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Essential Official Random Thoughts Thread (Ladies only)
Ice cube...!!!I hope everything works out. Giiiiirrrllll i bet he is sexy and he has good manners. You had better try and snatch him up.
I'm gonna post some pictures soon. I have a idea that i think is gonna turn out to be pretty dope. If it turns out good tomorrow ill post it.
I am so excited to see!! I know it will turn out great.
Paradise
Too tired to think of something witty to say...
I've got my fingers crossed!
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
As a Gemini, I just can't vibe with this. What does us having an interesting conversation have to do with who Im fukking?
Are stimulating conversations now only reserved for girlfriends or after sex? And mad people were co-signing this.
This resonates with me because as I've said Im a Gemini, we like to talk. Secondly because a lot of guys think that Im easy to talk to and "catch feelings" that way. Like, is having deep conversations such a rare quality these days? If you enjoyed the conversation too, what's the problem? You do not have to fukk every chick you talk to, in fact you most likely will not.
Elle Driver
Veteran
As a Gemini, I just can't vibe with this. What does us having an interesting conversation have to do with who Im fukking?
Are stimulating conversations now only reserved for girlfriends or after sex? And mad people were co-signing this.
This resonates with me because as I've said Im a Gemini, we like to talk. Secondly because a lot of guys think that Im easy to talk to and "catch feelings" that way. Like, is having deep conversations such a rare quality these days? If you enjoyed the conversation too, what's the problem? You do not have to fukk every chick you talk to, in fact you most likely will not.
Men are insecure what else is new.
Paradise
Too tired to think of something witty to say...
As a Gemini, I just can't vibe with this. What does us having an interesting conversation have to do with who Im fukking?
Are stimulating conversations now only reserved for girlfriends or after sex? And mad people were co-signing this.
This resonates with me because as I've said Im a Gemini, we like to talk. Secondly because a lot of guys think that Im easy to talk to and "catch feelings" that way. Like, is having deep conversations such a rare quality these days? If you enjoyed the conversation too, what's the problem? You do not have to fukk every chick you talk to, in fact you most likely will not.
I thought "stimulating conversation" is the way you really get to know a person. I've had many of conversations with men that physically I wouldnt even bat an eyelash at. Their conversation and demeanor made them more attractive.
That is just asinine that they believe that they gotta be in a relationship to have "deep conversations." That just goes to show you the man that posted this mess probably hasn't had an intelligent conversation in his whole life.
These young men better wisen up or they are gonna be lonely with a bunch of fu** buddies. I feel sorry for majority of the men of this generation because they are just lost.
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
The guy that posted it has a big following on YouTube and so many people were co-signing, Women too.
philmonroe
Superstar
People don't want to know you at first. Lol you saying men lost but saying people want to know you at first? I think y'all all lost. Lol Most times a guy just wants to fukk at first then get to "really know" you. A sucker and or a person you meet in type of setting where your mind came into play maybe but somebody that you meet otherwise they ain't worried about no talking at first. That's just to get to the other stuff believe that. At least for me and I won't even lie about it. If you didn't look good to me I wouldn't give a shyt how stimulating your convo is. Also what really is stimulating convo? People talk about stuff that isn't deep and or boring most of the time anyway regardless of what they do so I think we like to overhype stimulating convo up. I mean to most non geek people stimulating convo could be a civil discussion of issues here since we are talking black people. Truth be told its not stimulating its just civil because nobody really says any thought provoking things just isn't the junk you see on here.
I think that's why dude is saying what he says and on top of,that to many dudes don't keep it real by knowing damn well they not talking to you unless its a chance for something but front like they really into for more. I'm not a double agent and I'm trying to do things so I don't have time for it.
As a Gemini, I just can't vibe with this. What does us having an interesting conversation have to do with who Im fukking?
Are stimulating conversations now only reserved for girlfriends or after sex? And mad people were co-signing this.
This resonates with me because as I've said Im a Gemini, we like to talk. Secondly because a lot of guys think that Im easy to talk to and "catch feelings" that way. Like, is having deep conversations such a rare quality these days? If you enjoyed the conversation too, what's the problem? You do not have to fukk every chick you talk to, in fact you most likely will not.
I hate all these lil social media "nuggets to live by"
Its just about being friend zoned cinna, all that "stimulating convo" talk is just word play. If you like someone like that all the convo's are going to be stimulating to you personally. You can take out stimulating and replace it with any positive adjective just about.
This is all about being friend zoned and less about stimulating conversations, those could be anything from video games, to sex, or the latest gossip.
Also deep conversation be it 5 mins, or hours is really hard to find. And if you do find someone that can engage in it, them being open enough to accept and not treat each other differently based on those deep conversations is even harder.
in the past 54 hours i've had about 5 hours of sleep. work was hard as fukk the first night, but tonight at about 5 am i got this not that weird burst of energy. and it got me thinking its crazy how your body adjusts to things. like you wanna be a vegetarian? withdrawal at first and then a pizza pie. you wanna go on a hunger strike, piece of cake. you wanna go to a job you hate, without sleep, with people you hate to be around , its cool i'll adjust, but bytch you gon have bags 
to be fair tho, i've slept about 42 hours of the previous 72 so it evens out. i really should be sleep now but my yin is anxious and excited while my yang is like "what ever, you obviously no longer care"
seriously tho, how the fukk do i get rid of these bags?
to be fair tho, i've slept about 42 hours of the previous 72 so it evens out. i really should be sleep now but my yin is anxious and excited while my yang is like "what ever, you obviously no longer care"
seriously tho, how the fukk do i get rid of these bags?
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
it's a shame. It's not hard to have a conversation. Most people just want someone to listen to them or offer advice.I hate all these lil social media "nuggets to live by"
Its just about being friend zoned cinna, all that "stimulating convo" talk is just word play. If you like someone like that all the convo's are going to be stimulating to you personally. You can take out stimulating and replace it with any positive adjective just about.
This is all about being friend zoned and less about stimulating conversations, those could be anything from video games, to sex, or the latest gossip.
Also deep conversation be it 5 mins, or hours is really hard to find. And if you do find someone that can engage in it, them being open enough to accept and not treat each other differently based on those deep conversations is even harder.
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I agree, also with me if there's nothing to talk about at the moment or its quite I dont try and force conversation. I'm ok will a few mins of silence, that seems to freak alot of people out. Like if there isn't constant and non stop conversation something is wrong.
philmonroe
Superstar
Its not hard to have a convo but what does a guy that likes you really get out of it? He don't want to talk to you most times before the sex he just doing the necessary evil. Lol. Dudes are being disingenuous oftentimes when they say they want stimulating conversations with women they like. They want something stimulating but not convo. Now if he don't like you yeah but if he like you FOH that's the way of suckers and dudes destined to post on here talking about chicks want thugs.
Paradise
Too tired to think of something witty to say...
I get where you are coming from. Unfortunately we live in I wanna test drive before I buy type world. I get that the guy is "being real" about the situation and just letting the ladies know... I want to get to know you but first you gotta give up the goods. But why does it have to be that way?
You notice that I put stimulating conversation in quotation marks and I done that for a reason. Stimulating conversation can be just about anything really. It's what you and the other person find interesting.
I'm not saying all of this generation is lost because of the fact they want to have sex before really getting to know a person... I'm saying that situation wouldn't work for me.
I guess you might as well skip the grunt work and get to down to business....
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philmonroe
Superstar
It doesn't have it be that way but soo many people are jaded from being online (look at the ad nauseam discussions about this on here) and sometimes even their own bad experiences. It makes you feel defensive where I don't feel a person has to be that way unless they can't trust their own dating judgement. I agree stimulation convo can be anything that's why I was wondering what it was to you. Sometimes people make it some big bad stuff when it could be cats talking about balloons but they both into balloons lol.
I don't think people need to not talk but truth is most times guys don't really want to talk until after they done had sex with you. The boy darkPhoenix is an outlier to me at least in my circle. Now dudes will go out and have a good time but talking just for talking sake fukk no that happens after sex more times than not or its about to happen soon. Last time I talked to a chick I was interested in with stimulating convo was when I was a teenager. I wasn't being real then and most dudes aren't now kicking that. All you need to do to know that stimulating convo across genders is a bunch of bullshyt is be real with yourself. How many of your closest friends are male? After that how many of your other female friends have good/great friends that are males and how many of them have all these stimulating convos with them. That's all you need to know about friendships and stimulating convos between the genders. That's not the norm unless you in the friend zone or y'all like each other and somebody scarred to make a move so y'all both just blabbering to blabber.