My Chick cant take Constructive Criticism at all

[Ms.CuriousCat]

No. Cause losing weight and changing my exercise routine is something I can manifestly do. Your goal in a relationship is to make the other person happy as well as yourself. If you're doing something that interferes with their happiness, yet you see nothing wrong with it, that's called an irreconcilable difference and grounds for separation. If me getting fat is due to lethargy and not health reasons, then obviously I wouldn't care enough about her feelings to get hurt by her comment. And that's the same with any other drastic change in my appearance. Some people will just do shyt and expect you to like it because they like it. That's not a healthy relationship.

You have an interesting brain

 

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

To use a wrestling term, nikkas can't break kayfabe in a relationship. Basically, you need to be as real year ten as you were day one. They can't meet your representative, they need to meet the real you. Not like I went out of my way to show my "true colors" but I didn't act funnystyle on shyt I know I wouldn't never do otherwise. I don't love p*ssy that much to not be true to myself. I'm not saying being a prick but you have to let it be known what you stand for.

That said and i'll admit this, we largely beat to my wife's drum in the household due to her being rigid while I'm easy going. You are going to have to accept some shyt like her OCD and shyt and she doesn't fukk with me when football/basketball is on. It's give and take. There are only a few times a year where I have to back shyt up and draw a line in the sand when it comes to disputes but honesty and communication is paramount to a successful relationship. If you can't be honest with this breezy, she ain't the one breh. I learned the hard way breh. We went through that so you don't have to go through that.

 

[Dwolf]

People in general can't take constructive criticism.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

She'll get over it. If you cant handle having some senseless conflict with your woman, you're in for a hard life.

 

[Non Sequitur]

I just got into it with my wife not ten minutes ago over this same shyt.



Me: You know...you don't have to type a whole sentence into Google. You can just type the key words you're looking for. Might save you a little time and effort

Her:


Then I jump on TheColi and see this thread. The Synchronicity

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

I just got into it with my wife not ten minutes ago over this same shyt.



Me: You know...you don't have to type a whole sentence into Google. You can just type the key words you're looking for. Might save you a little time and effort

Her:


Then I jump on TheColi and see this thread. The Synchronicity

same with me, breh, it be the smallest of things that cause a storm with these women

i feel your pain

 

[GoPro]

I just got into it with my wife not ten minutes ago over this same shyt.



Me: You know...you don't have to type a whole sentence into Google. You can just type the key words you're looking for. Might save you a little time and effort

Her:


Then I jump on TheColi and see this thread. The Synchronicity

My condolences. You have one of those "love to argues". Instead of her saying "Really? i didn't know that. cool" like a sweet young woman, she had to bite your head off for daring to offer some helpful advice. I know this type. I bush this type.

 

[Non Sequitur]

My condolences. You have one of those "love to argues". Instead of her saying "Really? i didn't know that. cool" like a sweet young woman, she had to bite your head off for daring to offer some helpful advice. I know this type. I bush this type.

Luckily the pro's outweigh the con's

 

[Ronnie Lott]

brehs, is this an all woman issue? she gets so mad and say im disrespecting her when im just trying to enlighten her to an issue im observing.

id respect someone more when they tell me what i dont want to hear than to suck up to me and let me fail without telling me the truth. I figured you could confined in your partner if anyone in the world


am i right? my girl wants me to p*ssy foot around and beat around the bush and i wasnt really raised that way

What race is your lady?

 

[Ronnie Lott]

To use a wrestling term, nikkas can't break kayfabe in a relationship. Basically, you need to be as real year ten as you were day one. They can't meet your representative, they need to meet the real you. Not like I went out of my way to show my "true colors" but I didn't act funnystyle on shyt I know I wouldn't never do otherwise. I don't love p*ssy that much to not be true to myself. I'm not saying being a prick but you have to let it be known what you stand for.

That said and i'll admit this, we largely beat to my wife's drum in the household due to her being rigid while I'm easy going. You are going to have to accept some shyt like her OCD and shyt and she doesn't fukk with me when football/basketball is on. It's give and take. There are only a few times a year where I have to back shyt up and draw a line in the sand when it comes to disputes but honesty and communication is paramount to a successful relationship. If you can't be honest with this breezy, she ain't the one breh. I learned the hard way breh. We went through that so you don't have to go through that.

Does you wife challenge you and disrespect you?

 

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

Does you wife challenge you and disrespect you?

Nope, that she does not. Actually, to some annoyance, she is intimidated by me. Her ex was a dumb nikka. I'm educated. She wants me to lead the household and I do. Women are still going to be women, but I don't get too much out of her. She's docile for the most part. Just like her mom and grandmom.

 

[El Bombi]

Rep+ and Dap because I'm going to use this picture in future posts.

 

[Dog Based Gremlin]

What race is your lady?

you know that answer.

Black but not a hoodrat, just argumentative

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Thankfully I never had that problem. If you ask me for my opinion you'll get it.

If you get mad, I'll just kick you out my crib with 0 fukks given so I can enjoy the rest of my night in peace

 

[↓R↑LYB]

I'm surprise she didn't hit you with the infamous "accept me for my flaws and all" line....you know how many times I've heard that line

And I bet y'all nikkas just accept that bullshyt huh.

nikkas need to learn the art of kicking a chick out the house. My girl was on the phone with her friend and tried to say something cute once. I got up, picked her ass up, opened the door, set her ass outside then locked the door.

You do that shyt one time and see if she don't get some act right quick as hell.