Need some advice from you men

[DaChampIsHere]

you talkin about dikks again

But you are the one who brought up other nikkas running a train though breh. My original post was more about confidence and personal shyt. Yours was about who else a woman has had sex with.

What kinda train are you talking about then? Are you talking about her have sex with men or like, some little engine that could shyt? Do these men who are running trains not have dikks? Are they using dildos or something?

I am only talking about the things you are imagining and choosing to type yourself.

 

[Hawaiian Punch]

See reading this reminds of when I would deal with crazy bytches. It's like you don't pick up your phone right away and they acting all crazy and thinking you fukking half of America. Picture this scenario ma:

I'm chilling with my friend. He tells me he met some chick on okcupid and fukked her the first night. p*ssy was good so he took off of work to fukk her more. They were planning to go out but he had to see his daughter. bytch gets crazy and accuses him of fukking other girls. He was talking to her a few days later, but realizes this chick might be crazy. You know what I tell him? Leave that bytch alone. She crazy and already showing signs. It only gets worse. No p*ssy is worth that headache. Seek counseling ma, because you acting like the textbook psycho that men fear having as a baby mom.

 

[KinksandCoils]

Whose to say he really called out of work?He could be lying about that just to make you feel special.

 

[Sleepy Walker]

Your honest opinions are wanted.
This may be long

Okay so, I met a guy on okcupid. The day that we met, we had sex. That was what I planned on.
But instead of leaving right after, the guy wanted me to chill there. I ended up staying until about 2am. The next day, he called out of work, and we chilled again (he called out specifically so we could chill). Both days we spent a great deal talking. He kept talking about what he was going to do in the future, and including me in his plans. (Like telling me his plans for his birthday, and inviting me to go). And he also said he deleted his account on okcupid, since we met.
So that made me think it was going to be more than just sex.
So we talk/text just about everyday on the phone.
One day we'd made plans to hang out around 8. At like 6:30, he tells me that his daughter is going to come over, and he'll call me after she leaves. Now I should have just told him to hit me up the next day, because I was thinking his daughter wouldn't be at his house for only 2 hours or whatever. But I just said okay. By 11, I didn't hear from him, so I sent him a text letting him know I wasn't a whore. I said done thing about him (probably) fukking other girls. And then I told him I blocked him. I blocked him on my phone & on Instagram.
I'm very sensitive and seeing how we got together I felt insecure. Like if he had sex with me the first night, how many other girls was he meeting and fukking?
So 2 days later I unblocked him, and asked him if he was using me just for sex. Incredulously he said no, and said I shouldn't think that. He said the message I sent him was 'crazy', I said it wasn't because that is how I was feeling. We talked some more and he said he understood where I was coming from. He said he wasn't judging or complaining about me (having sex with him the 1st night). I asked him if he still wanted to talk to me, and he said yes. So we were good.
The next day (yesterday) we were texting, and we were making plans to hang out. But half way through the conversation, he just stops responding. It wasn't like we were arguing or anything, we were talking about where to hang out. That was last night at 6pm, I haven't heard from him since.
I text him at like 9, and said, 'if you didn't want to hang out with me all you had to do was just say so'. No response.
I don't know what to think.
Part of me thinks that he was chilling with (fukking) another girl, the other part of me thinks maybe he had his daughter again.

When we had sex, he kept talking about how good I was, and how tight and wet I was and things like that. So I would think he wouldn't miss the chance to have sex with me again.

I was so stressed last night, that I couldn't sleep, and I didn't eat dinner.

What do you guys think, and what should I do?

He was probably really feeling you until you showed you might be a stage 5 clinger or have a anxiety disorder that's always a turnoff so ifhe's not feeling you anymore it's your fault.

 

[Still Benefited]

But you are the one who brought up other nikkas running a train though breh. My original post was more about confidence and personal shyt. Yours was about who else a woman has had sex with.

What kinda train are you talking about then? Are you talking about her have sex with men or like, some little engine that could shyt? Do these men who are running trains not have dikks? Are they using dildos or something?

I am only talking about the things you are imagining and choosing to type yourself.

Stop bein passive aggressive and implying im gay and call me a fakkit so i can call you a fakkit back and end this lame convo...Ill continue to fukk bytches and not be gay and speculate if these women is ho's while you speculate on if im gay because you didn't have a point to make so "might as well reach for straws"

Do you,hold that rippers hand if it make you feel good ,don't let our opinions of what a ho is ruin what you love breh.

 

[NZA]

just be honest with yourself, are you really about that casual sex life? if not then stop fukking strangers

either way, write this dude off and start over

 

[Snitchin Splatter]

this would not of happened if you let his whole crew hit

 

[Axum Ezana]

curious...but how was the sex? how far did you go to please him?

I don't think you should have sex on the first date. only two things will come out of it....either he thinks you a ho/friends with benefits or wasn't pleased with sex and finds some other girl to please him.

 

[CACarot]

You got to be bred for the casual sex life. Girls say they want to do it or try and then when they truly learn what "CASUAL" means they hate themselves and how it made them feel. You got pushed to the point of severe horniness for being out the game for 6 years then try to come back with a statement game..now how that work ?.

Fact of the matter is you let him smash within hours of meeting you in person and to top it off you met online. Heres the truth about how guys feel about girls on social dating sites like okcupid, POf, tagged..etc. You are the bottom of the barrell and it should be the easiest lay. Cause for a girl to rely to online dating to find men when men will approach girls in real life all the time in any location is an indicator you have major red flags or undesirable qualities. Ex. Single mom, Fat, numerous children, CRAZY, neighboorhood slut, etc.

 

[Meadow]

He was probably really feeling you until you showed you might be a stage 5 clinger or have a anxiety disorder that's always a turnoff so ifhe's not feeling you anymore it's your fault.

Not to be cruel but I'm going to have to agree with this. OP, it sounds like you got anxious and assumed the worst immediately because you didn't get one phone call back. That sends someone signs of insecurity issues. I think that reaction would have been justified if it was habitual behaviour and you noticed him having the tendency of never keeping his word. However, that was a first time offence. You don't know if he may have intended to call you back or text back but things happen - especially if he told you from the get go that he was with his daughter for the evening.

You've gotta learn to choose to trust people in those situations and rationalize your actions instead of reacting emotionally. You jumped to the worst conclusions and that most definitely could scare someone away, especially someone who is being honest with you. If he's a father, he likely saw potential trouble with a future with you if it doesn't take you that long to assume the worst and react.

Just my two cents.

 

[DaChampIsHere]

Stop bein passive aggressive and implying im gay and call me a fakkit so i can call you a fakkit back and end this lame convo...Ill continue to fukk bytches and not be gay and speculate if these women is ho's while you speculate on if im gay because you didn't have a point to make so "might as well reach for straws"

Do you,hold that rippers hand if it make you feel good ,don't let our opinions of what a ho is ruin what you love breh.

I am not being passive aggressive or speculating on your sexuality. I haven't mentioned anything about your sexuality, not once. I'm just trying to figure out why you keep talking about other men when you discuss yourself getting p*ssy. Makes no sense to me. If you get the inference that you're gay, maybe you should stop saying things that allude to you being gay. Since you bring your sexuality up though, I don't know any hetero men who smash a broad and then think "Wow, I wonder what other men have been in here". You might be a really special type. Who knows. I'm not judging.

I had many points. It's just that you live in a world of imaginary scenarios. I said, if you ask the chick and she tells you she's fukking every nikka on the first date, you might have a problem on your hand. But so far, the only thing you've done is imagine nikkas running trains and what other guys have stroked. You deal in imagination and speculation. I deal with reality. You don't even have the balls to say you'd ASK a woman if she does first date sex all the time. You're too scared to even do that (probably because you don't wanna miss out on p*ssy that's more than likely scarce since you can't gain the fortitude to say what you're actually thinking). For you, it's not possible that a girl vibes with you, that she really likes you, that you all have similar expectations of each other, etc. and that her feelings and your feelings may lead to sex. Not saying that it's low or high, but for someone at your confidence level, that scenario is not feasible. I get that and that's okay with me.

"Hold that rippers hand" Lol. You act like you'd do something about it if I wanted to. At most you'd giggle and I'd be none the wiser of your giggles. You're too scared to even ask a girl about the imaginary nikkas you're making imaginary situations about. So I know you're not saying anything to another grown man on the street.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Behave like a whore then get mad when treated like one brehettes

 

[Still Benefited]

I am not being passive aggressive or speculating on your sexuality. I haven't mentioned anything about your sexuality, not once. I'm just trying to figure out why you keep talking about other men when you discuss yourself getting p*ssy. Makes no sense to me. If you get the inference that you're gay, maybe you should stop saying things that allude to you being gay. Since you bring your sexuality up though, I don't know any hetero men who smash a broad and then think "Wow, I wonder what other men have been in here". You might be a really special type. Who knows. I'm not judging.

I had many points. It's just that you live in a world of imaginary scenarios. I said, if you ask the chick and she tells you she's fukking every nikka on the first date, you might have a problem on your hand. But so far, the only thing you've done is imagine nikkas running trains and what other guys have stroked. You deal in imagination and speculation. I deal with reality. You don't even have the balls to say you'd ASK a woman if she does first date sex all the time. You're too scared to even do that (probably because you don't wanna miss out on p*ssy that's more than likely scarce since you can't gain the fortitude to say what you're actually thinking). For you, it's not possible that a girl vibes with you, that she really likes you, that you all have similar expectations of each other, etc. and that her feelings and your feelings may lead to sex. Not saying that it's low or high, but for someone at your confidence level, that scenario is not feasible. I get that and that's okay with me.

"Hold that rippers hand" Lol. You act like you'd do something about it if I wanted to. At most you'd giggle and I'd be none the wiser of your giggles. You're too scared to even ask a girl about the imaginary nikkas you're making imaginary situations about. So I know you're not saying anything to another grown man on the street.

Stop playing innocent...You never heard a nikka say if a woman fukk on the first night she a ho before?...nikkas been stampin ho's where im from...Why the hell ima ask a girl who i think is a ho and have no intentions of taking seriously if she a ho? Ill let you stick around and figure out if you wanna make marriage plans or not

I suggest you go back and read im not going to keep talking in circles with you about my opinion on what a ho is...I didn't say it wasn't feasible i said i didn't give a fukk...and no matter how exceptional I am...a woman that's wifey material to me don't make NO EXCEPTIONS...i said that shyt bout 4 post ago...Why you hell bent on me changing my opinion cuz YOU deal with chicks i would consider ho's i have no idea...And no im not a lame so i wouldn't blow up a chicks spot i thought or KNEW was a ho for some nikka i don't know....Ima give her that "" face and she gon give it back....sounds like you might wanna get used to that look as hard as you 'n in here,if my opinion hurtin ya heart that look gon shatter you when you see it a few times

I told you hold her hand if you want to cuz you act like been seeking my approval for the past two pages...if you wanna date/love chicks i consider ho's go right ahead breh

 

[Sleepy Walker]

Not to be cruel but I'm going to have to agree with this. OP, it sounds like you got anxious and assumed the worst immediately because you didn't get one phone call back. That sends someone signs of insecurity issues. I think that reaction would have been justified if it was habitual behaviour and you noticed him having the tendency of never keeping his word. However, that was a first time offence. You don't know if he may have intended to call you back or text back but things happen - especially if he told you from the get go that he was with his daughter for the evening.

You've gotta learn to choose to trust people in those situations and rationalize your actions instead of reacting emotionally. You jumped to the worst conclusions and that most definitely could scare someone away, especially someone who is being honest with you. If he's a father, he likely saw potential trouble with a future with you if it doesn't take you that long to assume the worst and react.

Just my two cents.

I used to have a Inspire 4G that had a weak battery and this girl I had just started talking to knew about it. She was on her Facebook on my phone and said damn I almost killed your battery so she knew it was fukked up. Every night my phone would go dead without warning and when I turned it back on I would have texts saying you're just using me, fukk you, lose my number and multiple voicemails in less than 5 minutes. The puss was fan-fukking tastic but her mental issues killed it for me in less than 2 weeks. She did thank me for the good dikk though.

 

[Solano707]

1. don't fukk on the first date if you aint about catching feelings
2. he's using you
3. again, he's using you
4. we men like to play head games, just like yall
5. don't sweat it, move on. if you just in it for sex, then keep it 100, do the thang and erase the number when your done.

I hope everything works out for you