Millennial marriage statistics

[Kenny West]

From the HL thread...
https://www.thecoli.com/threads/as-millennials-near-40-they’re-approaching-family-life-differently-than-previous-generations.815437/

Brought the thread out the echo chamber eh?

 

[Bossino]

To be fair the “good “ guys are going after the same type of women the “bad” boys are going after.

Good dudes don’t want to pursue women in their lane because they deem them as too homely looking.

Gender wars basically boils down I can’t get the person I’m physically attracted to, so I’m going to bytch and moan on social media.

Everything boils down to looks.

This is cap to some degree, social media has gassed average women into thinking they deserve better just because attractive men will occasionally fukk them. If we want to pinpoint the largest issues in the dating game they are that women don't understand that willingness to fukk does not equate to willingness to date, and simps don't have any sense of self worth. You somehow fix those two and things drastically improve, but both problems will expand

 

[semicko82]

This is cap to some degree, social media has gassed average women into thinking they deserve better just because attractive men will occasionally fukk them. If we want to pinpoint the largest issues in the dating game they are that women don't understand that willingness to fukk does not equate to willingness to date, and simps don't have any sense of self worth. You somehow fix those two and things drastically improve, but both problems will expand

Video killed the radio star
Social media killed the dating scene

 

[Kenny West]

Exactly. Dude really tried to claim that marriage rates are down because "black men are scared of divorce even though they own no assets". Dude never responded when I called him out on it either

I called it in that original thread and he switched over to dapfishing from moist HL cacs.

He not gonna argue without a echo chamber. Which is a microcosm of the situation. Any time a man brings up a problem with the current setup they just want to turn it around on you and never acknowledge the problem. " You're just broke" "You hate women" "Right wing red pill" deflect deflect deflect until next years statistics come out worse and they're still searching for answers.

Finding the first part is tough brehbreh, but to get a woman to agree to being with you as a life partner without marriage , but seriously best of luck breh ideally that's how most men would want to give it up

Its possible

Im doing it rn

 

[Kenny West]

To be fair the “good “ guys are going after the same type of women the “bad” boys are going after.

Good dudes don’t want to pursue women in their lane because they deem them as too homely looking.

Gender wars basically boils down I can’t get the person I’m physically attracted to, so I’m going to bytch and moan on social media.

Everything boils down to looks.

This is women logic and hoe babble

Who made up this idea that a woman's looks and morality were mutually exclusive?

A bytch thats who

 

[ogc163]

Brought the thread out the echo chamber eh?

The strong arguments from TLR got me shook beloved, I was trying to avoid them all along.

 

[Piff Perkins]

Divided income streams
More money loss because of two single people wasting money renting a home
Divided money to possibly invest
No family structure to raise well adjusted (mentally and economically) black children
Black women encouraged to be single because the government will have their back
Black men discouraged to marry because the divorce/child support laws are the worst for us


Divide the Black Man and Black Woman. White Imperialists happy as fukk right now. That's the plan

That low black marriage percent is crazy. Given the lack of education and income, it makes no sense to operate solo like this. Increased marriage rates alone would rise a lot of young black people out of bad situations.

 

[Eclipser]

Yall arguing with a fakkit I have on ignore

Same here, don't know who it is and don't care

 

[Swirv]

Marriage has been good for me. Make more money, regular healthy meals, someone who has my back & children are cared for. It has its tenuous moments but marriage is a people business and it’s been rewarding for me.

 

[King_Sage]

Lets be real. I see the #GMB lifestyle spreading and all the jokes; so let's talk about the real impact to the black family as a result.

I say this because although folks aren't getting married as much as other demographics, children are still being conceived. It's all jokes now, but in 20 years we'll see how this plays out.

If we continue to demonize lifelong partnerships we'll continue to fall behind. forget generational wealth amoung other things

 

[Bushmaster69]

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[Bossino]

That low black marriage percent is crazy. Given the lack of education and income, it makes no sense to operate solo like this. Increased marriage rates alone would rise a lot of young black people out of bad situations.

As long as bw think they can do better and divorce laws are lopsided this is a moot point

 

[Kenny West]

The strong arguments from TLR got me shook beloved, I was trying to avoid them all along.

you did that in here too

 

[ogc163]

you did that in here too

#GMB don't make arguments they just go on emotion filled rants, so it's easy to avoid them.

 

[Bossino]

Lets be real. I see the #GMB lifestyle spreading and all the jokes; so let's talk about the real impact to the black family as a result.
I say this because although folks aren't getting married as much as other demographics, children are still being conceived. It's all jokes now, but in 20 years we'll see how this plays out. If we continue to demonize lifelong partnerships we'll continue to fall behind. forget generational wealth among other things

Take that up with the Futures of the community, and the women who choose then subsequently procreate with the aforementioned, and divorce court laws.

I don't think that was what he was trying to say, but I will. Yea it is Black mens fault our community is in disarray. Men take ownership and try to fix things. Complaining about external factors isn't going to fix our horrible statistics.

Y'all don't get that once 3rd wave feminism hit there is no "men taking control" especially when the black community has been a matriachy for at least a half century. Women will choose what they want before what they need. When they double back after it doesn't work out what they need more oft than not is no longer available.

As my pops says, life's about choices