Just got divorced after 12 yrs...ama

[SlickHomie]

Why did you get married in the first place? Did she get half? Did you honestly think you would be married forever?

Cause i was vulnerable the time we met....just lost my parents...i was a mess..
She look good...had good job...we vibes from the jump...we were inseperable....
Even when i was dead broke...she had me...thats why...
Only thing i gave up was one of the cars....thats it......
3rd yes

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Not trying to start ish, but men can be as well.

One the bolded sentence -- but if you find out she does this --- she's wrong and all types of thots and $itches, huh?

Anyway, to each it's own.

If? If? Ain't no if
Yall do that anyway. Dont play


If you wanna talk to me, you gotta be honest. I'll be honest but you gotta be honest too otherwise theres no point in having this convo

 

[HalfwayHandsome]

Meek fukked your bytch?

 

[SlickHomie]

Did covid19 and the effects of the pandemic accelerate the divorce?

No i filed in november seperated for 2 yrs prior

 

[MajesticLion]

I wish you the best going forward breh.

All that needs be said.

Peace and blessings, OP.

 

[Robo Squirrel]

Cause i was vulnerable the time we met....just lost my parents...i was a mess..
She look good...had good job...we vibes from the jump...we were inseperable....
Even when i was dead broke...she had me...thats why...
Only thing i gave up was one of the cars....thats it......
3rd yes

Dap+reputation

 

[The Fade]

This right is a straight up gem.

To have cake and eat it

 

[Apollo Creed]

Just got out of an 11 yr marriage myself..

The house that I bought with my 401k (that I'm still paying back) it's for her n the kids now

Paying 800 a month child support


Can't even claim 1 of them on the income tax get about 2000 compared to her 10,000 every year


Now stuck living in a efficiency in east Miramar u ready for this life playboy? It's cheaper to keep her who ever said that shyt knew what time it was.

breh wtf, expound.

I assume the home had both of your names on it? Whats the 401k story? What state are you in?

 

[xoxodede]

If? If? Ain't no if
Yall do that anyway. Dont play


If you wanna talk to me, you gotta be honest. I'll be honest but you gotta be honest too otherwise theres no point in having this convo

Yes, SOME of us do. Not all. Not most.

Anyway, I don't want to derail the thread. Best of luck to you.

 

[SlickHomie]

I was gonna come in and make an inappropriate comment...

Instead I realize that this may be a though time for you and I wish you nothing but the best.

Nah go ahead......i knew what i was gettin into makin this post...lol

 

[SlickHomie]

Thanks for sharing Op. A lot of young brothers like myself out here need to hear things like this for awareness.

I hope you find peace and stepping out of a toxic environment is a good first step to finding that solace.

Thats why i made this thread....sorry if im all over the place with the responses...at work....of course

 

[Mr Rager]

Just got out of an 11 yr marriage myself..

The house that I bought with my 401k (that I'm still paying back) it's for her n the kids now

Paying 800 a month child support


Can't even claim 1 of them on the income tax get about 2000 compared to her 10,000 every year


Now stuck living in a efficiency in east Miramar u ready for this life playboy? It's cheaper to keep her who ever said that shyt knew what time it was.

Ay go smack your lawyer if you had one geez

 

[Apollo Creed]

Ay go smack your lawyer if you had one geez

LMFAO like breh I want to hear this. Unless chick was a 'homemaker' and didnt have an income of her own this is crazy.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Hate it didn’t work out. It can be rough. Take time for you to recalibrate.
A hoe’s rejection is fate’s protection.

Karma gon hit her with that 8 to the body 6 to the head combo and leave her Yamcha’d in these streets if she don’t tighten up.

But that’s not ur monkey and not ur circus. Enjoy ur freedom.

 

[SlickHomie]

Meek fukked your bytch?

I qish...at least she coulda got some bread and help pay bills...