"I'm not a step father, im THE FATHER that stepped up"

UpAndComing

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It's never the man's either. No one wants to take blame, so the same issues will continue.

Then why does the term Deadbeat Dad exists?

Then why does "Father take care of your kids" exist?

Then why does the court system blame the father by automatically giving the children to the mother and father have to pay State mandated child support?

The women controls the beginning and end of a relationship, it's their legs that opened to allow an immature man into their temple. It's hard for women to take responsibility for their actions, which is sad to see
 
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There’s nothing wrong with being a step father or dating a woman with kids. All relationships don’t work out. Also just because a woman has a kid doesn’t mean she’s a good for nothing thot, some of them are great women and have a lot going for them. On the flip side if youre a young breh and don’t want to date a woman with kids that’s perfectly fine too, it does come with a lot of responsibility.
 

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I will teach my daughter that the most important decision that she will make in her life is who she chooses to father her child. If another man needs to step up, that mean she choosed wrong. No way in he'll will another man need to step up to raise my future kids. I Also judge dead beats harshly...too many bird brains Ciaras out there willingly becoming baby mama 3 to 4 to some dumb ass dudes. I have seen some female aquaintances lives turn upside down getting pregnant by bummy dudes
 

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The dualities of the coli in one thread crying about how black boys got no father figures while in other thread shytting on brehs who decide to do something about it.

Also kats need to stop acting like every single mom is a women who had kids out of wedlock. Many divorced moms with kids get wifed up.

My boy who was a divorced father of 3 kids just married a divorced mother with 3 kids.

But by coli standards his new wife is a out of wedlock kids having thot. Yet she had her kids while married. And by coli standards my boy would be a simp because he married a women with 3 kids even though he has 3 kids from a previous marriage.
 
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These fake militants are the worst hypocrites :mjlol:

The coli is supposedly "pro black", yet most coli brehs celebrate dysfunction and shame people for doing what's right.

If dude in OP was smutting out black women and leaving a trail of fatherless babies, he'd be celebrated as #HOH and #GMB.

Yet it's cac this and cac that when these nikkas want to virtue signal and show that they are pro black. :mjlol:

As long you ride with Tariq Nasheed or Yvette Carnell, mention cacs at least twice in every post and shyt on bedwenches, you're pro black by coli standards.

shyt is pathetic :snoop:

All of this is nothing but truth.
 

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Dudes are just too extreme. Everything has to be black and white. They know nothing about this breh or the woman that he's with. They don't know her history or why she is a single mother. They simply concluded that she's some reformed thot and that breh is a simp who is trying to save her, thereby enabling the reckless baby dad culture as you said.

And like you said, there are plenty ways in which a woman can become a single mother. Abusive husband. Dead husband. Maybe her marriage simply didn't work out etc.. why do they automatically assume that any black single mom is a thot? :mjpls:

Here's the kicker tho breh: these are the exact same cats who high five nikkas like @skeetsinternal for putting babies inside these same women and creating more dysfunction. :francis:

If they were truly against the dysfunction they wouldn't be enabling it by endorsing such reckless behavior:yeshrug:

Nothing but the damn truth.....dap + rep.
 
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