Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

[Sassy]

Well you made it, that's good.
Lol what are the odds cloudy box is on time and you show up late

lol idk, beats me

 

[Milk N Cookies]

To me the way that Brooke's character was written she had to be the white one, she just had lots of black friends like her best friend and her gay co worker. Her boyfriend was nuts and the stuff he done to her I dont believe a black woman would tolerate. His rude mama, the abuse, the stuff he wanted sexually.

That's exactly what my coworker said

 

[Paradise]

That's exactly what my coworker said

So I'm not the only one that feels that way. I also wanted to say if you havent read Another time, Another place by Zane you should read that one. Had me going

 

[jeh]

lol idk, beats me

well she probably went looking for treasure, after all shes is the "sailor senshi"

you got a new avi, and didn't send me one.

you are a tease lol

 

[Sassy]

well she probably went looking for treasure, after all shes is the "sailor senshi"

you got a new avi, and didn't send me one.

you are a tease lol

I made my avi on an app called "FaceQ" o.o

 

[jeh]

I made my avi on an app called "FaceQ" o.o

I'll check it out, cloudbox says my avi sucks

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

I would. If you wait closer to Halloween you won't get the one you want.

Or it'll be too expensive. I get my costumes off eBay.

aww, thank you. I missed you so so so much, why you change yo name boo?

I didn't like Luciphen anymore.

Stop it right now. I want as much summer as possible. I will have Winter from November to April!

I don't want summer to end either. (I legit almost cried when I wrote that. I've longed for hot weather for so long)

But it's soooo hooootttt

we like it hot.

 

[jeh]

@Granite State

 

[Sassy]

I'll check it out, cloudbox says my avi sucks

Aww mah poor baybeh

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

@Granite State

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[CinnaSlim]

Am I bitter for not believing people when they make promises or say that they are gonna do something?
Like, the way Im thinking is not that I'm expecting them to break it. Just I always say "we'll see", because if they do keep their promise it'll be a pleasant surprise but if they dont then its like

I dont like to project into the future. I dont like to get my hopes up. I live in the here and now. Words are nice to hear, but they dont carry the weight that they used to. Im more interested in looking at your actions.

 

[philmonroe]

Am I bitter for not believing people when they make promises or say that they are gonna do something?
Like, the way Im thinking is not that I'm expecting them to break it. Just I always say "we'll see", because if they do keep their promise it'll be a pleasant surprise but if they dont then its like

I dont like to project into the future. I dont like to get my hopes up. I live in the here and now. Words are nice to hear, but they dont carry the weight that they used to. Im more interested in looking at your actions.

Yep and shows you been around cats that have done you dirty for a minute on top of that. If its not serious life altering stuff (which honestly rarely happens) I always believe people until they prove they can't be trusted on stuff like,that. Even if they prove me wrong I don't hold against the next person or the person after because they're different people.

 

[Paradise]

Am I bitter for not believing people when they make promises or say that they are gonna do something?
Like, the way Im thinking is not that I'm expecting them to break it. Just I always say "we'll see", because if they do keep their promise it'll be a pleasant surprise but if they dont then its like

I dont like to project into the future. I dont like to get my hopes up. I live in the here and now. Words are nice to hear, but they dont carry the weight that they used to. Im more interested in looking at your actions.

That is why this quote is my mantra: Blessed is he that expects nothing... For he is never disappointed.

If you go into situations with no expectations there is no room for disappointment. But sometimes you try to give people the benefit of the doubt and they just keep on proving you right.

 

[jeh]

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[CinnaSlim]

Yep and shows you been around cats that have done you dirty for a minute on top of that. If its not serious life altering stuff (which honestly rarely happens) I always believe people until they prove they can't be trusted on stuff like,that. Even if they prove me wrong I don't hold against the next person or the person after because they're different people.

See, that's the thing. I dont expect people to do me wrong, I dont expect for them to be great. I try to be as neutral as possible, and expect nothing. I just said Im not waiting for someone to fail. I just dont put much weight into someone's word until they prove their words are worthy. Kinda like "prepare for the worst, but hope for the best." Perhaps I should be more vulnerable?

That is why this quote is my mantra: Blessed is he that expects nothing... For he is never disappointed.
Sometimes you try to give people the benefit of the doubt... But they just keep on proving you right.

that's basically where I am now.