"If you make $80,000 you have no business marrying a woman that makes $35,000"
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This is some beta male babble.The fact that this is groundbreaking information, to some, is proof that women are so far ahead of men in the game. This is why women won't marry a man that makes significantly less than them. This is why Oprah says she'll never get married.
Women are good at selling you on the bullshyt, but they know better. A lot of women call men nice guys because a lot of stuff we accept, they would never accept.
They want your income to constantly increase, and sometimes will even nag you about it, but will tell you that they don't have to lose weight because you met her this way
She's going to sell you on love and all the intangibles, just so she can get the ring and access to your assets. You would think that she would at least keep up the act; most do not.
Out of guilt, someone not even in the relationship. They just stop sleeping with you, cooking, cleaning, Etc. Hoping that you will end it, or cheat so they can leave you and they can frame it as if it's your fault things didn't work out.
Even though the logic is heavily flawed, Women are far more logical then we give them credit for.
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The problem with these lame nikkas is that they think women are objects and not human. I can tell they are scared of approaching a real woman.
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A 30k a year woman is new information away from making 6 figures. My lady was only making 48k 2 years ago now she is making like 6k a week doing bank negotiations.
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That's an exception, banking on potential
But I'm talking about a chick who has no ambition, is not driven, and is comfortable doing the bare minimum professionally
My old lady was in law school when we got together...I saw the drive she had and I knew she was going places
Not every lawyer is successful, but I saw the qualities early
However, at this stage in my life, I would want someone as successful as me
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I agree with the no ambition part, can’t help these type of broads and it’s just better to not get caught up with them.
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People gotta stop lying to themselves
Money is a huge component to marriage
Sure a man theoretically doesn’t care about a woman’s income
(Many men say this on the surface)
But nikkas not trying to be honest or real on this site
A man wants a woman that makes at bare minimum a little less than him or a little more than him
Here’s why
Most men are going to pay the lion share of bills in the house
That’s if we really love-love the bytch to begin with(and I said bytch, if you are offended, scram)
It is innate in us to do it
We may let wifey pay bills here and their
But we always want wifey to see we got it and let her take care of household needs
Now life is about ups and downs
You never know as a man when you will be knocked off your rocker
Could get injured at work
Car accident
Get diagnosed with a serious illness
Lose your job(pandemic taught us we are all dispensable
On and on
We want a woman that can at least hold us down if shyt gets bleak for the family at bare minimum a year without touching savings/investments
And it’s the opposite too
A woman wants a man to hold it down during pregnancy and the formative years of our child, her getting sick/injured as well
Here’s the caveat
It’s 2021
No household(outside of the rich nikkas of thecoli
) can really stand on one income like previous generationsEverywhere you look
Yesterday’s price
Ain’t today’s price
You need dual income to survive or you right back in the trenches you nikkas love so much
If I’m making 80k ain’t no way on gods green earth am I wifing somebody with 32k annually
She has absolutely nothing to lose and all the more to gain
Sure maybe your wife was outchea always evolving and getting better at life
But nikkas also forget
Not every woman out here is trying to achieve greatness
Nor is every woman outchea trying to be lead
So that’s where the dichotomy comes in
Can’t be with a broke bytch
But can’t be with a overachiever
Personally my wife and I run this shyt like Steph and Klay
I hit my 3s with flash while she takes 11 dribbles and makes 60
And she just left her job but she got her own little shyt poppin right now
And can do it from our new home in Arkansas next month
But how many relationships are really real like this out here
I’m not an outlier but I’m definitely in the minority
Seen too many people break up over money
Either she was making way more and combative towards her dude
Or the nikka was doing it all and got tired of her lazy ass
People need to start being real
If you are in a relationship
Money and how it’s spent is a HUGE cornerstone
Easiest thing to do is stay single
Run through hoes
Find one that ain’t too crazy
Have a seed and coparent if you not about these hard conversations
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what is a UHNWI?
Does it mean ultra high net worth individual if so how do you get to that tier making 80k?
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What is really a broke bish though? A 30k woman can easily become an earner with new information if she not a mental case.People gotta stop lying to themselves
Money is a huge component to marriage
Sure a man theoretically doesn’t care about a woman’s income
(Many men say this on the surface)
But nikkas not trying to be honest or real on this site
A man wants a woman that makes at bare minimum a little less than him or a little more than him
Here’s why
Most men are going to pay the lion share of bills in the house
That’s if we really love-love the bytch to begin with(and I said bytch, if you are offended, scram)
It is innate in us to do it
We may let wifey pay bills here and their
But we always want wifey to see we got it and let her take care of household needs
Now life is about ups and downs
You never know as a man when you will be knocked off your rocker
Could get injured at work
Car accident
Get diagnosed with a serious illness
Lose your job(pandemic taught us we are all indispensable
On and on
We want a woman that can at least hold us down if shyt gets bleak for the family at bare minimum a year without touching savings/investments
And it’s the opposite too
A woman wants a man to hold it down during pregnancy and the formative years of our child, her getting sick/injured as well
Here’s the caveat
It’s 2021
No household(outside of the rich nikkas of thecoli
Everywhere you look
Yesterday’s price
Ain’t today’s price
You need dual income to survive or you right back in the trenches you nikkas love so much
If I’m making 80k ain’t no way on gods green earth am I wifing somebody with 32k annually
She has absolutely nothing to lose and all the more to gain
Sure maybe your wife was outchea always evolving and getting better at life
But nikkas also forget
Not every woman out here is trying to achieve greatness
Nor is every woman outchea trying to be lead
So that’s where the dichotomy comes in
Can’t be with a broke bytch
But can’t be with a overachiever
Personally my wife and I run this shyt like Steph and Klay
I hit my 3s with flash while she takes 11 dribbles and makes 60
And she just left her job but she got her own little shyt poppin right now
And can do it from our new home in Arkansas next month
But how many relationships are really real like this out here
I’m not an outlier but I’m definitely in the minority
Seen too many people break up over money
Either she was making way more and combative towards her dude
Or the nikka was doing it all and got tired of her lazy ass
People need to start being real
If you are in a relationship
Money and how it’s spent is a HUGE cornerstone
Easiest thing to do is stay single
Run through hoes
Find one that ain’t too crazy
Have a seed and coparent if you not about these hard conversations
This thread highlights there are a lot of foolish illogical males out there.
If you arent equally or somewhat equally yoked with your wife, you are a fool.
If you arent equally or somewhat equally yoked with your wife, you are a fool.
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This is false unless y’all work at the same job and do the same thing for work. Y’all dudes lack a growth mindset which has nothing to do with your partner.
This has nothing to do with "growth mindset", stop using these terms that you dont have a full comprehensive meaning on.
A growth mindset doesnt require making 100k dealing with a woman making 40k, thats nonsense.
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What does a growth mindset have to do with then? I said a 40k woman can easily become a 6 figure woman with new information. People that make more money than you know information that you don’t yet have. Enlighten me
What does a growth mindset have to do with then? I said a 40k woman can easily become a 6 figure woman with new information. People that make more money than you know information that you don’t yet have. Enlighten me
You figure that out and help your partner grow BEFORE marriage, not after. Only a foolish person hitches themselves to a horse before they feed it