My Chick cant take Constructive Criticism at all

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:ehh: nice little twist, why is it women need all this word play? why cant we just say "i dont like your hairstyle"

You can, but only if she asks your opinion. If she's not asking for it, then keep it to yourself. If she asks how you like my hair tell her you don't and KIM. She get mad, tell her don't ask for your opinion if she don't want it.
 

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From a female perspective, I assume they react negatively because the man isn't supposed to notice any flaws.

You're supposed to be saying "all your curves and all your edges, all your perfect imperfections". If you say you don't like something about her matter of factly then that would probably hurt. Then some people get defensive when they get hurt, then the fight etc etc

Imagine if your wife/girlfriend looked at you without your shirt on and matter of factly said "you should go to the gym". It stings no matter who does it :manny:

I've had girls say that to me. They were right but I ain't give a fukk. Flabby n sick til I D-I-E
 

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brehs, is this an all woman issue? she gets so mad and say im disrespecting her when im just trying to enlighten her to an issue im observing.

id respect someone more when they tell me what i dont want to hear than to suck up to me and let me fail without telling me the truth. I figured you could confined in your partner if anyone in the world


am i right? my girl wants me to p*ssy foot around and beat around the bush and i wasnt really raised that way
yes its pretty much all women. so get use to it.

what i've noticed is that women in general(not all, but most). can take all the corrective critique you have to offer them when yall are just friends. the moment yall get into a relationship. the same stuff you usually say wont fly anymore. she aint having it. now some may say " you can tell me things that will help me" the the honest truth is. sure i could but i have to find such a soft way to say it i darn near cant say it. i mean basically you have to talk to your GF or wife like you are her grandmother/grandfather. you know how they are, "babbbby, well now you know what you've been doing over this might not be the best thing to do. but i'm going to let you decide cause i know you're grown now. ya know i love you any how baby."

thats how your woman wants you to talk to her. if you dont. get ready for the backlash. :damn:
 

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yes its pretty much all women. so get use to it.

what i've noticed is that women in general(not all, but most). can take all the corrective critique you have to offer them when yall are just friends. the moment yall get into a relationship. the same stuff you usually say wont fly anymore. she aint having it. now some may say " you can tell me things that will help me" the the honest truth is. sure i could but i have to find such a soft way to say it i darn near cant say it. i mean basically you have to talk to your GF or wife like you are her grandmother/grandfather. you know how they are, "babbbby, well now you know what you've been doing over this might not be the best thing to do. but i'm going to let you decide cause i know you're grown now. ya know i love you any how baby."

thats how your woman wants you to talk to her. if you dont. get ready for the backlash. :damn:

Stop coddling these broads breh. Man up on these bytches and they will respect you. The fact you're so timid to check their bullshyt is part of the problem.

Backlash ain't allowed in the dizzle Household. Shorty ain't even allowed to raise her voice at me under any circumstance
 
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Stop coddling these broads breh. Man up on these bytches and they will respect you. The fact you're so timid to check their bullshyt is part of the problem.

Backlash ain't allowed in the dizzle Household. Shorty ain't even allowed to raise her voice at me under any circumstance
:laff: :laff:

reading this then looking at your Fredo avi is :lupe:
 
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Growing up, my pops didn't allow fukkery in the house. Plus my moms always told me don't ever let know woman play you for a fool.

My parents was on that hard on how's shyt from the day I was born.
so telling your chick the hard truth is the best answer in your opinion

i did notice alot of people are sugarcoating around sensitive women, im only sensitive with my mom, i dont know any other way. Not saying im a thug or gangsta, but its hard for me to switch up my advice tips
 

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so telling your chick the hard truth is the best answer in your opinion

i did notice alot of people are sugarcoating around sensitive women, im only sensitive with my mom, i dont know any other way. Not saying im a thug or gangsta, but its hard for me to switch up my advice tips

I'm not even sensitive with my moms breh. I'd call my mom a thot if she tries to act fly with the gawd :ufdup:

I don't give my opinion on shyt unless it's something that's really bothering me and very few shyt upsets me. But if you ask my opinion, you'll get it.

Don't like? :camby:
Wanna argue? :camby:
Wanna cry? :camby:
Wanna give me the silent treatment? :camby:

I've told my girl to her face she's replaceable. I can't remember exactly what happened but she did/said something and I told her if you act like a queen, I'll treat you like a queen. But if you act like a bytch, I'll treat you accordingly. After the convo she apologized and said she'll stay in her place and act right.

Like I said, I give 0 fukks when it comes to a woman's feelings. Don't like it, turn dike.
 
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Stop coddling these broads breh. Man up on these bytches and they will respect you. The fact you're so timid to check their bullshyt is part of the problem.

Backlash ain't allowed in the dizzle Household. Shorty ain't even allowed to raise her voice at me under any circumstance

so what do you do when she does raise her voice? hopefully you don't get violent!!!
 
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