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[notPsychosiz]

She could often go offline to study

but often women use silence or announcements of their impending unavailability to elicit a certain response from a man. She wanted him to "act like he cared".

I see.

Sorry, but this is still fascinating to me. I was completely unaware of this 'going offline' thing before this thread.

I know girls with no social media accounts and extras, but the girls I know that do indulge in that stuff are always reachable. They'll text me back from a movie theatre to the annoyance of others. So thats crazy to me.

A girl I'm involved with could not just announce she is unreachable this weekend to me.
Thats 100% ridiculous to me.

I mean if she were in space, NASA would still facilitate the transmission from the shuttle.
'I'm Offline' If she wants to tell her friends that, whatever... but I'm not them.

 

[agnosticlady]

She could often go offline to study

but often women use silence or announcements of their impending unavailability to elicit a certain response from a man. She wanted him to "act like he cared".

Yeah that was what I was thinking. I think it was her way of trying to start a conversation since the first text about her talking about dishes was unanswered. Then the next text about taking a break from studying was another way of trying to start another conversation. Something like an open ended question, but not a question.

 

[agnosticlady]

Yeah I ignored her text. I ignored because when she said she going offline that means she shutting down her iPhone, FaceTime, landlines etc so why bother replying to a text she ain't going to read until whenever she decides to get back online or disturb her knowing how she is... I didn't intentionally miss her phone calls, her calls surprised me.

You guys should sit down and speak to each other about the miscommunication. The first text about her saying that it is her place came off as an apology, but I felt like she did not want to sounds weak or like she is raising the white flag so she said it in that manner. She was looking to talk which is why she texted a little more than an hour later saying that she is about to go offline. Like @PeridotPuss said she was looking for you to answer. She thought letting you know she would be gone with alert you. I think the bigger issue was just the miscommunication. I am sure if you guys talk it out and respectfully share what each party did that made them mad everything will be ok.

 

[PeridotPuss]

I see.

Sorry, but this is still fascinating to me. I was completely unaware of this 'going offline' thing before this thread.

I know girls with no social media accounts and extras, but the girls I know that do indulge in that stuff are always reachable. They'll text me back from a movie theatre to the annoyance of others. So thats crazy to me.

A girl I'm involved with could not just announce she is unreachable this weekend to me.
Thats 100% ridiculous to me.

I mean if she were in space, NASA would still facilitate the transmission from the shuttle.
'I'm Offline' If she wants to tell her friends that, whatever... but I'm not them.

Oh word? Your girl like I'm not allowed to be unavailable and he got NASA watching my phones

 

[notPsychosiz]

Oh word? Your girl like I'm not allowed to be unavailable and he got NASA watching my phones

lol... Nah, she can leave if she wants.
I just have quality standards as long as she is here.

Thats reasonable.

 

[Ezigbo Nwanyi]

I swear you have so many women on rotation I'm not sure if this is the chick you broke off the engagement or the foreign chick. But anyhoo, this chick seem petty and attention seeking but has her head on straight. The conversation seems typical of most woman and should not be of concern. Studying for the bar is stressful and the test is only held twice a year so her being offline is to study but you can text her here and there to show you care and check up on her.

 

[skeetsinternal]

You guys should sit down and speak to each other about the miscommunication. The first text about her saying that it is her place came off as an apology, but I felt like she did not want to sounds weak or like she is raising the white flag so she said it in that manner. She was looking to talk which is why she texted a little more than an hour later saying that she is about to go offline. Like @PeridotPuss said she was looking for you to answer. She thought letting you know she would be gone with alert you. I think the bigger issue was just the miscommunication. I am sure if you guys talk it out and respectfully share what each party did that made them mad everything will be ok.

along with me pissing her off about the dishes, I believe that was the catalyst for her also saying she is noticing some behavior tendencies in me that she saw in her ex and didn't want to talk about it on Friday due to her needing to be mentally focused on studying and we would "table it" until Monday. This the same woman that says I'm the best she ever had (don't laugh Coli) Its difficult at times to talk to her, you ever talk to an attorney...not only that but she "checks out" emotionally and physically with sleeping pills or Benadryl when she is stressed. Its pointless to drive over there and ring a bell. Ive already called both phones and no answer.

 

[wickedsm]

lol... Nah, she can leave if she wants.
I just have quality standards as long as she is here.

Thats reasonable.

I get what you're saying. The only time I've personally had someone tell me they wouldn't be able to talk for a weekend or longer they were locked up or deployed.



It's unreasonable to expect a response in some small amount of time as though the other person has no other priorities or things to attend to other than you. But even during a long busy stretch a" hey thinking about you, yes I'm still alive " text isn't too much to ask

 

[notPsychosiz]

I get what you're saying. The only time I've personally had someone tell me they wouldn't be able to talk for a weekend or longer they were locked up or deployed.



It's unreasonable to expect a response in some small amount of time as though the other person has no other priorities or things to attend to other than you. But even during a long busy stretch a" hey thinking about you, yes I'm still alive " text isn't too much to ask

Exactly.
It would never cross my girls mind to say she is unreachable or offline.

If she tells me she is gonna watch a movie or take a test or study, fine. I know what she is doing. But... if despite knowing she is doing that, I decide to call, she is gonna answer the damn phone cause just like she could be doing something important, my call might be important also.

I seriously couldn't imagine her even saying something that crazy to me. She is offline. Thats the kind of thing you say to your buddies or something, not your bf/gf.

 

[Strapped]

just wash the damn dishes you nasty ,you know what

 

[skeetsinternal]

I swear you have so many women on rotation I'm not sure if this is the chick you broke off the engagement or the foreign chick. But anyhoo, this chick seem petty and attention seeking but has her head on straight. The conversation seems typical of most woman and should not be of concern. Studying for the bar is stressful and the test is only held twice a year so her being offline is to study but you can text her here and there to show you care and check up on her.

I don't rotate women no more. This a new chic I met off POF almost a year ago, the attorney. The other chic we put things on limbo with is my child's mother who is Jamaican but thats another story.

 

[satireprod]

Bro talking as someone who just took the bar (July) that exam tests your limits as a person.It makes some people crazy lol It's highly stressful, so she may have wanted to go offline but since she probably really into you she wanted to know you cared like @PeridotPuss wisely said.

 

[martin payne]

fukk her sister, that'll teach her

 

[skeetsinternal]

She must be really stressed out. I don't think she has any reason to be mad.

She called me. You right, she stressed out over this damn exam

 

[skeetsinternal]

Bro talking as someone who just took the bar (July) that exam tests your limits as a person.It makes some people crazy lol It's highly stressful, so she may have wanted to go offline but since she probably really into you she wanted to know you cared like @PeridotPuss wisely said.

Yea, I just got off the phone with her. She said she has no appetite, she drank only coffee and no water smh. And here I'm thinking its me