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A standard response impending trauma is just freezing.

Why many rape victims don’t fight or yell



I haven't seen the video and don't know what happened here, or am saying this happened. What I am saying is we need to understand why people act certain ways when they are being attacked.
I don't deny rape culture exists and I certainly don't deny the things I don't understand about rape. But every case isn't rape. That's why I quoted the investigator's comments on the video. She was aware, playful, not objecting, conciously aware of the sexual activity, and does not indicate that she wants it to stop. Appears entirely consensual.

So when is the victim not the victim?
 

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Only people they're winning over are TheColi :russ: These guys are gonna get flamed in the court of public opinion. I bet they give up soon and possibly even face more sanction for the stunt.

Dude reading statement was all grim and serious like he was reading hostage demands. "Enough is Enough" :mjlol:


Coli Pundits got upset at this post but here we are less than 48 hours later :mjlol:



Told y'all they will give up and win no one over except the Coli.
 

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Don't be so sure. After the Missouri shyt, some state legislatures got hip and started passing legislation which would effectively ruin these kids lives if they pulled a mizzou again. The white man is a cunning muthafukka breh

This.
Could you specify this legislation or point me in the direction where I can learn more about this legislation that will thwart athlete protests?
 

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So when is the victim not the victim?
when the participant says "lets have sex,"its called consent.

The problem with what you quoted, and what we as men are taught (and its mostly men), is that we don't ask for it. We wait for it to "appear" to be good instead of getting confirmation.

Again, I dont know if she consented or not (I also dont know if she consented to being recorded or not), but it is important for us not to wait for things to "appear" to be okay and instead having the participants say its okay.
 

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when the participant says "lets have sex,"its called consent.

The problem with what you quoted, and what we as men are taught (and its mostly men), is that we don't ask for it. We wait for it to "appear" to be good instead of getting confirmation.

Again, I dont know if she consented or not (I also dont know if she consented to being recorded or not), but it is important for us not to wait for things to "appear" to be okay and instead having the participants say its okay.


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when the participant says "lets have sex,"its called consent.

So no matter how willing the female participant is unless the words "let's have sex" is said it's rape :what:

That's dangerous territory.

We already got people who want it to where if a women says yes but is thinking no or regrets it that should be rape :martin:

Or if the man and women are both drunk it's rape :scust:

Why does the man hold all the personal responsibility in a sexual encounter and the women none?

Rape is horrible but so are false rape allegations that can ruin a mans life
 

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So no matter how willing the female participant is unless the words "let's have sex" is said it's rape :what:

That's dangerous territory.
look at your statement and think about what you deemed as dangerous. That grey area isnt dangerous to you, but letting a female participant explicitly consenting to having sex is.

What you didnt deem as dangerous is why a lot of people get caught up in rape cases.

Or if the man and women are both drunk it's rape :scust:
where is the consent?

Why does the man hold all the personal responsibility in a sexual encounter and the women none?
This is a bizarre question

Rape is horrible but so are false rape allegations that can ruin a mans life
Of course, but false rape accusations are literally a drop in the ocean compared to rapes that occur and don't get reported.
 

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It's not illegal to fukk a bytch on tape :manny:
I think student Atheletes have to sign contracts that don't allow them to do anything that misrepresents the school. The are representatives of their university and colleges. If there is a contract that they signed saying that can't do it....:manny:

It happened at my school with a Cheerleader.
 
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