Married men who DONT wanna go in the house after work, sit in the driveway, or go to bar...quesiton?

[Arcavian]

I grew up in a single dad household from 11 to 18, but, is it that hard to sit talk to ya'll's s.o.'s about that shyt?

With my job now, I can't wait to come home and play X1/PS4, surf the coli and watch ******* ****

I'm #GMB and couldn't imagine staying out to avoid a woman

What's @Mowgli 2 cents on this?

You talk to your s/o, things change for a bit, then it goes back to the same shyt

I started to realize that everything my ex does she does in circles, so to save myself from going continuously going in a circle with her, I had to get the fukk out

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I really do be sitting in the car chillin though


But sometimes it don't even be about her, just stressed and I need alone time or something pissed me off and I know she might make it worse.

I used to sit in the back of my car, smoke, listen to music, and drink even before her back in the day. I kinda do that now except in my backyard

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Thanks to this Atlanta traffic I don't have to do that, my two hours in traffic is my peace.

When you rather sit in ATL traffic than go home

I also go to the gym and just sit in the parking lot for a minute afterwards

 

[MoveForward]

WOMEN ARE HORMONALLY IMBALANCED

THE ONLY ONES WHO THRIVE ARE THE ONES WHO RECOGNIZE THIS N CHECK THEMSELVES

Hell yeah, you get the silent treatment some days and then other days, you're irresistible. WHO HAS TIME FOR THAT SH1T?

 

[hatealot]

Got a few guys at my job who prefer to work overtime , hate going home and they never see their paychecks. Their wives give them an allowance.

One of em even said he dont even want to work overtime cuz his allowance stays the same and his wife pockets the rest no matter how much he makes extra from base salary.

 

[ultraflexed]

I get off work 2 hrs before my wife

 

[daboywonder2002]

I distinctly remember a colleague who would look for any excuse to work longer hours so he didn’t have to go home.

His wife would call his cellphone and then his office line and he would be like “what in god’s name does this woman want? “. He would then tell his assistant to tell her he was tied up all afternoon.

I say this all the time. Being at work is like a vacation. Being home is the real job.

 

[Sccit]

Hell yeah, you get the silent treatment some days and then other days, you're irresistible. WHO HAS TIME FOR THAT SH1T?

AINT NOTHIN GOOD COME EASY BUT A LOTTERY PAYOUT BRODIE

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

People in that situation picked the wrong person and they're too scared to leave and start over

 

[Ohene]

Even tho u said u don't have a wife and kids this is truth. Women will sabotage your free time. Can't let them in on shyt cuz they will find a way.

sigh

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

That's some fairy tale shyt. In reality, you be with someone long enough and their annoying habits become less and less tolerable.

You add to that financial stresses, limitations that exasperate issues further, and then you introduce the biggest strain, children, and whatever patience was left completely evaporates. Free time, quality time with the partner, discretionary spending... All of it, gone or reduced to bare minimum.

Divorce is hardly an option as few men can shoulder the cost, so it turns into the old "you've made your bed, now sleep in it." There do come a point when some men truly get fed up and bounce though...

All in all... Get married brehs

This be troof.





And Not only that you don't want another man raising your children eitherI know i don't and no way in hell am I letting that happen. If that happens then i failed as a family man. At least that's my philosophy.



Choose wisely bruhs. But also good luck wit that. And don't think your friend or whomever online has the perfect relationship. These people are all human and have the same problems if not worse. Ain't no happiness for no one.

 

[sayyestothis]

I feel like this 3-4 days before my girl gets her period. Like clock work.

I usually just have a drink before I get home or exile myself to the couch with some tree.

Other people’s feelings are relentless and the last thing you want after 12 hours out in the world. Especially if you’re introverted and need time to decompress.

Felt same way and wifey even acknowledged it. She did the proactive thing and got an ablation. No more periods. No more punting a week plus of misery every month. Now enjoy 365 breh.

 

[Ohene]

Women aint just bytching to be bytching, you did something.

i bet your husband would say something different

 

[AZBeauty]

i bet your husband would say something different

He has great judgement. We dont have these problems. We love and LIKE each other. Now, cut the car off and gone head on in the house.

 

[Ohene]

He has great judgement. We dont have these problems. We love and LIKE each other. Now, cut the car off and gone head on in the house.

lol im not married. my girl lives a 30 mins drive away :-)