Norfolk is garbage; I went to go visit when my cousin was stationed there and vowed to NEVER go again. Someone tried to break into his place while we were there.
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HoustonHeat
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yo please tell him to not even think of staying in Norfolk
my homeboy had an apt there and they broke into it 3 times
the 3rd time they even took his family portraits off the wall
I think Chesapeake is the best area- it is not that far away and you dont have to deal with the tunnel--- no crime- decent mall
See, this is the starting point help I needed. Thanks Chaucer!
HoustonHeat
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We are about to celebrate our 9 year anniversary this fall, we did long distance for 4 years before and I enjoyed it. I'm not moving for a temporary gig that has an expiration date, I have a good paying career here (more than him) and I have to take care of his fam here. He wants me to visit monthly though, and I need ideas for fun things to do up there besides driving to DC. The beach looks
hope it works out.It wasn't the typo that I was talking about, it was the ridiculousness that NO long distance relationship can be successful. You can stand by whatever you want, but I'm still going to need you to have a seat thinking that.
I was being a bit hyperbolic, but overall LDR are rarely successful. It all depends on the persons involved like @Rusty Kuntz said.
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ExpensiveThrillz
Head In The Cloudz
i love the tingle that new shoes give me...these just came and im bout to strut
HoustonHeat
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I was being a bit hyperbolic, but overall LTR are rarely successful. It all depends on the persons involved like @Rusty Kuntz said.
I think you mean LDR.
LDR requires a certain level of trust and good communication skills, which many fresh relationships may not have developed well yet. If we don't last during this period, then we don't last. Might as well find out now and not when I'm married with kids and stuck with him. I'm not one to force something if it is not organically happening with sincere effort.
I'm about to go to town redecorating the apartment all feminine and signing up for hobby classes leddehs!
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Threatened to blow their asses away; I guess they weren't willing to take that risk (my brother, uncle and cousin were all there; all of them were in the military at that time).
What did ya'll do?
I think you mean LDR.
LDR requires a certain level of trust and good communication skills, which many fresh relationships may not have developed well yet. If we don't last during this period, then we don't last. Might as well find out now and not when I'm married with kids and stuck with him. I'm not one to force something if it is not organically happening with sincere effort.
I'm about to go to town redecorating the apartment all feminine and signing up for hobby classes leddehs!
lol yeah i'm at work multi-tasking like a mutha...
Ur right about trust and communication is key, and if its temporary then it shouldn't be a problem. I just personally know a lot of folks who have had LDR and damn near all of them have failed. I even have been burned myself. Its a real commitment tester.
I would have let him get into the house and beat him till he was soft like porridge.
HoustonHeat
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I don't think he and his patna were really about that life; they would have got that work something serious.
My uncle was a Marine and is certifiably crazy
SouthernBelle
#Feyonce
I had the most random dream about @illadope and @Phoenix_Knightly23. I dreamt that they were on a Love and Hip Hop type reality show. Phoenix was dressed like Joselyn from LHHA. They got into a fight at the studio because Illadope helped his baby mama deliver their baby and Phoenix got mad. She got escorted out and cried in the car. I won't lie, it was an entertaining dream.
So random.
So random.
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ANewClassic
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So, cleaning out my closet and getting ready to buy new clothes so I take my new measurements.....35-27-41 (* reminder to put this in my fitness log*)
When did I get so pear shaped?!?!
For those who do dress by their shape, here's a body shape calculator and some helpful tips about balancing the 8 different body shapes
Calculate Your Body Type and Learn How to Dress Your Body Shape
When did I get so pear shaped?!?!For those who do dress by their shape, here's a body shape calculator and some helpful tips about balancing the 8 different body shapes
Calculate Your Body Type and Learn How to Dress Your Body Shape
ANewClassic
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yeahisaidit
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Enjoying Baltimore's Harbor today. Should've been out here yesterday when the weather was much nicer....