Married men who DONT wanna go in the house after work, sit in the driveway, or go to bar...quesiton?

[AZBeauty]

My friend who is also my ex told me this story. Her uncle is a doctor, very well off, very Christian, kinda boring likes sci-fi novels and board games.His wife who at the time was his gf pretended to like those things until they got married then became a different person after she got the ring because she knew he didn't believe in divorce. She also cheated mad times. Now she told my ex this candidly. Now it's his fault for not believe in divorce and this is probably not a extremely common occurrence, but it did happen.

They white? Sounds like a well trained gold digger.

 

[jadillac]

Do you not maybe at some point have to be realistic and take what you can get?

Settling or taking what you can get is always a bad idea.

It'll start off fine, but then it'll become terrible. Always.

 

[Voice of Reason]

My friend who is also my ex told me this story. Her uncle is a doctor, very well off, very Christian, kinda boring likes sci-fi novels and board games.His wife who at the time was his gf pretended to like those things until they got married then became a different person after she got the ring because she knew he didn't believe in divorce. She also cheated mad times. Now she told my ex this candidly. Now it's his fault for not believe in divorce and this is probably not a extremely common occurrence, but it did happen.

he needs to put hands on her

 

[Neuromancer]

They white? Sounds like a well trained gold digger.

The point I was making was that this has happened and is not unheard of.

 

[AZBeauty]

he needs to put hands on her

Or divorce her, she a fraud. But nope, he gone be sitting in the car, in the garage for 2 hrs after work 5 staring threads like these on the coil, scared to go in the house.

 

[Neuromancer]

Or divorce her, she a fraud. But nope, he gone be sitting in the car, in the garage for 2 hrs after work 5 staring threads like these on the coil, scared to go in the house.

He's a much older man I doubt he'd be on these boards.

 

[AZBeauty]

He's a much older man I doubt he'd be on these boards.

I was obviously joking. Lol

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

I read stories like this and realize I can never leave (or fukk up) my current lifestyle

 

[Neuromancer]

I was obviously joking. Lol

Ah.

 

[Easy-E]

I work with a couple dudes that will show up 30-40mins early, work past retirement. These are all older guys with grown kids. If my home life was that bad I'd get a divorce in a heartbeat.

I went through this for the last two years

he says he works overtime just to avoid that shyt

I grew up in a single dad household from 11 to 18, but, is it that hard to sit talk to ya'll's s.o.'s about that shyt?

With my job now, I can't wait to come home and play X1/PS4, surf the coli and watch ******* ****

I'm #GMB and couldn't imagine staying out to avoid a woman

What's @Mowgli 2 cents on this?

 

[Easy-E]

oh, yea

None of ya'll better be in our #GMB talmbout

" ahh ya'll gay...ya'll gon be the old man in the club?"

NO

we don't wanna be the old man parked around the corner like he's on a stakeout

 

[Easy-E]

That's crazy if dudes don't want to go in they own house. At least get you a finished basement and turn it into a man cave.

This shyt gotta be out in the 21st fukking century

 

[Geek Nasty]

It's toxic because you ALLOW it to be toxic. Control your own home.

 

[analog]

if u that miserable u need a divorce asap


ur wife should be who u want to be around and love. she shouldn't be a burden

That's some fairy tale shyt. In reality, you be with someone long enough and their annoying habits become less and less tolerable.

You add to that financial stresses, limitations that exasperate issues further, and then you introduce the biggest strain, children, and whatever patience was left completely evaporates. Free time, quality time with the partner, discretionary spending... All of it, gone or reduced to bare minimum.

Divorce is hardly an option as few men can shoulder the cost, so it turns into the old "you've made your bed, now sleep in it." There do come a point when some men truly get fed up and bounce though...

All in all... Get married brehs

 

[daboywonder2002]

It be like that sometimes but it comes from the kids in my experience.

As soon as you hit the door, daddy this and daddy that...it can get a little overwhelming after a stressful day. Especially if wifey home early, it's like "here you go nikka, it's your turn now

But it's by no means bad

Huh that's like the best feeling in the world. Walking in the door and your kids loving and hugging you like that. I swear man any problems I had go away after that.