"I'm not a step father, im THE FATHER that stepped up"

[Payroll]

Simp father*

 

[Wildin]

nikkas are lame 25+ single with no kids, meeting broads "so why are you single?"

"Ahh you know, I'm bout my paper.....I work a lot, got my degree, my certs...you know...."

"That's cool (so this dude has no life experience)"

 

[Umoja]

Don't know why people can't just go on about their business without trying to stunt on someone.

I would have no problem raising a child that came before the relationship (assuming I have kids of my own), but I don't see the need to point of denigrating the biological father. Stinks of insecurity.

 

[The ADD]

I don't know what world yall live in, pretty much every woman I know loves a man who's good with kids.

So if they are single mom's and you have a good rapport with the kid or kids they are like

And even if your married with kids of your own (no simp shyt) and you take your kid to the store and pick them up or interact with them, other women, married with kids, married with no kids, single, dating whatever see you and the happy ass kid and are like .

Women have soft spots for children. No matter the breed or the broad if your a man and you look good and have a good rapport, the broads love you.

No 2nd round pick, no 3rd round pick.

#1 in the draft.

What does that have to do with my post?

 

[you're NOT "n!ggas"]

We'll see yall in the next "These new dudes ain't got fathers" thread talking shyt there too

This. The shirt is corny and extra as fukk but if he's being a father then that's ultimately what matters most. He COULD have kids of his own too, we can't know that from a t-shirt.

 

[Wildin]

What does that have to do with my post?

You said he didn't step up, others were saying she settled. He was probably just fukking her because all women like to fukk. Eventually met the kids picked them up and played with him like they was his then she got all and probably convinced him to stay. Not saying she needs him or that he needs them but universally women love men who are good with kids.

 

[UpAndComing]

We'll see yall in the next "These new dudes ain't got fathers" thread talking shyt there too

Who's that in ya Avi?

 

[The ADD]

You said he didn't step up, others were saying she settled. He was probably just fukking her because all women like to fukk. Eventually met the kids picked them up and played with him like they was his then she got all and probably convinced him to stay. Not saying she needs him or that he needs them but universally women love men who are good with kids.

Again bruh, what does that have to do with my statement?

 

[Juven]

Simps will do anything to keep a smile on a single mother's face.

so people here want young black kids to grow up without a father? How come no one is shytting on the dad who left his kid? Isn't he destroying the community?

I don't get it

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

Marrying a woman with another mans children is like buying a used car with a permanent passenger.

Yeah it drives the same, but it comes with bullshyt you cant get rid of

 

[Hungerpain]

You do realize that there is more than one way in which a woman can end up as a single mother, right?

Not every single mom is a reformed thot.

People get divorced. Relationships don't work out. Husbands die etc...

Do y'all coli nikkas ever go outside?

Been outside my whole life akhi and MOST girls/women ive come across thats single mothers are dirtbags or shallow idiots that got knocked up by dirtbags not because some tragedy.
You dont gotta be a thot to be irresponsible and idk why your bringing that up because i said nothing about single mothers being thots.(although most of them are)
You do realize this single mother culture is not the norm in healthy communities right?

Take ya cape off for 2 seconds and realize who and what your making excuses for.
You know how many boys and girls have been abused by they step dad that they dumb ass mom let around them?
Step fathers are not the answer dikkhead people being responsible about bringing life into this world is and the majority of that burden lies on women whether you agree or not.

 

[Wildin]

Again bruh, what does that have to do with my statement?

You said he didn't step up, I'm saying maybe she he had the game and pulled her.

 

[UpAndComing]

Some of you are clowns, always trying to appeal to the emotions of the readers...Smh

That's why women of other races who are single mothers, see black men as some type of salvation. Because of you clowns who happen to be black, but still have zero respect for black men and expect them to just accept any condition, no matter what.

The non-dysfunctional black man is asked to abandon the dream of having a kid of his own or raising a kid of his own, his own seed, because pathetic black males and pathetic black females, who were not ready to have kids, slept together.

FOH, if black boys have no fathers, it is not because of the guys without kids, guys who married the women they got pregnant, or the guys who are not with the moms but still take care of their kids.

You guys know very well, that the blame falls on the immature women who allowed immature men to get them pregnant. These 2, are the only ones to blame.

It's never the women's fault in a Black Matriarchal Society

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

Taking another mans children is about the most alpha male thing you can do. It’s almost super villain Thanos/Gamora levels if it’s done right. To erase a nikkas relevance from his own progeny is final boss somebody gotta die tonight status for me

 

[audemarzz]

Our experiences shape our beliefs, I've seen the bad side too many times and while I know it can be good at times the bad often overtakes the good, I want to see the good but

often the bad is the truth, I'm happy for kids getting to have stable homes but I want my own family and no one should begrudge that decision,it's wild to me to actually want

someone with no kids to step in and take the responsibility the original person ran away from. it's not the job of another man/woman to be the savior to another adult and their life decisions, someone once said single mothers should get with single fathers and I agree with that sentiment it makes more sense to me than sitting up posturing single

men/women to take on such a huge responsibility. . . Also it negates responsibility of the parent, if you fukked with a ain't shyt person that likely means you wasn't shyt either, that

nikka didn't become trash overnight he had signs you either ignored them or adored them,I'm not saying be single forever but why should that person be allotted the cream of

the crop, date within your means or stay in your lane perhaps, I wouldn't tell a sister with her shyt together to get with a dude with multiple baby mommas or who stay in and out of prison but I'm supposed to champion "good" brothers who got they shyt together and no kids to walk into a life altering situation How selfish

A man deciding not to take on another's responsibility is not the detriment of the community it is the man who shunned those responsibilities in the first place you should shame