Intentionally dating less attractive women

NatiboyB

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its more thinking about why you have a preference and is it beneficial
if someone is black and their preference is strictly white women that isn't something to think about?
I'm talking examining your values and aligning that with the women that you are interested in
having a standard is different than letting superficial traits determine a woman's desirability

I have an understanding of what you are getting at. I just don’t think attraction is a waiverable preference without becoming miserable…if you have some type of attraction to that woman and she has some to you I can see it.

Attraction to me is almost a requirement you can’t fake that.
 

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I'm not saying you should prioritise looks but you gotta feel physically attracted to the girl.

Recently i was going on dates with 2 girls at the same time.

Girl 1 aesthetically was my type... Natural hair, pretty and slim.

Girl 2 imo was attractive but facially probably considered a 6 (she had a thick bangin body though :banderas:)

Dating both at the same time had me debating with myself with which one to go for.. the one i was organically attracted to (girl 1) or the girl i was vibing with more (girl 2)

Ended up pursuing girl 1 instead of girl 2 and this was strictly based on the fact that i didn't want to date a woman and still be eyeing up other women because she's not my first choice
 
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It's more about "range."

Let's say a breh can attract anything from a 0 to an 8.

Breh is attracted to women that are 5's and up. He could try to pull an 8 but he can get a strong 6.5 broad with half the effort and be just as happy.

Basically....most men AND women have a baseline level of attractiveness they want and if you're on that level or higher....it's fair game.
 

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Attractiveness is like a filter for me
A woman has to be 6+ for me to entertain anything long term with her
But if she pass the filter I’m mainly looking for compatibility
 
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I've done that and its all fun in games slutting them out and not having to respond to text and calls all fast or whatever...the trouble comes when they really want some quality time and go out or meet they family...
Then your conscience will kick in and you will feel terrible because you don't want to do any of that shyt but she is hella loyal and spends hella bread on you....
We can't win either way...dealing with gorgeous broads has many obstacles as well
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Mannnnnn. It really be the guilt. I eventually get to thinking 'Man. She needs to be doing all this extra with someone that'll actually want her for more than nasty sex'

Not even to say when dating less attractive gal, but any gal you're just not that into and y'all just fuccing or whatever, the effort levels aren't gonna be the same far as the emotional, attentive side

When she comes to you with genuine complaints, criticism and concern in the relationship, you not gonna be into hearing it cause in your head you doing her a favor just by entertaining her

Gotta make it explicitly stated that y'all just slutting each other out
 

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Has anyone done this? Was having a convo about how men a lot of times prioritize looks over all other qualities when approaching women. Thoughts and experiences concerning this:patrice:



my cousin does this and has done this for years. He purposely dates women most men wouldn’t want based on looks.


His reason is those girls provide him peace and spoil him to death. He dated a hideous Nigerian looking chick who was the size of tooth pick and all she did was spoil him with goods and money.


My cousin hates bad bytches with a passion lol
 

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People do it all the time so there's less headaches, easier and quicker to get what they want etc.
 

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I think you are confusing general attractiveness with personal sexual attraction. Like for example I am around handsome men daily but I'm not sexually attracted to any of them. I can acknowledge that someone looks good without being attracted to them.
What's your profession?
 

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Most men don't give a fukk about a woman's looks.

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no way that's real :damn:
 
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