we were THAT POOR
loner thread
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SheWantTheD
Veteran
Do you have any siblings?
Schizophrenic sister that only became schizo when I was 17, so barely ever saw her until age 17
SheWantTheD
Veteran
why didn't you see her until the age of 17?
she was living with her bf
Deep_Black_Conscious
Superstar
you'll be fine in the long run
many outlier IQ people tend to be late bloomers or due to their personality and the right environment end up being social butterflies
unfair but it is what it is
but in general high IQ people are late bloomers since they have to learn the social part of life at slower rates compared to their peers due to several factors that don't just include the stereotypical autism framing or being socially awkward
it is also hard for high IQ to dumb themselves down to "fit" in because it becomes exhausting after a while
this is why middle school to college can be hit or miss socially for high IQ people
the lucky ones flourish while the rest are almost always destined to be late bloomers
I'm not going to lie I distance myself from people who unfortunately are viewed as dumb or retarded in my mind whose dumbness/retardation has a negative influence on my life but stupid people can be fun socially or DANGEROUS
imagine being surrounded by people like this as a high IQ person on the REGULAR
that is society which is exhausting for someone who feels they are surrounded by idiots who don't provide fun but provide misunderstanding of who you are, and the typical danger that comes with stupid people
combine that with the fact that we live in an idiocracy society filled with hateful, apathetic, and very stupid people riddled with anti-intellectualism and you are going to to have to fake it to you make it socially if you are a high IQ person
many high IQ are more mentally mature than their peers at the same age so that also makes it even more difficult to fit in because of difference in mental maturity
no one wants to be the lame or nerd but at the same time you have to be yourself which in of itself is a problem
some people are lucky and find people who understand them or become popular and the rest like most high iq/outlier iq people are destined to be late bloomers no matter how hard they try
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sorry for this thread. I was just extremely lonely. I don't like feeling sorry for myself at all, but had no one to talk to so made a thread. I'm not an easy person to talk to or be around probably for a myriad of reasons including childhood and lack of love. I've lost a sense of identity these past two weeks. I think I should just isolate myself so I don't bother or upset people etc. even though it's the last thing I need. but I think I have to cause I don't even know anymore. whatever happens happens I guess.
losing my mum really fukked me up. only person I had that was constant in my life, only to find out she never loved me due to psychopathy
losing my mum really fukked me up. only person I had that was constant in my life, only to find out she never loved me due to psychopathy
great postyou'll be fine in the long run
many outlier IQ people tend to be late bloomers or due to their personality and the right environment end up being social butterflies
unfair but it is what it is
but in general high IQ people are late bloomers since they have to learn the social part of life at slower rates compared to their peers due to several factors that don't just include the stereotypical autism framing or being socially awkward
it is also hard for high IQ to dumb themselves down to "fit" in because it becomes exhausting after a while
this is why middle school to college can be hit or miss socially for high IQ people
the lucky ones flourish while the rest are almost always destined to be late bloomers
I'm not going to lie I distance myself from people who unfortunately are viewed as dumb or retarded in my mind whose dumbness/retardation has a negative influence on my life but stupid people can be fun socially or DANGEROUS
imagine being surrounded by people like this as a high IQ person on the REGULAR
that is society which is exhausting for someone who feels they are surrounded by idiots who don't provide fun but provide misunderstanding of who you are, and the typical danger that comes with stupid people
combine that with the fact that we live in an idiocracy society filled with hateful, apathetic, and very stupid people riddled with anti-intellectualism and you are going to to have to fake it to you make it socially if you are a high IQ person
many high IQ are more mentally mature than their peers at the same age so that also makes it even more difficult to fit in because of difference in mental maturity
no one wants to be the lame or nerd but at the same time you have to be yourself which in of itself is a problem
some people are lucky and find people who understand them or become popular and the rest like most high iq/outlier iq people are destined to be late bloomers no matter how hard they try
You can be a loner and still have friends, and bytches.
The Realist Perspective
Superstar
Im such a screwed up person I tend to drive women away when they try to get close to me.
I find a way or reason to distance myself from them. Or drag them through the mud to the point they hate me and leave me. I have a serious problem with women, I treat them like absolute dog shyt. I’m starting to think I actually hate women outside of carnal desires. So I take this out on women who want more than that from me.
This is due to me being hurt in the past by multiple women that has me on this vengeful path.
I’m hurting people who had no hand in hurting me and I feel immense guilt over it. God do I have some stories.
I find a way or reason to distance myself from them. Or drag them through the mud to the point they hate me and leave me. I have a serious problem with women, I treat them like absolute dog shyt. I’m starting to think I actually hate women outside of carnal desires. So I take this out on women who want more than that from me.
This is due to me being hurt in the past by multiple women that has me on this vengeful path.
I’m hurting people who had no hand in hurting me and I feel immense guilt over it. God do I have some stories.
The point of this thread is to say that IQ doesn’t mean smart, it’s about HOW you think and process information. Someone with an outlier iq can learn things much faster than anyone else can, due to differences in brain chemistry. But without adequate education, no matter how high your true iq is, you’ll never achieve much or even be that intelligent in a meaningful way because you don’t have enough information to make proper inference and use logic adequately and optimally.
No matter how high your iq is, you can’t even do high school maths if you’ve never learned the material. “Child prodigies” are mostly kids that have been accelerated by their parents; most of them aren’t actual geniuses, but kids with the privilege (and adequate intelligence) that were hothoused Bu narcissistic parents.
iq of 160 or more means you’re basically an alien to most people. No one can understand how you think or why certain things make you feel the way you do. This makes it very hard to find friends or girlfriends. We are social animals. NO human that is sane wants to live a very lonely live with no love, friendship or companionship. That can kill someone no matter who you are.
anyway thanks for reading
Anyone that says they have outlier iq yet they live a perfectly average life and think and process things in a perfectly average way is NOT a genius in any way. They are delusional! No true genius can hide even if they never mention their accomplishments or iq; you’ll know after talking to them for a while.
If someone says “I’m very smart, a genius; look at my accomplishments and grades”, They are midwits.
true geniuses shouldn’t even be classified as humans and should receive as much aid as learning disability people do, believe me! They are something else entirely, but no one recognizes this because they think a genius is a Human encyclopedia with glasses or a human calculator. Or someone famous with lots of accomplishments.
No matter how high your iq is, you can’t even do high school maths if you’ve never learned the material. “Child prodigies” are mostly kids that have been accelerated by their parents; most of them aren’t actual geniuses, but kids with the privilege (and adequate intelligence) that were hothoused Bu narcissistic parents.
iq of 160 or more means you’re basically an alien to most people. No one can understand how you think or why certain things make you feel the way you do. This makes it very hard to find friends or girlfriends. We are social animals. NO human that is sane wants to live a very lonely live with no love, friendship or companionship. That can kill someone no matter who you are.
anyway thanks for reading
Anyone that says they have outlier iq yet they live a perfectly average life and think and process things in a perfectly average way is NOT a genius in any way. They are delusional! No true genius can hide even if they never mention their accomplishments or iq; you’ll know after talking to them for a while.
If someone says “I’m very smart, a genius; look at my accomplishments and grades”, They are midwits.
true geniuses shouldn’t even be classified as humans and should receive as much aid as learning disability people do, believe me! They are something else entirely, but no one recognizes this because they think a genius is a Human encyclopedia with glasses or a human calculator. Or someone famous with lots of accomplishments.
Thtas not good enough, you've been trying all this time and look where its got you
It's time to succeed and do nothing less, all these things you want are there for the taking, you got to go take them.
Nobody feels sorry for you, dont feel it for yourself
Whose family aint fukked up to someone they dont define you, you can be a new person everyday
When you believe dumb shyt like women only want to average to mid-average men you need to change what you chasing, you cant get every woman but damn if it aint so many different types that you could go for and pull if you stop saying what you cant do
Introvert.... so what nikka, I am too
I dont want to go outside so I bring the hoes over
Mental health issues... they dont define you either, deal with that with shyt in your spare time
It's time to man up, no more saying what you can't, aint, or wont do. Eliminate those words from your vocabulary and take life by the horns
You’ve made a lot of good points and in theory what you’re saying is perfectly true but what I mentioned previously is affecting my life to no end. It’s okay to have a fukked up childhood If it makes you stronger and becomes your “friend” in later life. A different gravy when you did overcome it but you know they still affect you and most of it is out of your control; how could they not make you feel sad. I have a lot of things working against me bro but still I’m trying to find new solutions
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You cant change your childhood, your allowing it to continue to shape you
STOP THAT, your project is to say fukk everything that happened to me, my life is mine
then take control of that shyt
You cant change your childhood, your allowing it to continue to shape you
STOP THAT, your project is to say fukk everything that happened to me, my life is mine
then take control of that shyt