Is It Worth It To Still Try To Date/Find Love After 40?

[Lootha VanDraws]

#BORNALONEDIEALONE

#SADGANG

 

[sanityovar8ted]

Iono its hard 2 say. Dating in ur 40s is difficult af. U either b a ho3 or play the bullshyt games niccas play in the dating scene. Most people ain't dating 2 find a relationship they dating 4 casual sex and random hookups.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

If u gotta ask

Just give up

 

[Slimkid07]

I just realized you also from LA county

So I truly understand first hand what u going through

A lot of the sisters 35 and up AND IF U LOOKING FOR SISTERS IN THE LA AREA come from dating ex gang members and a lot got kids who daddy was/is gang members or heavy are into white men, so it’s truly going to be hard to find one..,

Almost every woman over 35 you going to encounter has baggage because those same women was like men going through different relationships when they was younger hoping rollo or Darnell was going to be the one, but as usual in the black community them broads was just quick nuts and nothing more to dudes and 70% was left with kids..

The women in LA regardless of color and under 35 still trying to get capture by some celebrity nikka

You captured the ESSENCE of dating in L.A. in 2019. These women out here will ruin and make your life a living hell if you allow them to. And they're all inflicted with these princess complexes. Just pure delusion of grandeur.

Yep, yall nailed it when it comes to LA dating.
However, I would contend that its worse for sistas and women in general out here.
I have a lot of homegirls, young and old, and cats out here are GMB and HOH.
Dudes also have delusions of grandeur but there's also a ton of options because women move here by the bus loads.

A lot of LA women say fukk it and move. "Rent too high and no dating options? I'm out."

 

[daemonova]

You can’t date women in their early 30s? Still plenty of women that age childless.

there is a reason as to why they are childless

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Since age 40 I was at the end of a long term relationship, then after several months right back into another couple year affair.

I am just now getting back to the state of total singletude. Its not a fun feeling

I can't imagine starting over with a string of birdbrains searching for a new gf or wife. Sounds horrible

Dry dikc sounds pretty bad too

 

[Edub]

I'm 40.

Still getting better.

Odds of me finding an equal are slim.

But that's ok because being alone isn't a problem when your happiness comes from within.

Your path may be different.

But I'm either gonna find a perfect woman, or ride this wave of peace, quiet, good food, and random p*ssy forever.

Facts

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

there is a reason as to why they are childless

Yeah they smart

 

[Ciggavelli]

I’m 36 and I often think about this. I basically turned around one day and went, “shyt, I missed the boat on this relationship thing “

I have no kids, never been married. I refuse to date a girl with kids, I don’t drink or do drugs, so I’m boring to younger women who just wanna party. I guess it’s Not meant to be

I make pretty good money and live in cheap ass Texas. I guess I’ll let my expensive ass pc and audiophile equipment keep me warm at night


I also take antidepressants and antipsychotics so I have no sex drive either, which doesn’t help with finding a good woman.

I work stupid hours at work, being more productive and flexible than my coworkers who have spouses and kids. “Give it to Ciggavelli, he’ll work 12 hour days. He doesn’t have a family”.

I don’t really know what I’ll do after I’ve bought all the bullshyt I want. The only thing I look forward to is getting paid and then buying shyt. At some point I’m gonna have all the material things I want. What do I do after that?

Tupac, fukk the world

 

[Coli Bot]

They are out there but if you find one she will latch onto you like nobody's business.

Then you will making threads on the coli asking advice on how to dump her

Women have a way of bringing a nagging, negative, whiny "give me attention" kinda vibe that an older man set in his ways may not be able to tolerate anymore.

 

[Unknown Poster]

There is no age limit to love.

 

[Cynic]

Just move to another country if you want lasting love

 

[13473]

never give up.

 

[Balla]

I’m 36 and I often think about this. I basically turned around one day and went, “shyt, I missed the boat on this relationship thing “

I have no kids, never been married. I refuse to date a girl with kids, I don’t drink or do drugs, so I’m boring to younger women who just wanna party. I guess it’s Not meant to be

I make pretty good money and live in cheap ass Texas. I guess I’ll let my expensive ass pc and audiophile equipment keep me warm at night


I also take antidepressants and antipsychotics so I have no sex drive either, which doesn’t help with finding a good woman.

I work stupid hours at work, being more productive and flexible than my coworkers who have spouses and kids. “Give it to Ciggavelli, he’ll work 12 hour days. He doesn’t have a family”.

I don’t really know what I’ll do after I’ve bought all the bullshyt I want. The only thing I look forward to is getting paid and then buying shyt. At some point I’m gonna have all the material things I want. What do I do after that?

Tupac, fukk the world

That’s so fukked up, single nikkas got lives too!!

 

[ill_will82]

I have thought about this a lot over the last few years. I just turned 37 last month and I was born disabled (spastic cerebral palsy) [Google it]. I remember having a conversation about a year ago with my mom about possibly spending the rest of my days alone.

I do not want to feel as a burden on anyone b/c of my physical impairment (especially if I get sick). Which is a serious issue to me.

The world that we live in is unforgiving to ppl with disadvantages of any kind. Tbh, I'm at the point I don't care about dating b/c it's like this is the generation of entitlement attitudes. Then it's like ppl really don't actually date anymore they just sleep with multiple random ass ppl. Which leads to women w/2-3+ kids by different guys. In some cases (if not most) the situation is dysfunctional between the parents. I don't have any kids so if I started dating women with kids are a no-go for me.