"I'm not a step father, im THE FATHER that stepped up"

[Wildin]

You know how many boys and girls have been abused by they step dad that they dumb ass mom let around them?
.

You gotta make a decision on whether your talking about good fathers/mothers (whether bio or step) or bad father's/mothers (biological or step). How you blame a kid for having bad parents?

A bad father is a bad father regardless. And a good one is a good one. Besides the statistics on serial assault and molestation amongst family members are not good. Plenty of children touched by blood siblings, blood parents, blood grandparents, uncles, aunties.

So to write off people that have step brothers / sisters, half brothers sisters, stepdads and mom's is silly.

It's very simple good parents are good parents, it's stupid to say out loud that a person who is being a good parent lost because the child isn't theres or that they are part of some problem .

People saying "kids gonna tell you, you ain't the daddy" if that's the case then obviously there's not a healthy relationship there.

Let Shaq tell you nikkas

 

[The ADD]

You said he didn't step up, I'm saying maybe she he had the game and pulled her.

I don't think you have a concept of what i was talking about bruh

 

[BmoreGorilla]

Thread is hilarious. All single mothers are reformed thots and all step dads are simps

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Thread is hilarious. All single mothers are reformed thots and all step dads are simps

Nuance doesn’t exist on TLR.

 

[DapMeUp!]

"I'm not a step father, im THE FATHER that stepped up"

Most of the fools who believe in this quote, forget that they were only allowed to step up, because the ladies had child out of wedlock, and were tired of the social pressure...In other words, if she was not a single mom, you would not be her first choice, and probably not even second...

Well damn....

 

[Mindfield333]

I respect it

 

[Wildin]

I don't think you have a concept of what i was talking about bruh

Maybe breh wanted kids if he has a healthy relationship with mom and her kids, then he stepped up. He definitely don't need a shirt or parade. But I ain't mad at him.

Some people like a challenge. They see a nikka in a BMW, they get on their grind and come through in a Porsche. If someone is trying to hate on him and hes 'stepping up ' then they know what they gotta do, either be good to their own or take on someone else's and try to be good.

 

[Born2BKing]

We'll see yall in the next "These new dudes ain't got fathers" thread talking shyt there too

Coli nikkas hate stepfathers and single mothers, yet diss young black men for being fatherless.

 

[The ADD]

Maybe breh wanted kids if he has a healthy relationship with mom and her kids, then he stepped up. He definitely don't need a shirt or parade. But I ain't mad at him.

Some people like a challenge. They see a nikka in a BMW, they get on their grind and come through in a Porsche. If someone is trying to hate on him and hes 'stepping up ' then they know what they gotta do, either be good to their own or take on someone else's and try to be good.

So you agree with me.................

Very well

 

[Rawtid]

It's never the women's fault in a Black Matriarchal Society

It's never the man's either. No one wants to take blame, so the same issues will continue.

 

[Hellmont]

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I don't know what world yall live in, pretty much every woman I know loves a man who's good with kids.

So if they are single mom's and you have a good rapport with the kid or kids they are like

And even if your married with kids of your own (no simp shyt) and you take your kid to the store and pick them up or interact with them, other women, married with kids, married with no kids, single, dating whatever see you and the happy ass kid and are like .

Women have soft spots for children. No matter the breed or the broad if your a man and you look good and have a good rapport, the broads love you.

No 2nd round pick, no 3rd round pick.

#1 in the draft.

What does this have anything to do with my quote

 

[Black Steph Curry]

I don't know what world yall live in, pretty much every woman I know loves a man who's good with kids.

So if they are single mom's and you have a good rapport with the kid or kids they are like

And even if your married with kids of your own (no simp shyt) and you take your kid to the store and pick them up or interact with them, other women, married with kids, married with no kids, single, dating whatever see you and the happy ass kid and are like .

Women have soft spots for children. No matter the breed or the broad if your a man and you look good and have a good rapport, the broads love you.

No 2nd round pick, no 3rd round pick.

#1 in the draft.

nikkas are lame 25+ single with no kids, meeting broads "so why are you single?"

"Ahh you know, I'm bout my paper.....I work a lot, got my degree, my certs...you know...."

"That's cool (so this dude has no life experience)"

Do you think before you post? Be honest.

Taking another mans children is about the most alpha male thing you can do. It’s almost super villain Thanos/Gamora levels if it’s done right. To erase a nikkas relevance from his own progeny is final boss somebody gotta die tonight status for me

Like tha bum who left his kids is gon try to claim them

Tht nikka is chillin in a different state, not giving a fukk.

This ain't game of thrones, these are regular citizen Joes we talking bout. You been watching too many marvel movies.

 

[Rawtid]

Been outside my whole life akhi and MOST girls/women ive come across thats single mothers are dirtbags or shallow idiots that got knocked up by dirtbags not because some tragedy.
You dont gotta be a thot to be irresponsible and idk why your bringing that up because i said nothing about single mothers being thots.(although most of them are)
You do realize this single mother culture is not the norm in healthy communities right?

Take ya cape off for 2 seconds and realize who and what your making excuses for.
You know how many boys and girls have been abused by they step dad that they dumb ass mom let around them?
Step fathers are not the answer dikkhead people being responsible about bringing life into this world is and the majority of that burden lies on women whether you agree or not.

Do you know how many biological fathers have abused and raped their own kids? Plus beat and rape their mothers?

 

[kdslittlebro]

Not gonna shyt on the next man for stepping up, but it won't be me nothing wrong with one less kid not having a father in his life, but also nothing wrong with making sure we got our eyes on the prize. Not seeding anything up til I know neither one of us going anywhere

 

[Wildin]

What does this have anything to do with my quote

You said "raise another man's seed breh" I quoted cause someone's going to read that and think it's a sarcastic joke, insinuating that it's a bad thing to do.