Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)
Smh
Finally figured out it was because he didn't want me to think he just wanted some ass and wants to maintain our friendship and take it slow
why is he so sweet
LeeDoubleLee
Pro
welp i ended up doing the ugly cry in my office at work. this last week has been hard as hell on me. i have a bunch of a$$holes for family members and i am just DONE. my friend was trying to walk me through this over the phone but i am beyond angry and disgusted at everyone. my only saving grace was that hardly anyone was at work so i could keep some damn dignity and privacy and i am one of those people that can calm myself down and get it together quickly.
Someone used all of my Shea Moisture JBCO shampoo. That's the only thing that works for my hair 
bust some shots.Someone used all of my Shea Moisture JBCO shampoo. That's the only thing that works for my hair
LeeDoubleLee
Pro
I want to shave my hair off-like do a complete do over. Problem is I'm scared my hair won't grow back lol
Foxy Brown
Andrea Y. Small Gardner
I did it and it was the best thing I ever done to my hair. It grew back longer and healthier in no time. I have since damaged it beginning back in April when I first started to flat ironing my hair regularly. Three months of damaged has messed up three whole years of being natural, smh. I'm thinking about cutting it all off, welp. I've been wearing hair extensions, so I haven't been able to nurse my hair like I should. I need a protein treatment so bad.
LeeDoubleLee
Pro
I rarely use heat in my hair so it isn't damaged I'm just bored with it.
but on the flip side I Don't think I can pull off short hair anyway and the styles I want require a relaxer. Then there is the issue of upkeep. If I think I spend a lot of Time and money on my hair now, I think cutting it will only make it worse.
I have to think about it some more.
Foxy Brown
Andrea Y. Small Gardner
Yeah, short relaxed styles does require a lot of upkeep. When I had one years back, I had to get my hair done every week and relax every 4 to 6 weeks because of thick new growth. Have you tried wigs? The mommy wig is great versatile one to try. If you're creative, you can do all types of short hairstyles with it. I had one and loved it and it's super affordable.