Ladies, How Many Of you Feel That ALL Men Cheat?

[4North1Side2]

there are ways to tell that don't involve going through phones or emails. People act differently. You may think you're being discrete but there are tale tell ways to discern when someone is cheating. Some people are nicer, some are meaner. Some act more affectionate, some more distant, some give it away in how they look at others, comments they make. Some buy more gifts for their partners, some subtly hint they want more. If your side is saying your real spouses are dumb,t hat's because it's so obvious and she doesn' t see why they don't pick up on it. I can guarantee that every woman knows in some way, even if they don't tell you. I would;t count that as a win though. Doesn't it hurt that someone secretly resents you but won't tell you they feel that way?

In what ways do you "emotionally" cheat?

Acting different is not proof someone is cheating. I already addressed suspicions in my post.

Emotional cheating is treating and confiding into another person in ways which would hurt your spouse.

 

[StickStickly]

Acting different is not proof someone is cheating. I already addressed suspicions in my post.

Emotional cheating is treating and confiding into another person in ways which would hurt your spouse.

not saying acting differently is proof alone, but that there is always SOMETHING that gives people away when they do cheat, and usually you can tell from the change in behaviors.

what drives you to emotionally cheat? that's interesting coming from a male because most men claim men cheat in non emotional ways, which is their rationale for it being okay.

 

[Wild self]

Because she probably wasn't educated and couldn't do better for herself. She had no choice.

She stayed voluntarily and took care of their 7 children together. Stayed loyal for 48 years until he died.

 

[Entropy Fan]

I do not believe that all men cheat, that is just another one of the many reasons why I will not tolerate it.

So if we all cheat then it's ok?





There's work to be done brehs

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

You might be right


This is how it happened. COnstantly being accused and questioned until I said fukk it and hit. It's a poor excuse but I did what I did.

Be careful what you do because the universe has a strange way of giving back. It's good you are being transparent but it's best if you have fun without the commitment

 

[4North1Side2]

not saying acting differently is proof alone, but that there is always SOMETHING that gives people away when they do cheat, and usually you can tell from the change in behaviors.

what drives you to emotionally cheat? that's interesting coming from a male because most men claim men cheat in non emotional ways, which is their rationale for it being okay.

Again suspicions is not proof so I'm not sure why you keep bringing up it up. A spouse can suspect someone is cheating 24/7 but until they have concrete proof, you are not a cheater in their eyes.

Change in behavior happens for a variety of reasons.

When I worked in a hotel, I saw it a lot. Married dudes being super chatty patties, heavy flirting, talking about they relationship woes with other females, fishing for compliments.

I think men in the past weren't in tune with their emotions but today's men are much more emotional with fragile egos that need to be constantly stroked.

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

Again suspicions is not proof so I'm not sure why you keep bringing up it up. A spouse can suspect someone is cheating 24/7 but until they have concrete proof, you are not a cheater in their eyes.

Change in behavior happens for a variety of reasons.

When I worked in a hotel, I saw it a lot. Married dudes being super chatty patties, heavy flirting, talking about they relationship woes with other females, fishing for compliments.

I think men in the past weren't in tune with their emotions but today's men are much more emotional with fragile egos that need to be constantly stroked.

I know exactly what you're talking about. it's a shame because of a mans insecurity, he'll cheat or need his ego stroked.

 

[joeychizzle]

Love is cursed by monogamy. Men cheat, women cheat, this shyt ain't news. You could swap out the genders in the title and it would be the same shyt.

 

[mbewane]

Brehs I swear I'm not trying to be an a$$hole.

But women always talking about communication and shyt.

You could tell a woman 10x a day that the key to a man's happiness is her simply talking less, and they would just and not get it.

Just shut the fukk up for a little bit. Give me peace and quiet.

Doesn't matter how many times we say it.

Doesn't matter how many standing ovations comedians get for making the same point.

Women need to just fukking make noise all the goddamn time.

Just shut the fukk up.

Lol personnaly it always amazes me that it's so hard for some women JUST NOT TO TALK

At some point with my ex I actually had to lie to her about seeing friends or whatever just to go chill at home in peace

 

[StickStickly]

Again suspicions is not proof so I'm not sure why you keep bringing up it up. A spouse can suspect someone is cheating 24/7 but until they have concrete proof, you are not a cheater in their eyes.

Change in behavior happens for a variety of reasons.

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?? i never said anything about suspicions. I'm talking about actions and behaviors that give away people who are cheating.my comments aren't directed to people who aren't cheating or their anxious partners snooping despite their innocence. all i'm saying is cheaters give themselves away in other actions. it's naive for them to think they are that good at sneaking around that they can never be found out. it takes an intuitive person to notice the hints, but no one is that good at keeping these kind of things from intimate partners

 

[Broad Street Bully]

Lol gotta love the villainizing of the man in this thread like the woman are just some angelic pure soul that does all the right things and is a victim. I don't even do the gender wars on this forum but this topic is wack as fukk and so is this generalization. There's ain't shyt nikkas and there's ain't shyt bytches. That's life, that's the world we live in.

 

[Kex]

I feel plain and simple women and men are just built different

 

[Linc]

have never cheated on anyone, I've been cheated on once (that I know of) and I hated it so I won't do it to anyone else

every girl Im with I have a conversation about this shyt in the first couple weeks, basically all you have to do is let me know. like if your 20 seconds away from fukking someone call/text me and tell me and we're good, relationship is over obviously but I'll respect the honesty and I won't have any problems with you personally.

I'm honest to a fault though, most of the time it intimidates girls and they don't stick around, my current gf is different and we seem to be on the same page.

I don't know how it is for most of you but in my experience where I live females seem to be much more likely to pull some shyt and then justify it to themselves.

I see more honesty in males and them getting hurt because of it than females.

of course I see pieces of shyt on both sides though

 

[SunGod]

have never cheated on anyone, I've been cheated on once (that I know of) and I hated it so I won't do it to anyone else

every girl Im with I have a conversation about this shyt in the first couple weeks, basically all you have to do is let me know. like if your 20 seconds away from fukking someone call/text me and tell me and we're good, relationship is over obviously but I'll respect the honesty and I won't have any problems with you personally.

I'm honest to a fault though, most of the time it intimidates girls and they don't stick around, my current gf is different and we seem to be on the same page.

I don't know how it is for most of you but in my experience where I live females seem to be much more likely to pull some shyt and then justify it to themselves.

I see more honesty in males and them getting hurt because of it than females.

of course I see pieces of shyt on both sides though

This was always a weak foundation to me. If I thought like that, I'd probably be cheating left and right. But based on the rest of your post, I'm assuming you'd just call your girl like "I'm about to dive in some p*ssy right now."

a man who has a high level of character, morality, self-control, self-discipline and prides himself in those things.

This is a man who doesn't cheat if you ask me. My nikka came through and crushed the buildings.

 

[Linc]

This was always a weak foundation to me. If I thought like that, I'd probably be cheating left and right. But based on the rest of your post, I'm assuming you'd just call your girl like "I'm about to dive in some p*ssy right now."

no I just wouldn't do it because my morals won't allow it

my first exposure to cheating hurt so I wont pass that to someone else is all, honestly can't say if I would've done it before that because it happened early but I doubt it..I really hate hurting people

I have no problem getting girls so I'm good with walking away, I do have a problem keeping them but a lot of that is my (admitted) trust issues.

for what its worth this frame of mind extends to everything in my life, not just relationships etc. I'm extremely honest and try to surround myself with people with a similar mindset