Incel/Femcel Solutions

[yardman]

You invested to much time on this subject

I don't think her energy and time investment in the topic is inherently wrong. These are the weirdo's that tend murk masses of people, so trying to understand their mind might actually help you spot and distance yourself from one of these people or potentially purposely interact with one of them if that's your thing.​

 

[13473]

there's way less homeless chicks than homeless men too.

Women have their priorities straight in that regard.

A good deal of homeless have mental or addiction problems that make them unrealistic choices for a relationship.

Plenty of men live off women

 

[semicko82]

It's lowkey why govs/empires encourage/normalized families, to give every man something they HAD/HAVE to care about and lower their chances of being swayed to do some wild shyt. AKA "Hey man, I got a wife and kids, I can't..."

Yup, basically the red pill.
That’s why I say it’s a deeper and more complex issue than just getting laid.
On that note I’m not going to bring the subject up anymore on The Coli because brehs think you’re being a misogynistic MGTOW woman hater if you point out what’s happening in society.

 

[semicko82]

Because are economy is predicated on debt, and in the American version of capitalism there HAVE to be perpetual losers for their to be perpetual winners. If school actually educated the masses they might change society for the better and that doesn't help those in power (politically+financially) maintain their positions. There are few coincidences in the arc of inequity of Murica

 

[Wiseborn]

Again, the common thread before you kinda get to the fork in the road is most of these dude "perform" all the things you're "supposed" to do for women.

Then they are separated by the mfs with mental issues that don't take care of themselves and to the dudes, who on the outside look normal (shape, hygiene, job, social) but also have issues that prevent them from being "successful with women."

Incels are different than dudes that have no luck with women--which is why I hate the the word being thrown around so casual.

Incels have developed a whole religion around their issues and grab excuses instead of changing and getting help (and I'm not talking PUA/Mack Lessons).

Dudes who are somewhat "normal" who are considered "incels" know that there "incelhood" is a fallacy. White incels acknowledge the "just be white" theory. Theres been tons of white incels that "geomaxxed". In fact theres a hilarious Black "incel" who had a white guy say "if Black Men are seen as hypermasculine and Black Men despite society's general depiction of them are able to get other women how can Black Men be incels?.
The Black dude didnt agree but he didnt have an answer so he titled the video "incel gets IQ mogged by a Chad".

My point is its more important to the Black guy that he be a leader in the incel community than to be a regular normie with an occasional girlfriend.

 

[FTBS]

How about communication and honesty from parents? I didn't watch the video but I've never seen or heard of a Femcel in my life. Some of the least attractive, sloppiest women I've met are getting dikk. So I'm gonna focus on guys here. Both parents gotta keep it real with their sons. Sure some people have legit mental illness, but most dudes that are lacking in this regard are some combo of lazy, misguided, soft, and coddled. Dads, push your son's to be men, which means they have purpose in their lives and goals to reach so they are doing something more than just playing video games, eating pizza, and masturbating. This starts with modeling. Dad can't be laying on the couch all day and tell his son to get up and get out and make something of himself. Dad obviously must be involved to begin with. Mom's be honest with your son's about how females roll. Don't sell him the rom com dream. Don't encourage simp behavior. Let him know how a female acts when she's interested, not interested, playing games etc. Mate with a dependable, respectable man whom you would want your son to grow up to be like in the first place.

The first problem is that they buy into the romantic nonsense hardcore forgetting women aren't video game achievements, but, people.

You do say this, go here, give her this and get a girlfriend like a RPG.

In fairness, this is how men are wired. We are wired to set our minds on something and then do everything in our power to get it. Even guys that get girls have a mindset like this to a degree, it just may not be as straightfoward. Dude's wait to respond or respond in certain ways and do all the stuff that AMS or whatever guru says to do with the same motivation.

 

[Bossino]

Yup, basically the red pill.
That’s why I say it’s a deeper and more complex issue than just getting laid.
On that note I’m not going to bring the subject up anymore on The Coli because brehs think you’re being a misogynistic MGTOW woman hater if you point out what’s happening in society.

People tend to not favor critical thinking/thought because it requires understanding as well as effort, and it reveals truth that makes people uncomfortable. You'd be pissed if you're 37 married with kid, and realize for the first time your wife doesn't love you solely/per se but more the situation you can provide for her. You'd get even angrier if you realize she might possibly leave you if someone with high playing rank came along and gave the opportunity. That can literally break some people.

Hell a lotta guys won't admit they're not the most attractive guy their woman's been with/the best sex she's had. There's a reason why we have religion, and other institutions it makes people make sense of the world, because without most would revert to full blown savagery.

We're as a species reaching intellectual/emotional awareness that is rivaling, and for some men often red pillers overcoming biological imperative. I realized this when I had my first baddie, and I was beating and I had a brief moment where I was thinking "Imma flood her guts", then I was like wait that's a horrible risk/life choice. Moreover, I don't like her as a person so why would I think-, it was at that moment I realized just how powerful biology can be on some people (I consider myself a thinker, probably say aloud to people less than 15% of my thoughts). The bulk of people go through life with feeling/sensation/emotion first, and logic second. So naturally redpill, or any larger conceptual understanding will seem foreign and an affront on their way of life especially since what feels good and what is good often are at conflict. The bulk of people are largely unable to navigate cognitive dissonance.

It's why dudes who know they don't want to be a father regularly go raw, and women let do so knowing they've shown nothing prior indicating responsibility. It feels good and is in my best interest hence I'm going to do it, it works out usually so.... The foresight, understanding and awareness to be think better of the situation is simply too much for a lot of people. Similar thought process makes Muricans call anyone who questions any aspect of capitalism a socialist/communist you're attacking what they perceive through feeling to be in their best interest. People don't like consider the possibility the beliefs, ideologies, or people they've predicated their lives on could be flawed or outright wrong, and the powers that be just manipulate that complacency (ie. "they're trying to change your way of life, but I won't let it happen").

Nuance is a mufukka

 

[Weaver31]

That’s the misconception that these guys are going after 7 and ups. They’re getting curbed by women on their same “level “

True....80/20 rule applies as well as times changing. Some women don't mind being on the bench for certain men and men are willing to fuk anything with a hole...so there are less "low hanging fruit" for average to below average men.

 

[Bossino]

How about communication and honesty from parents? I didn't watch the video but I've never seen or heard of a Femcel in my life. Some of the least attractive, sloppiest women I've met are getting dikk. So I'm gonna focus on guys here. Both parents gotta keep it real with their sons. Sure some people have legit mental illness, but most dudes that are lacking in this regard are some combo of lazy, misguided, soft, and coddled. Dads, push your son's to be men, which means they have purpose in their lives and goals to reach so they are doing something more than just playing video games, eating pizza, and masturbating. This starts with modeling. Dad can't be laying on the couch all day and tell his son to get up and get out and make something of himself. Dad obviously must be involved to begin with. Mom's be honest with your son's about how females roll. Don't sell him the rom com dream. Don't encourage simp behavior. Let him know how a female acts when she's interested, not interested, playing games etc. Mate with a dependable, respectable man whom you would want your son to grow up to be like in the first place.



In fairness, this is how men are wired. We are wired to set our minds on something and then do everything in our power to get it. Even guys that get girls have a mindset like this to a degree, it just may not be as straightfoward. Dude's wait to respond or respond in certain ways and do all the stuff that AMS or whatever guru says to do with the same motivation.

You forget a lot people have kids just because they feel like they're supposed to and aren't willing to put them all the way first. If your son isn't a looker and you explain the game all the way, your chances at grandchildren will take a hit. Moreover if your dad got played/his mom just settled how would he know if he's still in the matrix so to speak, lowkey the blind stay leading the blind

 

[semicko82]

People tend to not favor critical thinking/thought because it requires understanding as well as effort, and it reveals truth that makes people uncomfortable. You'd be pissed if you're 37 married with kid, and realize for the first time your wife doesn't love you solely/per se but more the situation you can provide for her. You'd get even angrier if you realize she might possibly leave you if someone with high playing rank came along and gave the opportunity. That can literally break some people.

Hell a lotta guys won't admit they're not the most attractive guy their woman's been with/the best sex she's had. There's a reason why we have religion, and other institutions it makes people make sense of the world, because without most would revert to full blown savagery.

We're as a species reaching intellectual/emotional awareness that is rivaling, and for some men often red pillers overcoming biological imperative. I realized this when I had my first baddie, and I was beating and I had a brief moment where I was thinking "Imma flood her guts", then I was like wait that's a horrible risk/life choice. Moreover, I don't like her as a person so why would I think-, it was at that moment I realized just how powerful biology can be on some people (I consider myself a thinker, probably say aloud to people less than 15% of my thoughts). The bulk of people go through life with feeling/sensation/emotion first, and logic second. So naturally redpill, or any larger conceptual understanding will seem foreign and an affront on their way of life especially since what feels good and what is good often are at conflict. The bulk of people are largely unable to navigate cognitive dissonance.

It's why dudes who know they don't want to be a father regularly go raw, and women let do so knowing they've shown nothing prior indicating responsibility. It feels good and is in my best interest hence I'm going to do it, it works out usually so.... The foresight, understanding and awareness to be think better of the situation is simply too much for a lot of people. Similar thought process makes Muricans call anyone who questions any aspect of capitalism a socialist/communist you're attacking what they perceive through feeling to be in their best interest. People don't like consider the possibility the beliefs, ideologies, or people they've predicated their lives on could be flawed or outright wrong, and the powers that be just manipulate that complacency (ie. "they're trying to change your way of life, but I won't let it happen").

Nuance is a mufukka

Dap and rep
Most dudes are more comfortable being blue pill which is understandable if you’re eating good off the system. I don’t knock anyone for how they want to live.
Another thing if you’re truly red pill you shouldn’t be angry or bitter; accept the world and enjoy your life.
If you’re red pill, and bitter all the time you start to graze in loser territory.

 

[KidJSoul]

Stop lying to people about what's attractive

Stop with the overly idealistic and optimistic shyt.

Also, the internet hurts. Back in the day a a virgin dude would look copy what his friends did, but now, he checks back in with the internet which tells him "no, that's toxic, don't do that!", then he is still lonely and frustrated and becomes an incel.

 

[Bossino]

Dap and rep
Most dudes are more comfortable being blue pill which is understandable if you’re eating good off the system. I don’t knock anyone for how they want to live.
Another thing if you’re truly red pill you shouldn’t be angry or bitter; accept the world and enjoy your life.
If you’re red pill, and bitter all the time you start to graze in loser territory.

Precisely, you just do you and focus on finding your own peace of mind, as well as self improvement/refinement

 

[semicko82]

True....80/20 rule applies as well as times changing. Some women don't mind being on the bench for certain men and men are willing to fuk anything with a hole...so there are less "low hanging fruit" for average to below average men.

I used to one of those guys who criticized incels for shooting above their level, but listening and interacting with the modern woman had me

 

[Wiseborn]

How about communication and honesty from parents? I didn't watch the video but I've never seen or heard of a Femcel in my life. Some of the least attractive, sloppiest women I've met are getting dikk. So I'm gonna focus on guys here. Both parents gotta keep it real with their sons. Sure some people have legit mental illness, but most dudes that are lacking in this regard are some combo of lazy, misguided, soft, and coddled. Dads, push your son's to be men, which means they have purpose in their lives and goals to reach so they are doing something more than just playing video games, eating pizza, and masturbating. This starts with modeling. Dad can't be laying on the couch all day and tell his son to get up and get out and make something of himself. Dad obviously must be involved to begin with. Mom's be honest with your son's about how females roll. Don't sell him the rom com dream. Don't encourage simp behavior. Let him know how a female acts when she's interested, not interested, playing games etc. Mate with a dependable, respectable man whom you would want your son to grow up to be like in the first place.



In fairness, this is how men are wired. We are wired to set our minds on something and then do everything in our power to get it. Even guys that get girls have a mindset like this to a degree, it just may not be as straightfoward. Dude's wait to respond or respond in certain ways and do all the stuff that AMS or whatever guru says to do with the same motivation.

So essentially what you're saying is that boys need to be red pilled.

 

[Gold]

incel obsession....


they are just udes who feel like they deserve top shelf ass. Nothing special about them, they are just losers at the end of the day.