Intentionally dating less attractive women

[Captain Crunch]

I have and will continue if she fits my vibe.

Looks is one of the last thing I look for in women.

My peak being a with 8, the best time I have had with a women in terms of dating was a 4.

Lowest I’ll go is 4 tho

Physically wise, was there anything appealing bout her or at least decent(boobs, butt, legs)?

 

[NatiboyB]

You’re honestly wasting time with no attraction

 

[I Really Mean It]

This Adonis Creed vs Drago II, they keep hitting us but we keep getting back up...

#AMCreed

u not gon be happy if thats not what you really want.
dont waste your time

Why do that?
Lol

Unless I’m reading this wrong, are you all suggesting appearance is what makes someone happy in a relationship? That couldn’t be further from the truth. The reason you see a lot of couples who would appear to be mismatched, is because they possess other qualities - intelligence, humor, humility, kindness, etc. - that make them attractive to their partner.

 

[I Really Mean It]

You’re honestly wasting time with no attraction

You can be attracted to someone who’s average. It happens all the time.

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

Most men don't give a fukk about a woman's looks.

 

[Diyhai]

You’re honestly wasting time with no attraction

I'm not saying super unattractive
but not prioritizing looks

 

[Thurgood Thurston III]

I get just about the same treatment and success rate (very low) with attractive and ugly women.

So that means I'm usually better off just straight up going for the women I want.

 

[NatiboyB]

I'm not saying super unattractive
but not prioritizing looks

If you are consciously making an attempt to go against your preference I’m not seeing much change. That’s settling. I feel you on the prioritizing looks but attraction still needs to exist along with compatibility.

 

[Speaking Womanese]

Not even unattractive women want me so far.

How come?

 

[kaldurahm]

Can't lie, girl got a big ol booty, couldn't help it.

Not ugly though average/below average. Fine with me.

 

[seabreeze80]

You can be attracted to someone who’s average. It happens all the time.

I think you are confusing general attractiveness with personal sexual attraction. Like for example I am around handsome men daily but I'm not sexually attracted to any of them. I can acknowledge that someone looks good without being attracted to them.

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

Never did that. Nothing wrong with casual sex, though. I can't lie. No idea why, but once the bedroom door shut, I always went extra hard on females I didn't find that attractive facially. If she's slightly unattractive but the body is good enough to warrant me sleeping with her, for some reason, I fukk like it's the last piece of ass on Earth.

I'm actually the same way.

I think it's because it's more self conscious and put more pressure on myself to be prince charming with an attractive woman that's potential dating material.

 

[Diyhai]

If you are consciously making an attempt to go against your preference I’m not seeing much change. That’s settling. I feel you on the prioritizing looks but attraction still needs to exist along with compatibility.

its more thinking about why you have a preference and is it beneficial
if someone is black and their preference is strictly white women that isn't something to think about?
I'm talking examining your values and aligning that with the women that you are interested in
having a standard is different than letting superficial traits determine a woman's desirability

 

[kaldurahm]

Never did that. Nothing wrong with casual sex, though. I can't lie. No idea why, but once the bedroom door shut, I always went extra hard on females I didn't find that attractive facially. If she's slightly unattractive but the body is good enough to warrant me sleeping with her, for some reason, I fukk like it's the last piece of ass on Earth.

Real talk. Start hulk smashing

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

Some men won’t admit it, but a lot want to date women that their friends find attractive, or they can brag about and post on the coil, or on social media.

Third part perspective.

I've been with extremely attractive, some ugly ones, and everything in between. Having a next woman up mentality keeps me from sweating and catching feelings like some of my friends. Funny enough my more selective friends be going through droughts and always wondering if today will be the day big booty Keisha flirts with them and gives them a sign.