I'm terrified of BW.

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I want D. But I don’t have sex with men that I don’t have a relationship with. It’s a necessary evil. Plus at some point in the next couple of years I want another baby. Just keeping it honest, those are the only reasons.

I want D. But I don’t have sex with men that I don’t have a relationship with. It’s a necessary evil. Plus at some point in the next couple of years I want another baby. Just keeping it honest, those are the only reasons.

So you want to get married or just have another baby ...:lolbron:
 

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Reading through the responses in this thread(and other threads too), I’ve noticed quite of a few of you have some negative generalizations about black women when it comes to dating. Some are even encouraging him to date outside his race even when he already stated his preference.

Smh... black women really just cant win on this site.

I wonder how prevalent this thinking is in reality. If it’s as bad as it is on here, then I see why black women are constantly disrespected or criticized while other races of women are treated with more leniency when it comes to their behavior.

This site has opened my eyes to this. Seeing how a lot of bm feel about bw. We have to deal with too much from this world and then deal with this from our men. They pushing him straight to nonbw so easily. But let a bw do the same type of encouraging. Brehs speak about how bw have no loyalty, well I can see why. These younger gen bw exploring all their options these days, and I’m glad for them. Don’t give your loyalty to these men who think so negatively of you, think better of other women plus they encourage brehs that actually want us to pawg, paag, palg too. Then these brehs wonder why bw be so through with them and against them and have these attitudes. But I digress. I love bm but this site has exposed me to shyt that I really didn’t think was the case. Oh well.
 
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This site has opened my eyes to this. Seeing how a lot of bm feel about bw. We have to deal with too much from this world and then deal with this from our men. They pushing him straight to nonbw so easily. But let a bw do the same type of encouraging. Brehs speak about how bw have no loyalty, well I can see why. These younger gen bw exploring all their options these days, and I’m glad for them. Don’t give your loyalty to these men who think so negatively of you, think better of other women plus they encourage brehs that actually want us to pawg, paag, palg too. Then these brehs wonder why bw be so through with them and against them and have these attitudes. But I digress. I love bm but this site has exposed me to shyt that I really didn’t think was the case. Oh well.


yeah alot of these dudes are pawgers who can't get black women.

a pawger who can still get bw really doesn't diss bw.

he may have black kids and mixed kids.
 

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I don’t follow that rule and I won’t. Too many sexy paid bm at my job. Discovered that on Friday at a fire drill. And brehs were looking at me like they were too interested. Even got followed to my cubicle. I’m also talking to one breh I work with too. Work is like the best way to meet ppl. My boss is married to a man she met at work too

Get fired brehette's...:snoop:


I'll PM you, I have some single friends women stay trying to wife up...even some down south too
 

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BW don't owe me a relationship. And I have to learn to be o.k. with that and unlearn my entitlement.

:yeshrug:

I think in your case you just haven’t met the right one. You seem like a good breh. I wish I could help, I hate that you’ve had some bad experiences with some bw. I promise you we all aren’t like that though. I’ve never tried to clown or embarrass a breh. I’m always careful about that. I know how much courage it takes to approach. Some bw are picky and whatnot, but there are those that would love a breh like you. From what you’ve posted, brehettes thatve worked with you are interested. I feel like maybe dating is like finding a job. You don’t give up if your unemployed you keep putting those applications in, no matter how many interviews you tank or rejection emails you get. You don’t give up, because eventually the right job is going to come right on time. That’s what I would say. Keep putting yourself out there. Don’t take rejection personal. And if you want the counselor I told you about or to ever talk inbox me.
 

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Mine just kicked in. What do you want to know? I get mine from my friend who does drinks, snacks etc. A sip or two and you'll be floating. Hers are potent.
I smoked one time and got hella paranoid... will that happen with those :jbhmm: does it make you feel tipsy?
 

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Oh @Meh is 5ft7? I think I’ve found the issue. Women in general are fussy over height but (in my experience) Black women are super duper particular about dating short men.

Unless you’re rich, extremely good looking or have an outstanding personality, you’ll struggle a lot more with BW being vertically challenged. I know some super simps are gonna swoop down and attack me for besmirching black women, but I’m talking from observation.

Like @Youseenmywork said, work on yourself and be more social. You haven’t even had a girlfriend before. Start off there and hopefully you’ll grow as a person socially.

:btlaff:
 
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