Was Albert Einstein and JFK sociopathic for doing that? Both married and both major womanziers.
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Were they cheating? Being deceitful repeatedly? Just becaise is mathematically genius...doesnt mean they value empathy. May be a tad narcissistic..
1st part; so thats where your suburban hate rant came from. you think you're superior because you live in a metropolis. got it. interesting you're in a real relationship with your ideals. Judging people where they're from is some dumb shyt. I grew up in 1 of the biggest cities in the world. There was tons of that nonsense within the city; to the neighborhood; to the block. The 1 thing that reigns true is the people who boast about that and let it be an essential part of their identity usually are lame AF. In my youth I had some1 try to punk me n it didn't go his way....he was scared n said "I'm from blah blah blah" like that would intimidate me or give him superpowers. It didn't.
I assumed based off what you were saying you were bachelor for life. If you're in a committed relationship how do you not see a potential in marriage?
second part; since you asked; no it's not "better." all those things you listed are fundamental in a functioning society. without them we would be in crisis mode.
third part; you couldn't be any more wrong. Being a father/husband/leader is the most THANKLESS SELFLESS role a man could have. You have no idea. IDK if you know your father or not or what type of relationship you had; but if he did you right you should pay homage.
There are broken and dysfunctional homes because life is hard and full of grey area. Nothing is black n white besides math. Relationships are hard. Communicating with other people is hard. It's not the fault of marriage. I'm a product of a broken home and take tremendous pride in having a loving righteous family. There are plenty of good strong families out here.
The fourth bolded part; you let that make you jaded. Thats a degenerate subculture. A subculture that is primarily YOUNG IMMATURE people 2 boot. You gonna go off the night life scene to draw a conclusion on society? Dawg the majority of patrons are so drunk n high they don't even know what they're doing
You speak on insecurity but I can tell all your stances are based in fear and a self defense mechanism.
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
Degenerates cope by assuming we're all degenerates and they're the only ones bold enough to 'live their truth'.
Yagirlcheatinonus
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If your money right and you take care of yourself physically you can play as long as you want. Them young chicks stay looking for sugar daddies. Them older chick stay wanting young dudes to blow their back age so age is a non factor. It’s a matter of finding someone on your level all around to build with.
jilla82
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that depends on several factors...
1. You & how they view you
your status, money you make, honesty, emotional maturity...basically how solid of a man you are
2. Her
Where she's at in life, whats important to her, her history etc...
there are a number of women that will work with you if you are a good dude.
im not saying youll be swiping on Bumble every night...
but some occasional strange that both of you agree to?
It happens
most men are spineless though...
want their cake and eat it too
Yagirlcheatinonus
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A lot of married women got dudes they screwing at work. Vice Versa
Yagirlcheatinonus
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Cakebatter
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I'm going to sidestep all the other benefits to marriage, and just address the issue of marriage and sex. Yes I see women that I want to have sex with, probably daily. I refrain from indulging my urges the same way you would refrain from certain foods when you value your health and physique. The only benefit to sex outside of the marriage is just variety, but Different isn't equal to Better. My wife knows what I like in bed, in way no other woman is going to learn in any short period of time. When I want good sex, I only look to my wife. My wife and I have been married long enough so we both agree that it would take far more than just mind blowing sex to make one of us contemplate leaving the relationship. But that's where all that other stuff comes into play. When you pick the right mate, it just works.
While my wife and I have never been swingers, I have some as acquaintances, and I personally think it should be much less taboo. It allows couples to indulge within boundaries they set. Also wives make insanely successful wingmans. That's how T-Pain and his wife do it. My boy said when it comes to swapping wives, its like borrowing a dude's Ferrari, while he drives your Lambo. You'll never loan your car to someone who trashes their car, and because you are driving his baby, he's more likely to be gentle with your ride. Yeah, Crazy analogy, I know.
While my wife and I have never been swingers, I have some as acquaintances, and I personally think it should be much less taboo. It allows couples to indulge within boundaries they set. Also wives make insanely successful wingmans. That's how T-Pain and his wife do it. My boy said when it comes to swapping wives, its like borrowing a dude's Ferrari, while he drives your Lambo. You'll never loan your car to someone who trashes their car, and because you are driving his baby, he's more likely to be gentle with your ride. Yeah, Crazy analogy, I know.
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The Realist Perspective
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I apologize for this thread. 
imagine if OP said the same thing but about women having extra dikk on the side
this battle of the sexes shyt is so corny
if you cant commit, dont get fukkin married
this battle of the sexes shyt is so corny
if you cant commit, dont get fukkin married