In my experience black females are the meanest females I've ever encountered. I've never been not cordial to a black female without a reason not to be. I seriously feel strong sense of entitlement and extreme paranoia with the majority of american twenty something black females. It fukking sucks to be honest. They're the only females I mess with too.
Just came back from a black feminist meeting
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maaaan, humans are humans, if their sad let them be sad. i dont got time for this.
Mountain
All Star
c/s.
There are many types and eras of feminists. Feminism is a general term used to describe many subjects and opinions in relation to the rights of women. I doesn't mean everyone who declares themselves a feminist has the same opinions on every subject. Like you said "A lot of them hate sex work of any kind" and a lot heavily advocate for it and yet both groups are feminist. . Again the fact that someone wouldn't know this says that they know little about actual feminism.
anyway I can help. I'm for the legalization of prostitution and what not. Though morally I couldn't marry a former sex worker nor would I want my daughter to enter that sort of profession either.
Nothing wrong with that.
well the issue is that most black men start off so far behind the 8 ball that they are very rarely good from the jump...as a black man you have to learn how to be "good"...you have to want to be "good"...you have to dedicate yourself to being "good"...and the problem with black women is that they don't really want to have you around while you are going through this process...
When a black man is washing the dishes...a black women won't want anything to do with him...girl please...this nikka wash dishes for a living...
But when that black man is washing dishes he has that moment when he realizes...damn i am 22 and washing dishes i got to get my shyt together
Then he move from washing dishes to waiting tables...but a black woman won't want anything to do with him...girl please...this nikka wait tables for a living ...girl lets scrape all this food on one plate to help this nikka out
But when that black man is waiting tables he realizes that a few months ago he was washing dishes...and well slow motion is better than no motion
Then he move from waiting tables to cooking...but no black woman will want anything to do with him...girl please this nikka a cook...this nikka back here in all that grease all day...nikka go home every night smelling like crisco...
But when that black man is cooking...well now he been there awhile...now people who been there know him as the guy who went from washing to cooking...and now that black man is seeing the in and outs of the business...and he is thinking...you know i could add a lil spice here...try this...try that...get a little creative...
Then he move from cooking to bartending...and now that black woman might not want him...but now she kinda interested... now he on her radar...now she see him out here mixing drinks and flirting with chicks and they tipping him 10 dollars and damn who is this white dude in a suit he seems to be all buddy buddy with......damn i see some 20's in that jar
And now that black man is right there on the precipice...cause he has washed dishes...busted tables...served food...and cooked food...and been a bartender...and you know what...it took 3 years but damn everybody know this guy...people who have been coming here know him by name...when he says he used to be a cook people say "so that was YOUR eggplant paremesean
And then...they got a management gig open up...a new place opening up...and who do they ask...that black man of course...because he has seen every ounce of this place and knows it in and out
And now this nikka got a suit...now you look at the restaurant owned by or property managed by or team management manager is...this nikka...
And now all these black women are like...girl that is a good man...girl he OWNS something...girl look at him in that suit i bet he got a big dikk...girl he worked his way up the right way...girl that is a gawd damn good man right there you think he single...
But...what those black women don't realize is that he was a good man when he was just washing dishes...
And well you didn't want him then...and now...well now he owns something and he doesn't really have time for you...he doesn't have any emotional attachment to you, black woman, because when he first became a good man washing that sticky ass alfredo off them plates...he looked around and didn't see you...black woman......you were to busy bashing him for washing dishes and being a 20 year old still living at home and having no ambition remember...
You don't want a good black man who is a good black man...you want a regular black man who is making the transition to a good black man...cause that transition is a very real struggle...and when he makes it that black man will always look back and remember the people around him in that struggle...or the lack of people...black woman...
Post of the weekwell the issue is that most black men start off so far behind the 8 ball that they are very rarely good from the jump...as a black man you have to learn how to be "good"...you have to want to be "good"...you have to dedicate yourself to being "good"...and the problem with black women is that they don't really want to have you around while you are going through this process...
When a black man is washing the dishes...a black women won't want anything to do with him...girl please...this nikka wash dishes for a living...
But when that black man is washing dishes he has that moment when he realizes...damn i am 22 and washing dishes i got to get my shyt together
Then he move from washing dishes to waiting tables...but a black woman won't want anything to do with him...girl please...this nikka wait tables for a living ...girl lets scrape all this food on one plate to help this nikka out
But when that black man is waiting tables he realizes that a few months ago he was washing dishes...and well slow motion is better than no motion
Then he move from waiting tables to cooking...but no black woman will want anything to do with him...girl please this nikka a cook...this nikka back here in all that grease all day...nikka go home every night smelling like crisco...
But when that black man is cooking...well now he been there awhile...now people who been there know him as the guy who went from washing to cooking...and now that black man is seeing the in and outs of the business...and he is thinking
Then he move from cooking to bartending...and now that black woman might not want him...but now she kinda interested... now he on her radar...now she see him out here mixing drinks and flirting with chicks and they tipping him 10 dollars and damn who is this white dude in a suit he seems to be all buddy buddy with...
And now that black man is right there on the precipice...cause he has washed dishes...busted tables...served food...and cooked food...and been a bartender...and you know what...it took 3 years but damn everybody know this guy...people who have been coming here know him by name...when he says he used to be a cook people say "so that was YOUR eggplant paremesean
And then...they got a management gig open up...a new place opening up...and who do they ask...that black man of course...because he has seen every ounce of this place and knows it in and out
And now this nikka got a suit...now you look at the restaurant owned by or property managed by or team management manager is...this nikka...
And now all these black women are like
But...what those black women don't realize is that he was a good man when he was just washing dishes...
And well you didn't want him then...and now...well now he owns something and he doesn't really have time for you...he doesn't have any emotional attachment to you, black woman, because when he first became a good man washing that sticky ass alfredo off them plates...he looked around and didn't see you...black woman...
You don't want a good black man who is a good black man...you want a regular black man who is making the transition to a good black man...cause that transition is a very real struggle...and when he makes it that black man will always look back and remember the people around him in that struggle...or the lack of people...black woman...
how'd i miss this @obarth level posting
Nintendough
#Kliq
I recall hearing this explanation of feminism from a chick....I also recall her being one of the most miserable women I ever met, confused between wanting to twerk at night and call other women whores during the daytime and that she would cut and burn herself.
I'm just saying, I've never met a happy feminist.
I recall hearing this explanation of feminism from a chick....I also recall her being one of the most miserable women I ever met, confused between wanting to twerk at night and call other women whores during the daytime and that she would cut and burn herself.
According to Webster:
fem·i·nism
noun\ˈfe-mə-ˌni-zəm\
: the belief that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities
: organized activity in support of women's rights and interests
If this statement applies to someone to any extent then they technically can be labled a feminist whether they declare it or not. You've met plenty of people who are feminist and don't even know it and I am sure plenty of them are happy. I am feminist and quite happy.
Anothergirl
Goat ™
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Nintendough
#Kliq
You seem to be well versed on feminism. If I asked some questions respectfully would you answer them for me for the sake of enlightenment?
And see this is the problem right here...
You just absolved black women of being responsible for the state of black women...you just gave black women a pass to say "yeah it is okay for me to make bad decisions...cause I'm not white...and I didn't grow up in a rich house...and I see bad images of me on TV...so yeah I am just fukked and there is noting i can do might as well not even make an attempt..." Why is that? Why does the state of black women have everything to do with what everyone else is doing and not what black women are doing? And to split hairs here, let's say you are right...so...what are black women doing about it?
That enrollment in college thing can be looked at in so many ways that it is not worth even typing about...you tell me they lead in college enrollment...i tell you that college is something that is a calculated risk...you can go into so much debt that you can effectively ruin your life before you are old enough to drink alcohol in the US...you can spend your entire life paying back a college debt...for a sheet of paper that could lead you to nowhere...so when you tell me that black women lead the charge in groups of people who are willing to take this extraordinary risk...well
How am I absolving black women? You want to eliminate the factors that contribute to dysfunctional behavior, that arent convenient to your blind racial bashing. And whats up with all this "black women this, black women that" talk? Is there some sort of meeting all black women attend, where they collectively decide to make poor decisions? Believe it or not, black women do not all walk in lockstep.
That said, the fact that you're even hating on black women going to college is a pretty clear indicator that you have an irrational disdain for them, and you plain have it out for them as a group. There's no reasoning with you.
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havoc
Superstar
Illuminatos
#OVOXO
Enough of that bullshyt about most black men being either dead or in jail. That shyt is really...insulting. 
If that's why they're saying their men can't protect them well then fukk them. Stop dating dope boys and find a man that's actually worth a damn.
If that's why they're saying their men can't protect them well then fukk them. Stop dating dope boys and find a man that's actually worth a damn.
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havoc
Superstar
So, base on the diction of the word and your explanation, it seems like many of the posters misconstrue the word feminism for male bashing/ anti-matriarchal society. I wish you would had post this in the beginning of thread so that many of disgruntled posters wouldn't be so bashful toward women who wants a responsible man as their mate.