"I'm not a step father, im THE FATHER that stepped up"

[audemarzz]

The difference will be in most cases she wanted the nikka she had the baby by . .you . .ehhh you the safety net

you the nikka when she sipping coffee and look over at you holding the baby she think to herself " I mean I don't love him but he's good with the kids and brings stability"

you the nikka who end up writing online asking shyt like this

My girlfriend was trying to make it work with her baby's father. She admitted she made a mistake. What do I do?
We dated for 3 months. Then she wanted to try and make it work for her son. So she went back to the other dude. And a week into it she realized she made a mistake but now she's been living together for 5 weeks . They dont touch or sleep together. Hes a controlling loser and all they do is fight.

https://www.quora.com/My-girlfriend...-She-admitted-she-made-a-mistake-What-do-I-do

let a chick come back after spending five weeks with her baby daddy bruhs believe they was chilling for weeks and didn't smash bruhs

 

[BrothaZay]

I love it

 

[Deuterion]

We'll see yall in the next "These new dudes ain't got fathers" thread talking shyt there too

This site is filled with stupid people.

 

[pop]

nobody is claiming that it was an act of charity. Still doesn't negate the fact that he stepped up though. "Stepping up" = assuming a responsibility when you don't have to.

But they do have to. Every step dad I know is late twenties to early thirties lame who can't have kids of his own. These guys wouldn't get any p*ssy if they didn't simp and step. I have never seen a step dad with a woman who would be with him if she didn't have kids.

 

[Wildin]

I'm trying to adopt a kid right now

So many hoops and shyt I gotta jump through it really makes you want to just .

Black kids need good black fathers anyway they can get them. I wouldn't rock a shirt but Im not in any way disappointed at someone who would (unless they just fronting and ain't even a good stepdad)

 

[audemarzz]

I'm trying to adopt a kid right now

So many hoops and shyt I gotta jump through it really makes you want to just .

Black kids need good black fathers anyway they can get them. I wouldn't rock a shirt but Im not in any way disappointed at someone who would (unless they just fronting and ain't even a good stepdad)

Nothing against adoption I rank that differently than this situation.

 

[KamikazePilot]

It depends on the situation if the father's completely out the picture this shirt isn't as bad. If the father is still involved I hope he don't get his ass beat.

I just hope that shirt don't backfire and the kid tells him he's not his father and then he's sitting there looking like

This is a shirt you're supposed to let the kid get for your birthday or Christmas when they're older.

If he got this made for himself it's kinda corny and like I said hope it doesn't backfire on him.

 

[Hungerpain]

All I get from this post:

1) women with children deserve to be single for the rest of their lives

2) young black boys and girls should remain fatherless if their daddies leave them.

Sounds like the recipe for a healthy and vibrant community

Dont care what you "get" from my post.
I said what i said and its the truth.

Maybe if these Step fathers didnt make themselves so available as a saftey net more women would actually care about the type of nikkas they let get them pregnant and more kids could Grow up with their real fathers and not some nikka fukkin they moms.
Just a thought.

 

[Wildin]

Nothing against adoption I rank that differently than this situation.

It's not different. Your taking care of someone else's seed. You can get married to a single broad and adopt her kids if dad relinquished his parental rights or ain't there at all.

It's the same thing. Just different forms (as in paperwork).

I'm not going to be one of these parents that try to hide the fact that the child is adopted, the kid will either know or know of their biological parents, depending on the age.

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

single mothers LUV me but i wont even smash one ever again.some of them bytches damaged beyond repair

shyt is too risky.tried it once carefully to a T

that package of a single mother a kid and a might be crazy BD plus etc

single mothers dead to me.sorry.i salute the real dudes out there who can lead that step daddy life.
it aint for everyone.

dont get me started on how these crazy bytches be on medication on top of all the other bs they got going

 

[Black Steph Curry]

Alot of you nikkas would be looking real stupid itt if it turned out ol boy's lady was a reformed thot. Yall say nikkas are clownin ol dude based on an assumption but other nikkas are taking tha route based on a different set of assumptions. I think tha shirt is corny either way, it romanticizes and glamorizes patchwork families as if thts tha norm to strive for. Where's tha fanfare for tha responsible nikkas who take care of their seed & tha women who are good judgements of character & don't have to rely on a 2nd nikka to pick up tha pieces? I understand due to extenuating circumstances a child can't always have they og father in they life but let's not swing tha pendulum so far as to where irresponsible women feel emboldened to employ dual mating bcuz behavior like tht is toxic in and of itself. At tha end of tha day a child deserves parents who truly love each other, not just parents who are only together bcuz tha mom settled for a man who would provide for her unclaimed baggage and has to take 'girls night out' trips to be satisfied.

 

[Mr Rager]

p*ssy gotta be laced with opium to make a nikka wear that shirt

 

[Wildin]

Spoiler

Simps will do anything to keep a smile on a single mother's face.

nikkas like to be white knights, sad part is they white knight for bytches that wont fukk with em until their left with no options

Invest time and raise kids that might not respect you brehs.

Love these kids and when you try to educate them hear your not my real father brehs.

No you are the simp

Raise another mans seed brehs

I hate this shyt with a passion.

He didn’t step up. The women he wanted came with kids. He had to accept them as part of the transaction. Good for him but you don’t need a shirt or a parade fam.

Be proud to take care of another man's nut brehs.

the same ho wouldn’t even look at him if she had no kids

Exactly simps need to stop this shyt. Now if the man and woman are both single parents cool because they share that responsibility and time schedule so they most likely on the same page.

a breh with no kids tho?? Thats like bragging about copping a used 2010 740 with 3 previous owners

Some guys have "no choice" but to be the guy that stepped up in order to get an attractive single woman . I know of a couple decently attractive woman that had dudes begging too be with them..both are recently single moms before the baby was even born, one is a 2X single mom....time for dudes like him to "step up" and get them at a discounted rate lol.

The difference will be in most cases she wanted the nikka she had the baby by . .you . .ehhh you the safety net

you the nikka when she sipping coffee and look over at you holding the baby she think to herself " I mean I don't love him but he's good with the kids and brings stability"

you the nikka who end up writing online asking shyt like this

My girlfriend was trying to make it work with her baby's father. She admitted she made a mistake. What do I do?
We dated for 3 months. Then she wanted to try and make it work for her son. So she went back to the other dude. And a week into it she realized she made a mistake but now she's been living together for 5 weeks . They dont touch or sleep together. Hes a controlling loser and all they do is fight.

https://www.quora.com/My-girlfriend...-She-admitted-she-made-a-mistake-What-do-I-do

let a chick come back after spending five weeks with her baby daddy bruhs believe they was chilling for weeks and didn't smash bruhs

I don't know what world yall live in, pretty much every woman I know loves a man who's good with kids.

So if they are single mom's and you have a good rapport with the kid or kids they are like

And even if your married with kids of your own (no simp shyt) and you take your kid to the store and pick them up or interact with them, other women, married with kids, married with no kids, single, dating whatever see you and the happy ass kid and are like .

Women have soft spots for children. No matter the breed or the broad if your a man and you look good and have a good rapport, the broads love you.

No 2nd round pick, no 3rd round pick.

#1 in the draft.

 

[Bushmaster]

Dont care what you "get" from my post.
I said what i said and its the truth.

Maybe if these Step fathers didnt make themselves so available as a saftey net more women would actually care about the type of nikkas they let get them pregnant and more kids could Grow up with their real fathers and not some nikka fukkin they moms.
Just a thought.

You do realize that there is more than one way in which a woman can end up as a single mother, right?

Not every single mom is a reformed thot.

People get divorced. Relationships don't work out. Husbands die etc...

Do y'all coli nikkas ever go outside?

 

[UpAndComing]

I would never be in a serious relationship with a single mom