Is It Worth It To Still Try To Date/Find Love After 40?

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OP...don't have that "old maid" mentality where you feel like you will never find the one. For every woman with loose broken Berlin walls, there's somebody that's pure or at least keeps herself in check. For every evil shifty woman with 10 or so kids, there's one calm cool collected jawn with maybe one or two. Live life and just see what's out there. The problem with us as men is that we are starting to not see our true potential. Hell, I'm married and be having those lacking desire moments. Like I'm 34 and wonder if a woman looks at me like when I was in my twenties. Do I still have it? Then reality dawn on me when older ladies and even jawns in their twenties be checking for Ace despite my title. Bottom line, know your worth and look beyond the age. You are still a go getter like those glory days OP...don't forsake the swag:ehh:
 

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OP...don't have that "old maid" mentality where you feel like you will never find the one. For every woman with loose broken Berlin walls, there's somebody that's pure or at least keeps herself in check. For every evil shifty woman with 10 or so kids, there's one calm cool collected jawn with maybe one or two. Live life and just see what's out there. The problem with us as men is that we are starting to not see our true potential. Hell, I'm married and be having those lacking desire moments. Like I'm 34 and wonder if a woman looks at me like when I was in my twenties. Do I still have it? Then reality dawn on me when older ladies and even jawns in their twenties be checking for Ace despite my title. Bottom line, know your worth and look beyond the age. You are still a go getter like those glory days OP...don't forsake the swag:ehh:
Fire post breh. Respect!
 

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OP...don't have that "old maid" mentality where you feel like you will never find the one. For every woman with loose broken Berlin walls, there's somebody that's pure or at least keeps herself in check. For every evil shifty woman with 10 or so kids, there's one calm cool collected jawn with maybe one or two. Live life and just see what's out there. The problem with us as men is that we are starting to not see our true potential. Hell, I'm married and be having those lacking desire moments. Like I'm 34 and wonder if a woman looks at me like when I was in my twenties. Do I still have it? Then reality dawn on me when older ladies and even jawns in their twenties be checking for Ace despite my title. Bottom line, know your worth and look beyond the age. You are still a go getter like those glory days OP...don't forsake the swag:ehh:
No lies told we are the prize.
 

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There’s different levels of 40...the answer depends on which level you’re on

40 years old, relatively successful, financially stable, a plan for the future, in decent shape and you know how to carry yourself....you have nothing to worry about. You’re still young and you can find love at any point. Women loveeeee this nikka.

40 years old, living check to check, looking every bit of 50, no idea where you will be in 5-10 years and working a dead end job with no end in sight. You’re past your prime and it’s pretty much a wrap for you. Start playing the powerball and hope you get rich, that’s your only way out.

It sucks but that’s the reality of it
 

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Its never too late. just watch my latina gf eat out a fine ass indian girl we meet. i fell in love with her at that moment. the way she devoured the p*ssy while the girl leaned on me as I held her legs back. my girl is a wreck now cuz she feel in love with the p*ssy. so no its never too late
 

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So true. Lol.

I'm married and hearing these petty work stories of hers will be the death of me.

Breh my girl comes home after work and cries every day.

I'm not exaggerating or hyperbolizing.

This adult human cries about her job, which really isn't that bad... Every. Single. Day.

:dahell:

Ladies. If your man came home and cried about his job every day, how long would you really stick it out?
 

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Breh my girl comes home after work and cries every day.

I'm not exaggerating or hyperbolizing.

This adult human cries about her job, which really isn't that bad... Every. Single. Day.

:dahell:

Ladies. If your man came home and cried about his job every day, how long would you really stick it out?
Bro that shyt crazy. And it's never that serious.

HOW DO YOU HANDLE IT? JUST OET HER VENT?

I literally stop thinking about work the second I leave the office.

They really don't know how to "move in a room full of vultures"

My girl beefs with a 50 year old and a late 30 year old over literally nothing...it's so trivial.

I can't take it. Like...she's going to turn into those same old bitter bytches if she don't learn how to manage in this corporate world.

I'm going for my masters in IT or cyber security since it'll compliment my current experience...I need an exit plan :blessed:
 

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Breh my girl comes home after work and cries every day.

I'm not exaggerating or hyperbolizing.

This adult human cries about her job, which really isn't that bad... Every. Single. Day.

:dahell:

Ladies. If your man came home and cried about his job every day, how long would you really stick it out?

:russ: Wtf kind of reality is this
 

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At 27, you're a fully developed adult with life experience and should have developed perspective and a fully matured brain. Why wouldn't I seek advice from people like that? Not like I'm asking a bunch of 18 year olds...
I just don't see what kind of relationship or life advice a person in their 20s can give a 40 yr old. But that is just me
 

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Bro that shyt crazy. And it's never that serious.

HOW DO YOU HANDLE IT? JUST OET HER VENT?

I literally stop thinking about work the second I leave the office.

They really don't know how to "move in a room full of vultures"

My girl beefs with a 50 year old and a late 30 year old over literally nothing...it's so trivial.

I can't take it. Like...she's going to turn into those same old bitter bytches if she don't learn how to manage in this corporate world.

I'm going for my masters in IT or cyber security since it'll compliment my current experience...I need an exit plan :blessed:


I'm not. I'm gonna break up with her. But then, I'm not married.

What you gonna do, breh?
 
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