Ladies, Do Y'all Feel There Are A Growing Number Of F*ckboys And Time Wasters

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I would assume that's easier said than done. Some guys legit like the girl and don't mind putting in work. It's just going to be for a limited time. There's guys out there going to church with chicks and meeting the fam, that have zero intentions of being with her a year from now.

I mean this was how most folks dated in HS/college, but now guys are doing this even when the women explicitly states she's looking for hubby.

The guy that is just looking to pump and dump, should be fairly easy to spot. The guy that is gonna use you as a temporary girlfriend is much harder to recognize, because his actions may be the same as a man that wants to marry you.

Yeah but sometimes there are signs too. Only a sociopath is going to completely go all in for somebody he/she ultimately thinks is disposable. Lmao!
And if that ends up being the case then it is what it is. She wasn't doin anything wrong.

But on the other hand, if he was being straight up with her about the circumstance but she was trying to turn a situation into something more then she knew what she was gettin into.
That's what dating is all about. Ur supposed to learn just as much about urself as u do the other person.

I would advise to find like minded individuals but sometimes it just isn't that simple.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

No, think lots women are just bad at choosing and instead of taking self responsibility we blame men. If you're constantly choosing men who lead you on, use you, waste your time etc chances are you need to take a step back, question what you may be doing that is partially responsible to how you're being treated instead of feeling bad for yourself and be more selective instead of doing the same shyt over and over and expecting different results.

This can apply to men to, as there's def a lot of men who complain about how women treat them.

Alotta female versions of Kent running around

 

[ImGucci]

I would assume that's easier said than done. Some guys legit like the girl and don't mind putting in work. It's just going to be for a limited time. There's guys out there going to church with chicks and meeting the fam, that have zero intentions of being with her a year from now.

I mean this was how most folks dated in HS/college, but now guys are doing this even when the women explicitly states she's looking for hubby.

The guy that is just looking to pump and dump, should be fairly easy to spot. The guy that is gonna use you as a temporary girlfriend is much harder to recognize, because his actions may be the same as a man that wants to marry you.

Thats messed up

I have my limits.

The thing with females, at least most females 8 and up.
You aren't going to be able to smash unless you are their bf, or give off the aura that you are their boyfriend. They don't feel comfortable putting out, unless you at least act like a boyfriend even if you two don't have the title.

But I would never meet a girls fam, when I don't plan on us being together long term. Meeting her friends is fine. Family is where I cut it off though.
Usually when a girl starts talking about me meeting her family is when I know I need to be real with her, and tell her my thoughts long term.

 

[Meowth tote da Uzi]

How do you tell the real deal and sell fantasy at the same time?

That's easy. First you gotta find the clitoris.

 

[EmpressKali]

Out in the dating scene? Like you are talking to men, going out on dates, but there's no progression? Men aren't reciprocating the way you want, they don't want to put a title on what y'all got going on etc.

Do y'all feel like the majority of men you date are on this?

I think both men and women shouldn't put too much stock in most people. Most attention you get will come to nothing. The only advantage is you have a lot to choose from but 8/10 will be garbage. Get to know people and focus on quality. People show themselves eventually.

 

[EmpressKali]

Out in the dating scene? Like you are talking to men, going out on dates, but there's no progression? Men aren't reciprocating the way you want, they don't want to put a title on what y'all got going on etc.

Do y'all feel like the majority of men you date are on this?

I think both men and women shouldn't put too much stock in most people. Most attention you get will come to nothing. The only advantage is you have a lot to choose from but 8/10 will be garbage. Get to know people and focus on quality. People show themselves eventually.

 

[EmpressKali]

Get on social media and brag about how they finesse nikkas for free shyt but get mad when dudes go dutch on dates.

Do you think a woman you actually know would finesse you of free shyt?

 

[getmoney310cpt]

some bytches be too quick to show a nikka off to family and friends....that's why they end up looking dumb when it dont work...nikkas do it too when they a simp and finally get a bad bytch and parade her only for her to dip 6 mos to a year later....dirty game

 

[tater]

That's easy. First you gotta find the clitoris.

Okay breh lol

 

[semtex]

Every chick I've seen complain about or use the word "fukkboy" kinda deserved to attract that type. Or it was easy to see why she had that problem.