Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)

[CinnaSlim]

Honey money phase probably wore off a bit for him, and its back to business as usual..aka me 1st! You should call him out on it, because if this is a problem for you now its only gonna get worse.

But yeah, he's probably just transitioning out of the HMP.


I know I did the same thing at one point in my life, the sucky thing is I had people from all walks of my life tell me I was screwing up. I couldn't see it though, didn't see it until after the relationship was long over.



I was so bad with this

I was like the best worst boyfriend at that point in my life.


You live and you learn tho

@MarsPunka is this his first serious relationship? I remember you said he wasn't very experienced.

 

[Paradise]

Is it cheating if I put country time in my detox water?

 

[Arishok]

@MarsPunka is this his first serious relationship? I remember you said he wasn't very experienced.

Yeah

 

[wet landscapes]

going through my usb...I had some piff on here

 

[thirdeye]

He texted me

 

[MoonGoddess]

Is it cheating if I put country time in my detox water?

Lmao yes it is.

 

[Rawtid]

He texted me

The white boy?

 

[wet landscapes]

I had a song that has seemingly disappeared from the internet
http://picosong.com/meNp
speaking of, if anyone can get a video or mp3 of a song called RemyPinkLadies by Bill Ding, I will rep you on sight for the rest of my time here on the coli

 

[Bless't]

Don't correct bad behavior with more bad behavior. You're going to need to have a discussion if you're feeling some kind of way. He may just be getting "comfortable" and not doing the same things he did to score you.
If you think it will cause an argument ask for "advice". "If a girl feels that her man is doing XYZ, what's the best way she should communicate that to him?" or something like that. I did the same to the guy I was dating because I got tired of him shutting down when it came time to talk about his feelings. Even he had to admit it was clever of me.

Yeah, I was going to say. She should just talk to him.

 

[thirdeye]

The white boy?

Yeah, I'm going to see where this takes me.

 

[Rawtid]

Yeah, I'm going to see where this takes me.

The pursuit of happiness!

 

[jeh]

I've had like 5 martinis and every chick looking good right now

 

[M'gann]

I keep telling myself 5 more weeks but I really don't know if I can do it.

She's driving me crazy.

 

[Paradise]

I keep telling myself 5 more weeks but I really don't know if I can do it.

She's driving me crazy.

You can do it!!!!! You've come too far to turn back now! Whats five more weeks?

 

[Ello_Vee]

I keep telling myself 5 more weeks but I really don't know if I can do it.

She's driving me crazy.

Do you have some kind of representative or liason who put you in the position? Someone who can advocate on behalf of the program that got you there? You have a limited schedule for a reason and that was agreed upon when you started. Do you have that in writing somewhere? She is trying to use you, which might be good if it was worthwhile experience, you were getting paid for your extra time, or you were seeing this as a future connection - and you had the time to do it.
Since none of that seems to be the case, you or the program manager or some other rep need to re-state the agreed upon plan for you to be there.