Youseenmywork
KING
I've come to a point we're I just don't listen to women . The lack of empathy that women show is astounding.
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Just got divorced after 12 yrs...ama
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I've come to a point we're I just don't listen to women . The lack of empathy that women show is astounding.
she literally proved our point. Being Handy means nothing nowadays. A Financially responsible couple can pay to have someone fix things. However if a Woman CHOOSES to be a Homemaker and doesn't know how to manage a home THAT IS AN ISSUE because she opted in for a role she can not do. If a woman cant cook, and the man can, most men dont care to pick up the slack and be the main cook. If a woman cant cook and neither can the man, as a couple they will just figure it out (they both learn or just order out), neither of them are opting in to do something they cant fulfill. The issue with women is IN THEIR MINDS they will create roles and put them on men, and then keep it to themselves (as if men are mind readers) and then if a man can not do this secret role, she will use that as her excuse of why something isn't working when she feels it is time for her to find an out. Like I said with Men (most men) as long as they are getting sex, and their women isn't combative all the time they will adjust to every other thing the woman may do but they do not care for. Women how ever will bush a man because her friend got flowers sent to her job on V Day, and she only got a dinner date
Thats the most you can do. A woman who has grown up with strong men in her life may not like it at first but will adjust.
Women ONLY see men as a UTILITY...they don't see us as human unfortunately
exactly. They want men to perform historical gender roles which are rooted in him being 100% head of home, yet on their end they dont want to subscribe to their role. And then in those who try to do a 50/50 partnership thing, Women will do their 50% yet the 50% men do won't be enough and men need to do more
jwonder
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This is crazy. The mind of the average American woman. I need a man to provide. They get one and then it's well you work too many hours, I'm lonely, blah,blah. I'm like bytch you can't have it both ways.
But I never believed in the provider shyt anyway. Women have been working for years. They can kick in on bills.
Youseenmywork
KING
This is what the answer is for me and I'm 36 . Women know I will NEVER be monogamous even if I have a "main chic" quote on quote. It not that they are evil it's just that women don't want to take accountability and responsibility the way a man has to. If a women accountable and responsible not many people will say much cause hate to say it but in America it's just normal .
Youseenmywork
KING
exactly. They want men to perform historical gender roles which are rooted in him being 100% head of home, yet on their end they dont want to subscribe to their role. And then in those who try to do a 50/50 partnership thing, Women will do their 50% yet the 50% men do won't be enough and men need to do more
I've been saying all year we are no longer in traditional times so we need to stop thinking in a traditional manner.
Y’all are very hypocritical here. You don’t offer up any traditional qualities of men, yet want it in women. I’ve learned these discussions are useless. Men and women today are not on the same page and have no desire to get there. The funniest part is both are having the SAME issue, it’s just the perspective and inability to understand the other perspective where the divide occurs.Oh Jesus
Did you see her response to me?
She starts off pretending to be innocent then proceeds to place all the blame on him again. She literally starts off saying she’s not blaming him then spent every sentence after implying he’s wrong because he had 2 kids from a failed relationship.
And that was her being “objective”
Maybe us men be on the mans side sometimes but we’ll be quick to say a dude is wrong when he is. A man got a good woman and don’t appreciate her we be quick to hit him with the
The only women here who hold women accountable are @Nicole0416 and @HarlemHottie
This shyt is ridiculous
And what really gets me is women are wild catty and petty towards one another but form like voltron when it comes to defending one against a straight man
In the past, women were TRAINED to be homemakers, mainly through force and from a young age. I’m sorry women are no longer being forced to marry some 40 year old at 15 or born into a poor family with a slew of kids, that the older ones are responsible for.
Y’all want a woman to be traditional while y’all apply toxic, westernized ideals of male leadership and confused why there is an issue. Very few of y’all are even raising your daughters to be home makers, yet mad at women today for not being them.
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
bothand
...so hopefully i coud give some insight to breh who thinkin bout marriage or goin thru issues....
if you count BOTH of my marriages i made 12 years....
i been there breh.....
you'll be aight
What traditional qualities are we expecting? Wasn’t it you who made a big deal about cooking for a man like that is some ultimate privilege?
I just cooked for a shorty Saturday night/Sunday morning a few hours after meeting her. Cooking for someone is not a big deal and the fact you and other women make simple shyt like that seem like it is is exactly why y’all still be single not by choice
Let’s be real, none of y’all wanted to be 30+ and unmarried or at the very least in a stable committed relationship but somehow here you are
And there’s no part of you that thinks maybe just MAYBE you need to make some changes. It’s always the men.
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
Did you see her response to me?
She starts off pretending to be innocent then proceeds to place all the blame on him again. She literally starts off saying she’s not blaming him then spent every sentence after implying he’s wrong because he had 2 kids from a failed relationship.
And that was her being “objective”
Maybe us men be on the mans side sometimes but we’ll be quick to say a dude is wrong when he is. A man got a good woman and don’t appreciate her we be quick to hit him with the
The only women here who hold women accountable are @Nicole0416 and @HarlemHottie
This shyt is ridiculous
And what really gets me is women are wild catty and petty towards one another but form like voltron when it comes to defending one against a straight man
breh...im a 2-time divorcee.....
those mgtow cats go overboard a lot of the time....but their spot on in their critique of women as a whole....
if my current relationship dont pan out....im going straight mgtow and just spend my time travelling and enjoying life
You keep ignoring the fact that I'm stating WOMEN OPTING IN to a ROLE they WERE NOT GROOMED FOR. You cant talk about what a man "should" do when you yourself aren't groomed to be the counterpart of what you are expecting. And them the pure lack of maturity to say "hey we love each other, so lets just figure life out"
I used to think MGTOW was another way of saying Incel. Thought they went their own way completely like not even wanting sex from women which is why for years I looked at them like
Some breh on here put me on to the fact that’s not the case, they just don’t rock with relationships but still get with women casually. Now I’m all for MGTOW. Not even just because of my own experiences but the absolute lack of accountability from women. They really see absolutely nothing wrong with the wild shyt each other does until of course, it affects them.
