the last time I checked, there’s a higher percentage of bm who have never been married compared to bw:
BLACK MARRIAGE | BlackDemographics.com
where did you get your numbers from? Also in regards to the bolded, men are the gatekeepers to marriage (they do the proposing) so by default doesn’t it make sense that men would have higher numbers since it’s within their control whether they ask a woman to marry or not?
As for your second paragraph, well look most of the women who call in, even if they did everything he said, they would not get a hvm. It just is what it is lol. I only watched a couple of his shows, I didn’t think he was very remarkable either—his advice was very common sense. I didn’t even find him mean or harsh—just blunt. But he’s not very articulate, I’m not convinced that he was a hvm before he did this show either or that he even has a college education—but what I respect is how he’s made none of that matter and figured out how to run the ultimate finesse.
Imo, what would be more interesting is if a 30 something middle class or high value black man, who is presently married to a bw, did a YouTube show but with his wife there too. And if his show not only focused on women but on men too—because as I said, i don’t see our community getting better if both groups aren’t.
