Introverted brehs how the fukk do you get by
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When you see other people you know constantly in drama and you're chilling, drama free...that's how you get by.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Im a social introvert, once I get to know someone more, Im more social with them.
Relationship-wise,only one time this woman was frustrated with me, I guess she wanted an extrovert/social butterfly, someone who can entertain her 24/7, someone she can show off to her girlfriends & captivate them with jokes.
But most females didnt have problems because I talked enough & I let them talk abt themselves a lot, they loved it.
Work wise, I work with only cacs, being a quiet black men scared them a bit, since most of these cacs dont even interact with black ppl, but after a few years am cool with most of them. I made an effort to engage in convos abt sports & encouraged them to soeak abt themselves.
Introverts we are good listeners
Relationship-wise,only one time this woman was frustrated with me, I guess she wanted an extrovert/social butterfly, someone who can entertain her 24/7, someone she can show off to her girlfriends & captivate them with jokes.
But most females didnt have problems because I talked enough & I let them talk abt themselves a lot, they loved it.
Work wise, I work with only cacs, being a quiet black men scared them a bit, since most of these cacs dont even interact with black ppl, but after a few years am cool with most of them. I made an effort to engage in convos abt sports & encouraged them to soeak abt themselves.
Introverts we are good listeners
I'm getting literal shyt for not trying to converse during work.
y'all extroverted bruhs got it good
cause I don't give a shyt. A whoooole lot of people can't deal with being alone, so when you seem closed up and alone, they get uncomfortable and force those insecurities on you.
People love me to death, but I tolerate people.
I literally deal with people face to face for about 2 hours a day, tops. That 2 hours is too much.
I very much want to live like Boo Radley and come and go as I please.
philmonroe
Superstar
How are you stimulated by findning the cat that told you the answer anyway? That makes no sense. I want to know your personal views on something and how you got it not the next nikka you googled. shyt I can do that myself. That's why I like freestyling within reason. I rather hear your views right/wrong over the Russell Wilson canned stuff. We all different though. If you like hearing stuff somebody got from google cool I don't for the most part.
I Really Mean It
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Yeah, breh, you're real special
Don't think I said I was. I just think extroverts are boring.
Right you'd rather hear someone talk for the sake of hearing someone talk. I'd rather hear an educated opinion so I can be more educated on what I'm speaking on. You don't want a nikka to pull up something an educated person with 30 years of research on the topic said on the issue because you are moreso stimulated by hearing other people's voices than hearing some real jewels. It don't work like that with me.
Usually what most people talk about are time wasters such as pop culture, gossip or sports. Talk to me about technology, block chain, entrpreneurship or black history before 1619 that doesn't get talked about.
Otherwise, I don't have much to say and will excuse myself from the conversation. I rarely find women especially whom I call hold productive conversations with. The most I can usually get out them is what school they attended or what school their children attend.
Otherwise, I don't have much to say and will excuse myself from the conversation. I rarely find women especially whom I call hold productive conversations with. The most I can usually get out them is what school they attended or what school their children attend.
I Really Mean It
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In my experience, most extroverted blacks are c00ns.
philmonroe
Superstar
Nope you can try again. If you think the only way someone can be up on things is by having to google everything you're not as smart as you think my man. If we are talking no I don't because the point of the discussion is to see what they know about the subject not what the nikka doing the study knows. Again if you like cats to okey doke you with a google search cool but I want more. Most times you don't need google unless you don't know what you're talking about at all. If it's some disagreement where we can goto google to get past a certain point cool but a regular discussion of views I want the persons views and what got them there.
philmonroe
Superstar
Anything to make your lame self feel exotical smfh
I Really Mean It
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Just offering an observation taken from my experience. In every workplace I've been at, the talkative and overly social blacks were all c00ns, the type who acted like clowns and bucked their eyes for daps from their white managers.
How does one being extroverted or introverted make them a c00n? U got c00ns of all types of personalities.
exactly...people just say anything online