you crazy folks out there, yes of course there are exemptions, as with everything
 

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How does 115k/year=12k/month? :gucci:

She was saying a man who makes 75k/year is blue collar :dwillhuh:

Breh was making sense tho



I’m pretty sure every single dude who ever got married didn’t think his wife would ever divorce him :francis:
You knew what he mean:rudy:
 

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of course it’s impossible to you. You most likely grew up with parents that weren’t on shyt


:yeshrug:
CLAIM A WOMAN WHO
WORKED 2 JOBS AND WENT TO
COLLEGE WAS ALWAYS AROUND
FOR YOU AND GET MAD WHEN
NO ONE BELIEVES THIS IMPOSSIBLE
BULLshyt.


STOPPING IN TO
SIT YO STANKING ASS IN FRONT
OF THE TV DOESNT MEAN
SHE WAS THERE.


:mjlol:FUNNY YOU HAVENT MENTIONED
YOUR FATHER BUT WANNA
COMMENT ON MY PARENTS.

:devil:
:evil:
 

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she didn’t really say average she said “blue collar”. I think she was just trying to phrase her question with a certain scope. Obviously eliminating complete bums and ppl working retail.

Most jobs requiring masters degrees don’t even start at 75k

75k is blue collar but they don’t even wanna make 15/hr minimum wage :gucci:

*a divorce

double entendre, because i was correcting my grammar and i should point out the divorce statistics (50% divorce rate) are generally for first marriages. People tend to make better decisions the second time around.

Im pretty sure second and third marriages have a higher divorce rate than first marriages breh
 

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lol nah those doctors dont want a successful chick to trot out...they just want a trophy who has social skills and isnt a ditzy idiot

i work in high finance and i doubt that most of my bosses are married to equally successful woman who are making 300K+

that shyt just aint worth the headache. my sister makes around that and so does her husband but thats not as common especially in our community

i want my woman to work but i dont need her to make 200K+. As long as she has a solid job, is financially responsible and does not pester me to spend like a fool I am fine.

The Doctor shyt true. I have Doctor's attend these dinner programs for work and if one ever walks in with a beautiful women he got the :mjgrin: stunting on everyone.

But not everyone can have a beautiful women so they may connect with someone in their field. But I know a few who would drop their Doctor Wives for an IG Thot if they could :mjlol:
 
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